Mukati
Kurambana hakusi nguva dzose sarudzo yekubatana: kazhinji mumwe wevakaroorana anomanikidzwa kubvumirana nechishuwo cheimwe rutivi kuti apedze hukama. Murairidzi uye gweta remhuri John Butler anotaura nezve mabatiro ezvinovava pakurambana.
Usatungamirirwa nekugumbuka
Hasha nepfundepfunde dzimwe nguva zvakaoma kudzivisa. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikamu zvekuonekana zvaunofanira kuita, asi kuita pahwaro hwechido chekutsiva kune mumwe wako ndicho chinhu chakaipisisa chaungaite. Kana iwe uchida kumufonera kana kunyora meseji yehasha, muise muchiedza chisingafadzi pamberi pehama kana shamwari, enda kunofamba, enda kudziva kana kutanga kurovedza muviri kumba, ndiko kuti, shandura simba repfungwa kuita simba remuviri.
Kana izvi zvisingaiti, edza kufema kwakadzika nekubata mweya. Izvi zvinoita kuti zvibvire kudzikama uye kusaita zvikanganiso pasi pesimba remanzwiro akawandisa. Kukurukurirana nenyanzvi yezvepfungwa kuchakubatsira kutarisa mamiriro acho akanyanya kuvharwa uye kuisa mazwi nenzira itsva. Hutsinye hwako hahuzodzose mumwe wako, asi nekuda kwahwo, zvichanyanya kuomera iwe kuwana mutauro wakajairika naye uye uuye kuzokanganisa.
Usamutsa bopoto
Kana kukakavara kwave kwenguva refu kwave kujairana nehupenyu hwako, uye iye zvino mumwe wako ari kutaura nezvekurambana kwekutanga, edza kuumba mhepo yakadzikama uye tanga nhaurirano. Sarudzo yake ingaratidzika seyekupedzisira, asi pamwe chaanongoda chete kudzorera hukama hwekare. Kurambana kwaari ingori mukana wekupedza kukakavara, uye pasi pasi anoda chimwe chinhu chakasiyana zvachose.
Buda pabasa rako remazuva ese
Funga nezvemaitiro aunoita mumamiriro ezvinhu ekupopotedzana. Kazhinji mabasa akagoverwa zvakajeka: mumwe mubatsiri anoita semupomeri, wechipiri anoedza kuzvidzivirira. Dzimwe nguva pane kuchinja kwemabasa, asi denderedzwa rinoramba rakavharwa, izvo zvisingabatsiri pakunzwisisana uye chido chekusangana nehafu.
Funga kuti hukama ndehwei.
Zvinoitika kuti hatidi zvakanyanya mudiwa sechimiro chewanano, pfungwa yekuchengeteka uye kugadzikana kwaanounza. Rimwe divi rinoverenga izvi zvine hunyoro, kunyangwe isu tisingazive yedu yekurudziro, uye, pamwe, nekuda kweichi chikonzero, inofamba.
Funga nezvekuti miganhu inovakwa sei muhukama hwako. Kunyange kana muchato ukakundikana, kuremekedza nzvimbo yako uye ndima yemumwe wako, zvisarudzo zvake uye zvishuwo zvichakubatsira iwe kupfuura nenzira yekuparadzana nyore nyore uye kuvaka hukama hunotevera mune hutano hwakanaka.
Nezve Munyori: John Butler murairidzi wemutemo wemhuri uye gweta.