PSYchology

Muti weKisimusi, zvipo, misangano… Havasi vese vanofara nezvehoridhe huru yechando. Nguva refu December 31 asati asvika, vamwe vanhu vanonetseka, uye vangada kusapemberera Gore Idzva zvachose. Manzwiro akadaro anobva kupi?

“Ndinotorota nezvekugadzirira kwandinoita Gore Idzva,” anobvuma kudaro Linda ane makore 41 okukura, mudzidzisi. "Ko kana usingade zvipo?" Ndeupi rudzi rwekudya kwemanheru kubika? Vabereki vemurume vachauya here? Ko kana vanhu vese vakapopotedzana?” Kune avo vasingagoni kuzvirumbidza nekudzikama muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva, mazororo echando anova muedzo wakakomba. "Kusimba kwekukurudzira kwekunze, kusimba kwekufunganya kwemukati kunozviratidza," anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvepfungwa dzekiriniki Natalia Osipova, "uye zororo racho ruzha, mhirizhonga, mapoka evanhu uye zvinotarisirwa zvikuru: shure kwezvose, Gore Idzva uye spruce inogara yakasvibirira inofananidzira kuvandudzwa uye kusingaperi. hupenyu. Mamiriro acho akanyanya. ” Kune vakawanda, kunyange zvakanyanya.

Vanoisa pressure pandiri

“Tiri mudzvinyiriro huru yenzanga,” anodaro anoongorora ndangariro Juliette Allais. "Zvinoda kuti tiise nguva nemari inokanganisa kuzvivimba kwedu (ndichakwanisa kuita zvese here?) uye kuzviremekedza (vamwe vachandiongorora sei?)." Kana kuzvivimba kwedu kusina kusimba, chido chekuita zvose zvakanaka, izvo zvinoiswa kwatiri zvose kuburikidza nekushambadzira uye vadiwa vedu, pakupedzisira zvinotitadzisa kurara. Uye isu tinozvisiya kune chokwadi chekuti Gore Idzva rakakomba. Kuramba kupemberera? "Migumisiro yacho ine ngozi zvikuru: munhu anogona kunzi "akatsauka", anenge munyengeri," anopindura Juliette Allais.

Ndaparadzaniswa nemakakatanwa

Gore idzva rinogadzira kukakavara kwemukati kunokonzera manzwiro emhosva. “Iyi tsika yokuva wenzanga,” anoenderera mberi muongorori wacho, “inobvumira hukama hwakasimba uye inovaka kuzvivimba: nokuti tine basa redu pachedu mumhuri, tiripo.” Asi nzanga yedu yakatsamira kune munhu oga uye kuzvimiririra: yekutanga kukakavara kwemukati.

Zororo racho rinoda kuti tive vakasununguka uye tinokwanisa kumirira. Asi gore rose, takapindwa muropa nechitendero chokukurumidzira uye tinorasikirwa nokukwanisa kuderera.

“Zororo rinoda kuti tive vakasununguka uye tinokwanisa kumirira (vaenzi, mhemberero, kudya kwemanheru, zvipo…). Asi gore rose, tave takapindwa muropa nechitendero chekukurumidzira uye tinorasikirwa nekukwanisa kudzikamisa: mhirizhonga yechipiri. "Pakupedzisira, pane kupokana pakati pezvishuwo zvedu, kudiwa kwekunzwisisa, uye asphalt roller iyo mazororo aya anogona kutipfuura." Kunyanya kana mafungiro edu asingaenderane nekukwira kwakawanda.

Ndinorega kuva ini

Kuungana kwemhuri kupemberera diplomacy: isu tinodzivirira misoro yakaoma, kunyemwerera uye kuedza kunakidza, izvo zvinotungamira mukuodzwa mwoyo. "Zvakanyanya kuoma kune avo gore rinobuda rakaunza kukundikana kana kurasikirwa kuti vataridzike vachifara," Natalya Osipova anoti. “Tariro yeramangwana iri mumhemberero iyi inovarwadza.” Asi kuitira kunaka kweboka, tinofanira kudzvanyirira zviri mukati medu. "Iyi kupembera kwehuduku inotidzosera pachinzvimbo chehuduku, isu hatichaenzana isu pachedu," anosimbisa Juliette Allais. Kudzoreredzwa kunotishungurudza zvekuti tinorasika isu tiripo, tinokanganwa kuti takakura kare kare. Asi zvakadini kana, shure kwezvose, tikaedza kuramba tiri vanhu vakuru Gore Idzva?

Zvokuita?

1. Chinja maitiro ako

Zvakadiniko kana tikazvibvumira timene kuita zvisina maturo? Haufanire kutevedzera tsika mune zvese. Uye Gore Idzva, pasinei nekukosha kwayo, haisati iri nyaya yehupenyu nerufu. Zvibvunze kuti chii chingakupa mufaro. Rwendo rudiki, manheru kunhandare? Edza kudzokera kuzororo zvarinoreva, kure nenyika yekushandiswa. Uyu mukana wekufara nevamwe vanhu uye kubatanidza (kana kugadzira) hukama hwaunofarira.

2. Taura nevadiwa pachine nguva

Musati maungana patafura imwe chete, munogona kusangana nedzimwe hama mune mumwe musina kuremekedzwa uye muchibvumirana. Izvi zvichakubatsira kuti unzwe wakasununguka mune ramangwana. Nenzira, kana iwe ukafinhwa ne monologue yevamwe babamunini pazororo, unogona kumuudza zvine ruremekedzo kuti, kubva pakuona kwako, ino haisi nguva yakakodzera yezvakazarurwa zvakadaro.

3. Zvinzwisise iwe pachako

Gore Idzva rinonyatsoratidza chimiro chehukama hwedu nemhuri. Unonzwa wakasununguka here? Kana kuti unofanira kuteerera zvinotarisirwa nevadiwa here? Misangano nemurapi inogona kubatsira kujekesa basa rako mumhuri. Zvichida iwe uri mubereki mwana ane mutoro wekuenzanisa uye kuwirirana kwemhuri. Mitezo yemhuri yakadaro ine mutoro mukuru waizogoverwa zviri nani navamwe.

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