Nzira yekuwana sei chiyero chakanaka pakati pe "kuda" uye "kuda"? Iyi ndeimwe yemibvunzo inowanzoitika kune wepfungwa, iyi ndiyo imwe yeanonyanya kukosha nyaya dzekudzidzisa. Pazasi ndinopokana pamuenzaniso … kudzidza kuchovha bhasikoro. Nezvevana, asi chaizvo nezvevakuru zvakare.
Akadzidzisa vana vake vaduku kuchovha bhasikoro (mukomana ane makore manomwe, musikana ane 7). Kwenguva refu vakakumbira bhasikoro, uye pakupedzisira, vabereki vakakudzwa. Zvakatora 5 kushanda kwe4 - 30 maminetsi e "pure" skating, inyaya iri nyore. Asi iyo yaive inonakidza yepfungwa uye yekudzidzisa musangano - kutaura zvazviri, hurongwa hwese hwaive hwekuwana chiyero pakati pe "ndinoda" uye "ndinoda", chiyero icho chatinowanzo shaya maererano kwete nevana chete, asiwo isu pachedu. . Mushumo une “mashoko enyanzvi dzepfungwa” ndewekuti utarise.
Saka, takabuda. Matinji mashoma akatsveyama - vana vari pamabhasikoro, uye kumurume wangu neni, kumhanya kwakanaka senge uku kuri pedyo. Ivo vanokanganwa nezve pedals, zvino nezve chidhiraivho, vobva vawira kuruboshwe, ipapo kurudyi, kunze kwetsika ivo vanonetsekana "kusvika kudiki rechinomwe." Zvinhu zvinonakidza zviri kuuya nekukurumidza. "Ndinotya - ndakadonha - ndakakwenya - zvinorwadza - handikwanise ... handidi!" Amai nababa vanobata zvakasimba kurova, tinoratidza "kunzwisisa" uye "pedagogism" mumweya we "Kushivirira uye basa richakuya zvose", "Iye chete asingaiti chinhu haana kukanganisa", "Kuburikidza neminzwa kune nyeredzi" ( zvese mu "childish" musiyano, hongu), zvichingodaro uye zvichingodaro. Hapana chekuvharisa, asi vana vedu vakangwara, uye, hongu, ivo vachawana nzira inoshanda yekubatanidza basa. Nguva yechokwadi inouya - "HANDIDI!" Siginicha "Handidi!", pamberi apo chero mudzidzisi anozviremekedza wekutungamira kwevanhu achamira achishamisika. Kupikisa “I don’t want” with gu.ey force — “kudzvanyirirwa kwehunhu hwemwana” nemhedzisiro yese, horror-horror-horror. Unogona kunyengerera, unogona kukurudzira, unogona kutodzokera pasi, asi kumanikidza - kwete, kwete ...
Zvakadaro, ini nemurume wangu, nehunhu hwedu hwese, tinopesana nehunhu hwakadaro kana hwava "hupenzi uye husina tsitsi." Isu tinozivawo vana vedu, uye tinoziva kuti vakasimba, vane hutano uye vakakura zvakanaka. Hazviiti chete kushandisa simba kwavari, asi zvakakosha.
“Zvino handina basa nazvo kuti unoda kudzidzira kuchovha here kana kuti kwete. Kana iwe ukadzidza kuchovha zvakanaka, haugone kuchovha bhasikoro zvakare muhupenyu hwako. (Ndiri kunyepa, ndinoziva kuda kwavo kufamba-vacharamba vakatasva.) Asi kusvikira wadzidza, iwe uchadzidzira sezvandinotaura. Nhasi, isu hatisi kuzoenda kumba kudzamara wasvika kubva panguva ino kusvika ipapo - negumbo rakatsetseka, uye iwe unoshandura mapedhi sezvaitarisirwa. (Cherechedza: Ndakaisa basa rakaoma asi rinogoneka, ndinoziva hunhu hwavo hwemuviri nepfungwa, ndinoziva zvavanokwanisa kuita. Chikanganiso apa chingave chiri chese kuwedzeredza kugona kwemwana "Ndiye akasimba wangu, ane hunyanzvi uye akangwara kwazvo", uye kurerutsa zvavo «Murombo chinhu, aneta»). Saka, sezvo iwe ucharamba uchikwira kusvikira wapedza basa racho, ndinokupa zano kuti uite nekunyemwerera uye chiso chakajeka. (Nguva nenguva mukuita izvi ndinoyeuchidza nenzwi guru: "Kunyanya kufara - chiso - kunyemwerera - waita zvakanaka!")
Heino kutaura kwakadai - kuomarara kwangu "kufanirwa" maringe ne "Handidi" mwana. Ndinoziva kuti iye zvino havadi kutamba (uye havadi), kwete nokuti nyaya yacho haifadzi kana kuti haina basa kwavari, asi nekuda kwekuti havadi kukunda matambudziko, vanoratidza kushaya simba. Kana iwe ukamanikidza zvishoma (kumanikidza) - haizongove inyanzvi yekuchovha bhasikoro (iyo, mumusimboti, haina kukosha kudaro), pachava neimwe budiriro yehunyanzvi hwekukunda, kuzvivimba, kugona kusazvipira. kune zvipingamupinyi. Ndinofanirawo kutaura kuti handingaite zvehasha zvakadaro nemwana wandisingazivi. Chekutanga, ini handina kuonana, kuvimba nemutorwa, uye chechipiri, ini handisati ndaziva kugona kwake, uye kutaura zvazviri ndinogona kudzvanya nekurerutsa. Iyi inguva yakakomba: kana mutarisiri (mubereki) wemwana achiziva, anonzwisisa, haanzwi zvakanaka, kana kana pasina kushamwaridzana kwakanaka, zviri nani kuderedza pane kusvina. Nezve iyi aphorism: "Hauna kodzero yekuranga kusvika wakunda moyo wemwana. Asi kana wakunda, hauna simba rokurega kuranga.
Kazhinji, sezvandakataura pakutanga kwechinyorwa, vana vakadzidza kuchovha. Sezvo ini nomurume wangu takasindimara "takakotama mutsara wedu" (uye pasina kusava nechokwadi mukati), vakakurumidza kuona kuti zvakanga zvisingabatsiri kurova misoro yedu kumadziro - ndokutanga kudzidzisa. Kushingairira, nechiso chakajeka uye kunyemwerera, kuzvipira zvachose kumuitiro pasina kupikiswa kwemukati. Uye apo chimwe chinhu chakatanga kushanda - "mafungiro akawedzera." Zvino vanochovha.
Saka, kuchovha bhasikoro kuri nyore chaizvo. Uye hupenyu hwakafanana, bhasikoro chete ndiro rakanyanya kuoma. Basa racho rakafanana: kwete kukungurukira kuruboshwe kana kurudyi, asi kuchengeta chidhiraivho kunyange uye pedal sezvainofanira - kuchengetedza kuenzana kwe "zvakakosha" uye "kuda".
Liana Kim mudzidzisi akachenjera uye ane tarenda, uye ini ndingapa zano rinotevera Mitemo yechinyorwa chake, chaizvo pahwaro hweruzivo rwake:
- Mukudzidzisa, tinoisa mabasa anogoneka chete, asi tinosarudza kugona kwete nekuchema uye kutambura kwevana vedu, asi kubva muruzivo chairwo.
- Kana mwana akapiwa basa, rinofanira kupedzwa. Hapana kunyengetedza uye nhaurirano: pasina nguva yataurwa pane kuita. Kusvikira basa rapera, mwana haazove nemamwe mabasa, mitambo uye varaidzo.
- Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechekutevera chimiro: kunyemwerera, chiso chinofadza uye mazwi emwana. Hazvibviri kukwira (kunyangwe mukudzidzira maitiro) nechiso chisina kugutsikana kana kusafara, mazwi anonzwisa tsitsi. Kuchovha kunomira. Asi yeuka kuti basa rinofanira kupedzwa, uye hapangave nemitambo yekunze uye varaidzo.
- Mabasa anokosha anofanira kutengeswa zvikuru: vana vaida kuchovha mabhasikoro, zvaienderana nesu vabereki kuti taivatengera mabhasikoro here kana kuti kwete. Naizvozvo, zvakanga zvakarurama kubvumirana pachine nguva mberi, ndiko kuti, kubvumirana pachimiro chacho. “Tinobvumirana kuti 1) Kuchovha harisi basa riri nyore, zvinogona kurwadza kudonha uye kuneta nekutsika-tsika. Tinozviziva uye hatinyunyuti pamusoro pazvo. 2) Patinodzidza kuchovha, tine chiso chinofadza nekunyemwerera. Panogona kunge pasina munhu asingagutsikane uye asingafari. 3) Isu tinodzidzisa kwemaminitsi makumi matatu: kwete zvishoma, kuitira kuti tirege kuvhara, uye kwete zvakare, kuitira kuti vana kana vabereki vasaneta. 30) Uye kana ndikasaita izvi, handizovi nokutenda mune ramangwana.
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