Chikoro chaendesa vakomana pasi here?
Chikumi 28, 2007 - Chikoro hachina basa nevakomana zvakakwana, nekudaro kushaikwa kwechido chevazhinji vavo mukusimudzira dzidzo.
Uku ndiko kucherechedza kwenyanzvi yepfungwa William Pollack1, kubva kuHarvard University School of Medicine ine mukurumbira. Maitiro aya anogona kuonekwa zvakanyanya muUnited States neCanada sezvakaita munyika dzakawanda dzekuMadokero.
Quebec hainawo musiyano: "Vanomwe kubva mugumi vakadonha varume," anodaro. Chiyero chekusiya chikoro chiri kuwedzera mumhuri dzinotambura: 43% yevadiki veQuebecers vanobva mumamiriro ezvinhu aya havana madiploma echikoro chesekondari.
Kunyange vasati varega, vakomana vanokuwana kwakaoma kuwana nzvimbo yavo muchikoro. "Zvisinei, vanowana rubatsiro rwakapetwa kaviri sevasikana", anoteterera William Pollack. MuUnited States, vana vari kupinda nechisimba mumakirasi akakosha â € ”unowanikwa vana vari mumatambudziko. Vanomiririra kwete pasi pe70% yenhamba dziri mumakirasi aya.
Tinodzidza sei? “Vasikana vakawanda vanodzidza nokungoteerera vadzidzisi vavo kana kuti nekucherechedza. Kana vari vakomana, vanofarira kudzidza nekuedza - nekuzviita ivo pachavo. Makirasi mazhinji haana kukodzera nzira iyi yekuita zvinhu. Somugumisiro, mukomana angafinhwa kana kuti asingazorori uye anganzi ane zvinetso zvounhu, kutadza kunyatsoteerera, kana kuti kusanyanya kuita zvinhu.2. " William Pollack |
“Vane mano mashoma kubva pakuzvarwa here? ", Inotangisa William Pollack muchimiro chejee. Nyanzvi yepfungwa haapinduri mubvunzo wake pachake zvakananga. Asi mienzaniso yaanopa kuenzanisira pfungwa yake inoratidza zvakajeka kuti haatendi mazviri.
Maererano naye, hurongwa hwechikoro hahuremekedzi zvinodiwa nevakomana. Nguva yekuzorora muenzaniso wakanaka. Kuti vagutse kuda kwavo kutama, vana vechikoro vechirume vanofanira kuva nenguva dzokuzorora kashanu. “Asi hazvina kuipa kana vaine imwe. Uye dzimwe nguva hapana zvachose, ”anodaro nekuzvidemba.
Kuyunivhesiti futi
Uku kusawirirana pakati pevasikana nevakomana kunoenderera mberi kusvika kukoreji. “Vari kuita zviri nani uye zviri nani nepo vasingabudiriri kupfuura makore gumi apfuura,” akadaro chiremba wepfungwa wokuAmerica.
Munyika dzese dzekuMadokero, 33% yevakadzi vane makore makumi maviri nemashanu kusvika makumi mana nemashanu vane dhigirii rekuyunivhesiti zvichienzaniswa ne25% yevarume vari muzera rimwe chete.3. Saka mukaha uyu ungangowedzera kuwedzera mumakore mashoma anotevera.
William Pollack anotaura ongororo dzevadzidzi vepayunivhesiti. Vaya vekare havape maawa matatu kuzvidzidzo zvavo mukati mevhiki. Vakadzi vaduku vanoita zvakapetwa kashanu!
Tamba kuti uve "vakomana chaivo"
Sei vana nevarume vechidiki vachisangana nematambudziko akawanda munzira yekubudirira muzvidzidzo? William Pollack anozvitsanangura mumutsara unokatyamadza kuti: “Vanonzwa ‘vakaparadzaniswa’ navo uye nenzanga. “
Dzimwe nguva vasingazivi, mhuri nechikoro zvinovadzidzisa kuenderana nezvinofanira kuva murume “akaoma, ane simba,” “ane njere”, maererano naye. Mhedzisiro: vanodzidza kuvanza manzwiro avo chaiwo. “Vakomana vazhinji vakasuwa, vakazviparadzanisa nevamwe uye vanokangaidzika kunyange kana pakutanga vachiratidzika kuva nehasha, vanofara kana kuti vane chivimbo,” anodaro mubhuku rake rinotengwa zvikuru, Vakomana Chaivo4.
Ngozi inobva yakura, kwavari, yekurasika pasi. Kunyangwe isu tichifunga nezvekupindwa muropa nezvinodhaka, kuora mwoyo kana kuzviuraya kwavanonyanya kuratidzwa, anoyeuka muongorori.
Batanidzazve navo
Chii zvino chokuvabetsera? “Ivai nekubatanidzwa mupfungwa,” anodaro. Vabereki nevadzidzisi zvakafanana, maererano naye, vanofanira kubatana nevakomana: kutamba navo, kuteerera zvavanoda kutaura… Anodaidzawo kuvandudzwa kwebasa revadzidzisi â € ”mukuchengeta vana uye 'chikoro â € ”vane basa ravo. inokosha kuvana.
William Pollack anokwevera kutarisa kune zviedzo zvinoitwa kusimudzira kubudirira muzvidzidzo kwevana vechikoro5, kusanganisira kudzidzisa. “Muzvikoro zvose zvakapinzwa dzidziso, vanhu vakasiira chikoro panzira vadzikira. Mukomana wega wega anogona kugadzira hukama hwakakosha nemurairidzi wake, ”anodaro. Kukanganisa kwave kwakakura.
“Tine simba kwazvo,” anoenderera mberi achidaro nyanzvi yepfungwa. Tinogona kushandura mafambiro… uye kubatsira vana vedu kwete pazera re4 kana 5 chete, asi muhupenyu hwavo hwese! “
Vana vane zvipo uye vanofara? Kuzvipira kuvana kunogona kubhadhara zvikuru. William Pollack anotiyeuchidza nezveizvi nekusimbisa kuti mamiriro erudo uye anodziya emhuri uye chikoro anogona sei kuita kuti vana vabudirire.
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Johanne Lauzon – PasseportSanté.net
1. William Pollack ndiye munyori we Vakomana Chaivo, bhuku rakapinda muchitoro chemabhuku cheUS mukupera kwema1990. Akanyorawo Mazwi Evakomana Chaivo et Vakomana Chaivo Bhuku Rebasa. Akapa hurukuro muhurongwa hwe13e edition yeMontreal Musangano wakaitika kubva munaChikumi 18 kusvika 21, 2007.
2. Shanduro yemahara, yakatorwa kubva Vakomana Chaivo : www.williampollack.com [yakasvika June 27, 2007].
3. Data kubva kuOrganization for Economic Co-operation and Development (OECD), yakataurwa naWilliam Pollack.
4. Vakomana Chaivo rakabudiswa muchiFrench: Pollack W. Varume chaivo, Varennes, Éditions AdA-Inc, 2001, 665 p.
5. William Pollack akataura nezvebasa raRobert Pianta weYunivhesiti yeVirginia. Muenzaniso: Hamre BK, Pianta RC. Ko kudzidzisa uye tsigiro yemanzwiro mukirasi yekutanga yegiredhi inoita mutsauko kune vana vari panjodzi yekutadza chikoro?, Child Dev, 2005 Sep-Oct;76(5):949-67.