PSYchology

Nzira yekukunda sei marwadzo uye chii chinoratidzwa kumunhu ari mumamiriro ekuora mwoyo? Vezvitendero uye vaongorori vanotenda kuti kutenda kunobatsira kubatana nenyika yekunze, kuwana tsime rerudo rwehupenyu uye kunzwa mufaro wechokwadi.

“Kwandiri, somutendi, mufaro unobva pane zviri pamusoro pangu, zvisingagoni kududzwa kana kutaurwa,” anodaro mupristi weOrthodox uye nyanzvi yepfungwa Pyotr Kolomeytsev. — Fungidzira nyika, isina chinhu, inotonhora, yatisingaoni Musiki. Tinogona chete kutarisa kusikwa uye kuedza kufungidzira kuti chii. Uye kamwe kamwe ndinoMunzwa nenzira yandinogona kunzwa nayo mudikanwi.

Ndinonzwisisa kuti nyika ino yakakura, chisiko chapose pose chisina mugumo chine Manyuko erevo dzose, uye ndinogona kutaura Naye.

Mupfungwa, pane pfungwa ye "rapport": zvinoreva kubatana kwepfungwa kunomuka mukuvimbana nemunhu kana boka revanhu. Ichi chimiro chehukama, kuwirirana nechadenga, kutaurirana kwedu - kusataura, kusanzwisisa - kunondikonzera kunzwa kwakasimba kunoshamisa kwemufaro.

Imwe nyanzvi yechitendero yeIsrael Ruth Kara-Ivanov, nyanzvi muKabbalah, inotaura nezvechiitiko chakafanana. “Kuongorora nyika, vamwe vanhu, zvinyorwa zvinoyera, Mwari neni kunondifadza uye kunondikurudzira,” anobvuma kudaro. - Nyika yepamusorosoro yakafukidzwa nechakavanzika, sezvinotaurwa mubhuku reZohar.

Haanzwisisike, uye hapana anogona kunyatsomunzwisisa. Asi patinobvumirana kutanga nzira yekudzidza chakavanzika ichi, tichiziva kare kuti hatizombozvizivi, mweya wedu unoshandurwa uye zvinhu zvakawanda zvinoratidzwa kwatiri patsva, sekunge kwekutanga, zvichikonzera mufaro uye kufara.

Saka, patinonzwa isu pachedu chikamu chehukuru uye husinganzwisisike yose uye tichipinda mukuvimba nekubatana nayo, patinosvika pakuziva nyika uye isu pachedu, rudo rwehupenyu runomutsa matiri.

Uye zvakare - kutenda kuti kubudirira kwedu uye kubudirira hakugumiri padanho repanyika.

"Muporofita Muhammad akati: "Vanhu, munofanira kuva nechinangwa, chishuvo." Akadzokorora mashoko aya katatu,” anosimbisa kudaro Shamil Alyautdinov, nyanzvi yezvechitendero yechiIslam, imam-khatib weMoscow Memorial Mosque. — Nekutenda, hupenyu hwangu hwakazadzwa nezvinangwa chaizvo uye zvirongwa zvakaomarara. Ndichishanda pazviri, ndinonzwa rufaro uye tariro yerufaro mukusingaperi, nokuti zvinhu zvangu zvepanyika zvinopfuura semugumisiro wekuedza kwangu muupenyu husingaperi.

Simba risingaverengeki

Kuvimba muna Mwari, asi kwete kuti uzorore uye urege kushanda, asi zvakasiyana, kuitira kusimbisa simba rako uye kuzadzisa zvose zvinodiwa - mafungiro akadaro kune hupenyu anowanikwa kune vatendi.

“Mwari ane gadziriro yake amene pasi pano,” Pyotr Kolomeytsev anopwiswa. “Uye pazvinongoerekana zvabuda kuti, nekupenda maruva kana kuridza violin, ndinova mushandi pamwe navo muurongwa uhu hwese hwaMwari, simba rangu rinopetwa kagumi. Uye zvipo zvinoratidzwa zvizere."

Asi kutenda kunobatsira kukunda marwadzo here? Uyu mubvunzo unokosha zvikuru, nokuti mimwe mibvunzo yose pamusoro pechinangwa choupenyu yakabatana nawo. Akanga ari iye akazviratidza zvizere kumufundisi wePurotesitendi Litta Basset apo mwanakomana wake mukuru, Samuel ane makore 24 okukura, akazviuraya.

“Ndakasangana naKristu pandaiva nemakore makumi matatu,” anodaro, “asi pashure porufu rwaSamuel ndipo pandakanzwa kuti kubatana uku kunogara nokusingaperi. Ndakadzokorora zita rokuti Jesu semantra, uye kwandiri rakanga riri manyuko omufaro usingafi.”

Kuvapo kwaMwari uye rudo rweavo vakamupoteredza zvakamubatsira kupukunyuka dambudziko racho.

“Kurwadziwa kunopa pfungwa yokuva wokutambura kwaMwari,” anotsanangura kudaro Pyotr Kolomeytsev. — Kunzwa kunyadziswa, kurwadziwa, kurambwa, munhu anonzwa kuti haagamuchirwi nouipi hwenyika ino, uye kunzwa uku kunoitika nenzira inoshamisa somufaro. Ndinoziva zviitiko apo, mukuora mwoyo, chimwe chinhu chinoziviswa kumunhu chinomupa ushingi uye kugadzirira kutsungirira kunyange kutambura kukuru.

Hazvibviri kufungidzira "chimwe chinhu" ichi kana kutsanangura nemashoko, asi kune vatendi, pasina mubvunzo kune kuwana kune simba remukati remukati. “Ndinoedza kuona chiitiko chose chinorwadza sechidzidzo chandinofanira kudzidza, pasinei nokuti hutsinye hwakadini,” anodaro Ruth Kara-Ivanov. Zviri, hongu, zviri nyore kutaura nezvazvo pane kurarama seizvi. Asi kutenda mukuonana “zviso zvakatarisana” noumwari kunondibatsira kuwana chiedza mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma zvikuru.”

Kuda vamwe

Izwi rokuti "chitendero" rinoreva "kubatanidzwazve". Uye hazvisi zvemasimba ehumwari chete, asiwo nezvekubatana nevamwe vanhu. “Itira vamwe sezvaunozviita iwe pachako, uye ipapo zvichava nani kumunhu ari wose—iyi nheyo iri muzvitendero zvose,” anoyeuchidza kudaro tenzi weZen Boris Orion. - Izvo zvishoma zvisingatenderwi zviito zvatinoita maererano nevamwe vanhu, mafungu mashoma muchimiro chemanzwiro edu akasimba, zvido zvedu, manzwiro anoparadza.

Uye apo mvura yemanzwiro edu inogadzirisa zvishoma nezvishoma, inova yakadzikama uye yakajeka. Nenzira imwecheteyo, marudzi ose emufaro anosikwa uye anocheneswa. Rudo rwehupenyu haruparadzaniswe nehupenyu hwerudo."

Kuzvikanganwa iwe pachako kuda vamwe zvakanyanya ishoko redzidziso zhinji.

Semuenzaniso, chiKristu chinoti munhu akasikwa nemufananidzo waMwari, saka munhu wese anofanira kuremekedzwa nekudiwa semufananidzo waMwari. “MuOrthodoxy, mufaro womudzimu unobva mukusangana nomumwe munhu,” anorangarira kudaro Pyotr Kolomeytsev. - Vese akathists vedu vanotanga neshoko rekuti "fara", uye iyi inzira yekukwazisa.

Mufaro unogona kuzvimiririra, wakavanzwa kuseri kwemagonhi akasimba kana pasi pegumbeze, chakavanzika kubva kune wese. Asi mafaro chitunha chemufaro. Uye mufaro wokurarama, wechokwadi unoitika chaizvoizvo mukukurukurirana, mutsinhirano nomumwe munhu. Kugona kutora nekupa. Mukugadzirira kugamuchira mumwe munhu muhumwe hwake uye kunaka kwake.

Kutenda zuva nezuva

Tsika dzemazuva ano dzakanangidzirwa pakubata: kutorwa kwezvinhu kunoonekwa sechinhu chinodiwa chekufara, uye kusavapo kwezvinodiwa sechikonzero chekusuwa. Asi imwe nzira inogoneka, uye Shamil Alyautdinov anotaura pamusoro peizvi. "Zvakakosha kwazvo kwandiri kuti ndisapotsa kunzwa kwemufaro kubva mumweya, kunyangwe kufinhwa uye kupererwa zvichirira pamusuwo nesimba rinoshamisa," anobvuma kudaro. — Ndichiedza kuchengeta chimiro chendangariro chokufara, ndinoratidzira kuonga kwangu kuna Mwari neiyi nzira.

Kutenda kwaAri zvinoreva kuona zuva rega rega mukati mako, mune vamwe uye mune zvese zviri pedyo, zvakanaka, zvakanaka. Zvinoreva kutenda vanhu chero chikonzero, kunyatsoona mikana yavo isingaverengeki uye nerupo kugovera zvibereko zvekushanda kwavo nevamwe.

Kuonga kunoonekwa sekukosha muzvitendero zvese - kungave chiKristu nesakaramende yeYukaristiya, "kuvonga", ChiJudha kana Buddhism.

Pamwe chete nehunyanzvi hwekushandura izvo zvatinga shandura, uye nekudzikama takatarisana nezvisingadzivisike. Gamuchira kurasikirwa kwako sechikamu chehupenyu uye, semwana, usamborega kushamisika panguva yega yega.

“Uye kana tichigara muno uye zvino, sezvatinodzidziswa nenzira yeTao,” anodaro Boris Orion, “munhu anogona kuziva kuti mufaro norudo zvinotova matiri uye hatifaniri kuita nhamburiko dzokuzviwana.”

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