PSYchology

"Ah hongu Pushkin, ah hongu mwanakomana wehure!" nyanduri mukuru akafara zvake. Tinonyemwerera: hongu, inyanzvi. Uye isu tine humbowo hwekuti shasha haina kusvetuka pakurumbidza kwake. Zvakadini nesu vanhuwo zvavo? Tingazvirumbidza kakawanda sei? Uye kurumbidza kwakanyanyisa hakugoni kutikuvadza here?

Kune vazhinji vedu, pane dzimwe nguva kunouya mamiriro ekubatana kwemukati, apo zvinoita sekunge tinogona kudada isu pachedu. Kamwe chete muhupenyu, asi isu tinowana mufaro uyu: nguva isingawanzo apo kwaya yedu yemukati inoburitsa rwiyo rwerumbidzo. Mubereki womukati anosiya mwana womukati ari ega kwechinguvana, inzwi romwoyo rinoimba pamwe chete nenzwi rokurangarira, uye mutsoropodzi mukuru anoderera kubva mukunaka uku.

Nguva yemashiripiti, ine hunyanzvi. Kuwirirana kwemukati kunowanzoitika kakawanda, munhu anowedzera kufara. Isu takagadzirira kuisa parutivi ruzivo rwekukundikana, kutaurirana nemunhu wese, uye nenzira yekuti vese vatori vechikamu munhaurirano vanongobatsirikana kubva kwavari. Uyu mufaro kazhinji unoda kugoverana.

Pandinoona kuchinja kwakadaro mumutengi, ndinosangana nemanzwiro akasiyana-siyana: kune rumwe rutivi, hurumende yakanaka, inobereka, asi panguva imwechete kune ngozi yakawanda yekuputsa huni.

Hupenyu hwedu hwese tiri munzira inodedera uye yakaoma yekuwana kuwirirana, tobva tarasikirwa nayo.

Karina akatanga kurapwa kwete kare kare, uye pamwe naye, kufanana nevakawanda, pakanga pane "kutanga maitiro", kana munhu achifadzwa naye, achifara kuti akatora danho iri, uye anoda zvisingatarisirwi kunzwa migumisiro yechirwere ichi. shanda nekukurumidza. Nekudaro, kubva pakuona kweanorapa, kutanga kwekurapa kunouya pakuvaka kusangana, kuunganidza ruzivo, nhoroondo yenyaya. Kazhinji mamwe maitiro uye basa rechikoro rinoshandiswa panguva ino.

Zvose izvi zvakafadza Karina, nzvimbo inotsigira yakatungamirira kune chokwadi chokuti kwekanguva kuwirirana kwakakwana kwakatonga munyika yake yemukati.

Zvichienderana nokukura kwomunhu wacho mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro etsinhirano, munhu anogona kuita budiriro yomunhu oga kana kuti kupinda munzira isina kururama. Karina akawana wekupedzisira. Akataura achidada nezvenyaya yekuti akange ataura zvichemo zvake zvese kuna baba uye, muchimiro chekupedzisira, akaisa mamiriro ekuti mhuri yavo yaizoramba ichirarama sei.

Ndichiteerera kudonongodza kwaakaita, ndichinzwisisa kugumbura kwaakaita baba, ndakafunga kana mamiriro ezvinhu aya angadai akafamba nenzira yakasiyana, zvakanyatsoenderana. Ndinotya kuti ndingadaro. Asi ndakatadza kungwarira apo Karina akabuda muhofisi aine mapapiro okuzviremekedza kwakasimba, achikura kuva kuzvivimba.

Zviri pachena kuti kuwirirana kuzvidzora kuri kure zvakakwana kubva padanda re "chisikwa chinodedera", asiwo kubva padanda re "kutendera" zvakare. Muhupenyu hwedu hwese, isu tiri mune inodedera uye yakaoma nzira yekutsvaga iyi kuwirirana, tozorasikirwa nayo.

Inotibatsira mune izvi, kusanganisira mhinduro kubva kunyika. Kana ari Karina, kwaiva kunetsa kwemari. Baba vakasarudza izvi: kana mwanasikana anogara pasi pedenga rake achida kurayira mitemo yake, uye haadi mitemo yake, saka angada sei mari yake? Pakupedzisira, vanowanwa maererano nemitemo isingaenderani naye.

Dzimwe nguva tinozviwana pachedu patsitsi dzemasefa: magirazi eruvara rwerose kana masefa ekutya uye kusakosha.

Uye uku kwakava kusundidzira kwakanyanya kuna Karina ane makore makumi maviri nemaviri, achikura nekukurumidza. Zvose zvinogona kuenda zvakasiyana, zvinyoro.

Aita zvikanganiso zvakawanda, nhasi Karina anorarama upenyu hwake, maererano pachake, zvikuru akachinja mitemo. Mune imwe nyika, nemurume, kwete nababa.

Kuoma kwehupenyu hwaKarina kwakamumanikidza kumisa kurapwa. Tinofonerana tichingopanana nhau. Ndinomubvunza kuti: anodemba here danho iroro? Ungada kuita zvakasiyana here?

Karina anomira kutaura, mufananidzo wake unomira palaptop yangu. Ndichifunga nezvematambudziko ekutaurirana, ndinoda kudzvanya «reset», asi chifananidzo chinongoerekana chavapo, uye Karina, mushure mekumbomira kwenguva yakareba zvisingaite zvachose kwaari, anoti kekutanga munguva refu akarangarira mhedzisiro yehurukuro iyoyo. nababa.

Pakutanga akagumbuka, asi zvino ava kunyara pamberi pake. Chii chaakanga asina kumuudza! Zvakanaka kuti baba vakave murume ane ruzivo rwechikoro chekare, mafungiro ekuMabvazuva, uye vakaita izvo chete zvaive zvakanaka mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro. Kwete, Karina haazvidembi zvakazoitika, asi ane urombo nababa vake ...

Dzimwe nguva tinozviwana tiri patsitsi dzemasefa: magirazi eruvara rwerose, sezvakaitika kuna Karina, patinonzwa sevanhu vakangwara uye vakanyanya kukosha munyika, kana masefa ekutya uye kusakosha. Iyo yekupedzisira inotungamira kune zvakatonyanya kuipa mhedzisiro kumunhu: mukuzvishingisa kufamba kune mafambiro pachayo, kunyangwe munzira isiriyo. Iko hakuna kufamba mukuzvideredza, tariro dzese dzinoiswa kunze, pane zvekufungidzira zviitiko zvakanaka zvekupedzisira.

Chero zvatinonzwa, chero zvichaitika, zvese ndezvechinguvana. Manzwiro echinguvana, zviitiko. kutenda kwechinguvana. Kutarisa kwenguva pfupi. Zvinhu izvi zvinoshanduka nemwero wakasiyana mukati mehupenyu. Pfungwa yeimwe chiyero inoramba iripo - mweya wedu.

Zvakakosha kuyeuka, kuita maererano nemanzwiro kana, sezvinoratidzika, kunze kwemanzwiro, kana zvatiri kuita zvakanaka kumweya kana kwete. Uye kana iwe usingakwanise kuzvinzwisisa iwe pachako, ndizvo zvinodiwa nenyanzvi dzepfungwa.

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