"Enda mberi, rudo uye ita bhizinesi"
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Pandakanga ndava nemakore 20, ndakapedza kudzidza payunivhesiti huru yezvoupfumi munyika yacho, ndikapinda mumakambani akanakisisa, uye ramangwana rakajeka rekambani uye basa rinoenderana nebasa rakanga rava mberi.
Zvino kwakava neroorano nokuberekwa kwomwana wokutanga. Zviitiko izvi zvaisava nguva dzinofadza dzehupenyu hwangu, asi kutsanangura hupenyu uhu. Nokukurumidza mwanakomana wechipiri nomwanasikana muduku vakaoneka mumhuri yedu. Ndave nemakore gumi ndichigara nevana nevana, mumhuri yangu uye kubasa kwangu. Kwemakore gumi zvino ndave ndichigara, ndichidzidza uye ndichishanda, ndichirangarira nekudzidza nyika inoshamisa yehudiki, ndichiongorora nyika ino. Mabhuku mazhinji, makosi, varairidzi. Uye - kufunga, kufunga, kufunga ... Nokuti mukudzidzisa haugone kutsiva pfungwa yako nechinhu chero chipi zvacho, pasina nzira, kana ruzivo, kana ruzivo. “Ndinoda kuti unzwisise kuti hapana bhuku, hapana chiremba anogona kutsiva pfungwa yako yokurarama, maonero ako pachako. (…) Mukusurukirwa kwakachenjera - ramba wakamuka ”(J. Korchak). Kusika chaiko kwakatanga, uko hakuna rimwe basa uye basa rinogona kufananidzwa neni.
Pane imwe nguva yakanaka, ndakaona kuti ndinogona kushanda nevamwe vana - ndine chimwe chinhu chokugovera, ndine chimwe chinhu chokupa. Ndinoda vana, kunzwisisa, ruremekedzo, uye izvi zvakafanana. Ipapo makirasi akatanga - kutanga denderedzwa resainzi, uyezve muzinda wedu wekukura kwemwana. “Kuziva hakuna kukwana, dzidzisa mwana kufunga,” ndakadaro. Nokuti ichi ndicho chinhu chikuru pakudzidza. Uye muhupenyu. Uye zvakakoshawo kudzidza nekufarira, kurarama kwakasimba uye kunakidzwa, kuita shamwari uye kutamba. Zvese izvi tinozviita muChikwata cheSainzi chevana. Ini nevana tinogarisana zvakanaka. Vana mai nababa vakanaka nekuti vana vakanaka. Isu tinowana mhedzisiro, tinokura uye tinochinja. Ndinoziva zvakawanda nezvevana, uye handinete kuwana zvinhu zvitsva.
Imwe purojekiti hombe yangu ndeye Stupenki coaching system yevabereki. Pfungwa ye "yunivhesiti yevabereki" yakazvarwa panguva yekuraira mhuri dzevadzidzi vangu. Nguva nenguva, ndakaona kuti vabereki, vabereki vakanaka, vane rudo, vanoshaya imwe zivo nounyanzvi huchavaitawo vadzidzisi vakanaka. Isu tinokwanisa ruzivo urwu uye maitiro pa «yunivhesiti yevabereki», pa «Matanho». Nenzira, ndinoda kutenda Alexey Melnikov, mutungamiriri weCounselling and Coaching Center, uye muperekedzi wangu anoremekedzwa Nikolai Ivanovich Kozlov, uyo ane tsigiro yechirongwa che "Steps" chakatangwa (uye chiri kushanda nesimba).
Chii chimwe chandinorarama ikozvino? Ini ndinodzidza kuYunivhesiti yePractical Psychology. Iyo yakasarudzika chirongwa cheyunivhesiti ndechekuti vadzidzi vanogamuchira kwete chete ruzivo rwehunyanzvi, asiwo vanoshanda mukukura kwemunhu. Tiri kufambira mberi kumativi ose.
Iye zvino ndinonzwa semunhu anofara. Ndine Mhuri, Bhizinesi neBudiriro - kwandiri uku ndiko kunonzi kuwirirana. "Enda mberi, rudo uye ita bhizinesi, kwete kuzvisiya iwe gare gare." Kutenda kwakakosha nekuda kwekunzwa kwekuwirirana - kune mumwe wangu, anonditsigira nguva dzose uye mune zvese. Kwandiri, mukadzi ane kukosha kukuru imhuri, hapana chinhu chakakosha kudarika iyi rubatsiro uye kunzwisisa.
Dingindira rangu guru nderekunzwisisa vana uye zvekuita nazvo gare gare, kurarama nekufara nevana. Zvakare - dzidzo uye kukura kwevana vasati vabva zera. Muchokwadi, kurerwa uye dzidzo zvakabatana zvisingaite: nekudzidzisa - tinogara tichidzidzisa, nekudzidzisa - tinodzidzisa.
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