Zuva rega rega tinomhanyira kune imwe nzvimbo, tichigara tichiverengera chimwe chinhu kune gare gare. Mazita okuti “rimwe zuva asi kwete zvino” anowanzobatanidza vanhu vatinoda zvikuru. Asi nenzira iyi yehupenyu, "rimwe zuva" inogona kusambouya.
Sezvaunoziva, avhareji yekurarama hupenyu hwemunhuwo zvake makore makumi mapfumbamwe. Kuti ndizvifungidzire izvi ini, uye iwe, ndakafunga kusarudza gore rega rega rehupenyu huno nerhombus:
Ipapo ndakafunga kufungidzira mwedzi wega wega muhupenyu hwemakore makumi mapfumbamwe ekuzvarwa:
Asi ini handina kugumira ipapo uye ndakadhirowa vhiki yega yega yehupenyu hwemudhara uyu:
Asi chii chiripo kuvanza, kunyange chirongwa ichi chakanga chisina kukwana kwandiri, uye ndakaratidzira zuva rega rega rehupenyu hwemunhu mumwe chete akararama kusvika makore makumi mapfumbamwe. Pandakaona colossus yakabuda, ndakafunga kuti: “Izvi zvimwe zvakanyanyisa, Tim,” uye ndakasarudza kusakuratidza. Mavhiki akakwana.
Ingoziva kuti doti rega rega pamufananidzo uri pamusoro rinomiririra imwe yemavhiki ako chaiwo. Pane imwe nzvimbo pakati pavo, iyo yazvino, paunoverenga chinyorwa ichi, inovanda, yakajairika uye isingashamisi.
Uye mavhiki ese aya anokodzera pane rimwe bepa, kunyangwe kune mumwe munhu akakwanisa kurarama kusvika pakuzvarwa kwake makumi mapfumbamwe. Bepa rimwe chete rakaenzana nehupenyu hwakareba kudaro. Pfungwa dzisingadaviriki!
Ese aya madotsi, madenderedzwa nemadhaimani zvakandityisa zvekuti ndakafunga kubva pazviri kuenda kune chimwe chinhu. “Zvakadini kana tikasafunga nezvevhiki nemazuva, asi nezvezviitiko zvinoitika kumunhu,” ndakafunga kudaro.
Hatizoendi kure, ndichatsanangura pfungwa yangu nemuenzaniso wangu. Iye zvino ndine makore 34. Ngatitii ndichine makore 56 okurarama, ndiko kuti, kutozosvikira zuva rangu rokuberekwa rechi90, sezvakaita munhuwo zvake ari kwokutanga kwechinyorwa chacho. Nekuverenga kwakapfava, zvinoitika kuti muhupenyu hwangu hwemakore makumi mapfumbamwe ndinongoona makumi matanhatu echando, uye kwete chando chakawanda:
Ndichakwanisa kushambira mugungwa kanenge ka60, nekuti ikozvino ndinoenda kugungwa kwete kanopfuura kamwe pagore, kwete sekare:
Kusvikira pakuguma kwehupenyu hwangu, ndichava nenguva yekuverenga mamwe mabhuku anenge 300, kana, sezvazvino, ndakaverenga mashanu gore negore. Zvinonzwika zvinosuruvarisa, asi ichokwadi. Uye zvisinei kuti ndingada sei kuziva zvavanonyora pamusoro pevamwe, ini handingabudiriri, kana kuti, handizove nenguva.
Asi, kutaura zvazviri, zvose izvi hazvina maturo. Ndinoenda kugungwa dzinenge nhamba imwe chete yenguva, ndinoverenga nhamba imwe chete yemabhuku pagore, uye hazvibviri kuti chero chinhu chipi zvacho chichachinja muchikamu chino chehupenyu hwangu. Handina kufunga nezvezviitiko izvi. Uye ndakafunga nezvezvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha zvinoitika kwandiri kwete nguva dzose.
Tora nguva yandinopedza nevabereki vangu. Kusvikira zera re18, 90% yenguva yandaive navo. Ipapo ndakaenda kukoreji ndokutamira kuBoston, zvino ndinovashanyira kashanu gore riri rose. Imwe neimwe yeshanyo idzi inotora mazuva maviri. Chii chiri muuyo? Uye ndinopedzisira ndava kupedza mazuva gumi pagore nevabereki vangu - 10% yenguva yandaive navo kusvika ndava nemakore gumi nemasere.
Iye zvino vabereki vangu vava nemakore 60, ngatitii vanorarama kusvika makore 90. Kana ndichiri kupedza mazuva gumi pagore navo, saka ndine mazuva 10 okukurukura navo. Iyoyo inguva shoma pane yandakapedza ndinavo mugiredhi rangu rose rechitanhatu.
Maminitsi mashanu ekuverenga kuri nyore - uye pano ndine chokwadi chakaoma kunzwisisa. Neimwe nzira handisi kunzwa sekunge ndave pamagumo ehupenyu hwangu, asi nguva yangu nevaya vari pedyo neni yave kuda kupera.
Kuti zvinyatsojeka, ndakatora nguva yandakatopedza nevabereki vangu (pamufananidzo pazasi pakanyorwa zvitsvuku), uye nguva yandichiri kukwanisa kupedza ndinavo (mumufananidzo uri pazasi wakanyorwa negrey):
Zvinoitika kuti pandakapedza chikoro, 93% yenguva yandaigona kupedza nevabereki vangu yakapera. 5% chete yasara. Zvishoma. Nyaya imwe chete nehanzvadzi dzangu mbiri.
Ndakagara navo muimba imwe chete kwamakore anenge 10, uye zvino takaparadzaniswa nenyika huru yose, uye gore rimwe nerimwe ndinopedza navo zvakanaka, asingasviki mazuva 15. Zvakanaka, ndinofara kuti ndichine 15% yenguva yasara kuti ndive nehanzvadzi dzangu.
Chimwe chinhu chakafanana chinoitika kushamwari dzekare. Kuchikoro chesekondari, ndaitamba makadhi neshamwari ina mazuva mashanu pavhiki. Mumakore mana, ndinofunga takasangana senge ka5.
Iye zvino tapararira nenyika, munhu wese ane hupenyu hwake uye purogiramu yake. Iye zvino tose tinoungana pasi pedenga rimwechete kwemazuva gumi pamakore gumi oga oga. Takatoshandisa 10% yenguva yedu navo, 10% yasara.
Chii chiri seri kwemasvomhu ese aya? Ini pachangu ndine mhedziso nhatu. Kunze kwekuti munguva pfupi munhu achagadzira chishandiso chinokubvumira kuti urarame kusvika kumakore 700. Asi izvi hazvigoneki. Saka zviri nani kusatarisira. Saka hezvinoi mhedzisiro mitatu:
1. Edza kugara pedyo nevadiwa. Ndinopedza nguva yakapetwa ka10 nevanhu vanogara muguta rimwe chete neni kupfuura nevanogara kumwewo.
2. Edza kukoshesa zvakanaka. Nguva yakawanda kana shoma yaunopedza nemunhu zvinoenderana nesarudzo yako. Saka, zvisarudzire iwe, uye usashandura basa iri rinorema kune mamiriro.
3. Edza kushandisa zvakanyanya nguva yako nevadikanwi. Kana iwe, seni, wakaita mamwe masvomhu akareruka uye uchiziva kuti nguva yako nemudiwa iri kusvika kumagumo, saka usakanganwa nezvazvo kana iwe uri pedyo naye. Sekondi yega yega pamwe chete yakakosha huremu hwayo mugoridhe.