PSYchology

Masekonzi gumi nerimwe ndiwo kuti zvinotora nguva yakareba sei kuti munhu asarudze kuona vhidhiyo yacho mberi kana kuchinja kune imwe. Nzira yekukwezva kutarisa, uye zvinonyanya kukosha - kuchengeta sei? Anoti murairidzi webhizinesi Nina Zvereva.

Paavhareji, munhu anogamuchira anenge 3000 mameseji eruzivo mukati mezuva, asi anoona chete 10% yavo. Iwe unowana sei meseji yako mune iyo 10%?

Sei masekonzi gumi nerimwe?

Iyi nhamba yakakurudzirwa kwandiri neyakadzama yekuona counter paYouTube. Mushure memasekonzi gumi nerimwe, vashandisi vanochinja kutarisa kwavo kubva kune imwe vhidhiyo kuenda kune imwe.

Chii chingaitwa mumasekonzi gumi nerimwe?

Heino pekutangira kana iwe uchida kubata pfungwa:

musara. Vanhu vakagadzirira kupotsa ruzivo rwakakosha, asi vasina kugadzirira kupotsa joke. Gadzirira majee pachine nguva kana usiri mhando yekuvandudza zviri nyore.

Taura nyaya. Kana iwe ukatanga nemashoko okuti "kamwe", "fungidzira", ipapo iwe unobva wawana chikwereti chekuvimba kwemaminetsi maviri, kwete zvishoma. Mutauriri achanzwisisa: hausi kuzomutakura kana kumutuka, uri kungotaura nyaya. Zviri nani kuichengeta pfupi. Ratidza kuti unokoshesa nguva yemutauri wako.

Pinda mukukurukurirana - bvunza kutanga mubvunzo wega, farira bhizinesi.

Shamisika. Taura chokwadi chinofadza. Kuputsa kuburikidza neruzha rwemashoko mumusoro wemunhu wemazuva ano, kunyanya wechidiki, kwakaoma, saka kunzwa kunokwezva kutarisa kwake.

Taura nhau dzichangoburwa. “Unozviziva here kuti…”, “Ndichakushamisa”.

Nzira yekuchengeta sei pfungwa?

Kubata pfungwa ingori nhanho yekutanga. Kuti kufarira mashoko ako kurege kuderera, yeuka mitemo yepasi rose yekukurukurirana. Tinoteerera kana:

Isu tine hanya nezvavanotiudza

-Iri iruzivo rutsva uye/kana runokatyamadza kwatiri

— Vanotaura nezvedu isu pachedu

- Isu tinoudzwa nezve chimwe chinhu nemufaro, manzwiro, nemoyo wese, nehunyanzvi

Saka usati watanga kutaura, funga:

Nei munhu aizoiteerera?

- chii chaunoda kutaura, chinangwa chako ndechei?

— Ndiyo nguva yacho here?

Iyi ndiyo fomati chaiyo here?

Zvipindure wega wega wemibvunzo iyi, uye ipapo hauzokanganise.

Heano mamwe mazano:

- Edza kuichengeta ipfupi, inonakidza uye kusvika padanho. Taura mashoko ane basa chete. Bvisa pathos uye kuvaka, dzivisa mazwi asina chinhu. Zvirinani kumbomira, tsvaga mutsara chaiwo. Usamhanyire kutaura chinhu chekutanga chinouya mumusoro.

- Inzwa nguva yaunogona kubvunza uye kutaura, uye kana zviri nani kunyarara.

Edza kuteerera kupfuura kutaura. Ita kuti zvijeke zvaunonzwa uye yeuka izvo mumwe munhu anotaura pamusoro pake. Iwe unogona kutanga hurukuro nemubvunzo pamusoro peizvi: "Wakanga uchienda kuna chiremba nezuro, wakafamba sei?" Mibvunzo inokosha kupfuura mhinduro.

— Usamanikidza chero munhu kuti ataure. Kana mwana ari kukurumidza kuenda kumabhaisikopo, uye murume akaneta mushure mebasa, usatanga hurukuro, kumirira nguva yakakodzera.

Usanyepe, tinonzwa nekunyepa.


Kubva pakutaura kwaNina Zvereva sechikamu chepurojekiti yaTatyana Lazareva "Weekend ine Zvinorehwa" musi waMay 20, 2017.

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