PSYchology

Musika wevashandi nhasi hauna kufanana newaive makumi emakore akati wandei apfuura. Nhanho yehupenyu hwemazuva ano inokurumidza uye kukwikwidza kunotyisa, uye nzira yekubudirira haisisiri yakananga sezvayaimboita. Psychotherapist uye murairidzi Joe Wilner pane hunhu hunozobatsira munzira.

Wakapedza kudzidza kuyunivhesiti yakanaka uye uri munzira "yakarurama" here? Maiwe, mazuva ano ichi hachisi chivimbiso chekushanda kwakanaka kwakagadzikana. Kuti upinde mukambani yezviroto zvako, unofanirwa kumira mune imwe nzira.

Vamwe vashandirwi vanogutsikana nevashandi "vanochengeta chimiro chakaderera" uye pasina mubvunzo vanotevera mirairo yese, asi mumakambani anofambira mberi vanoonga avo vane chekutaura. Vashandi vakadaro vanogona kunzi chinongedzo, chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chechikwata. Ivo havana kuganhurirwa kune yakamanikana yebasa, asi vanogara vachitsvaga izvo zvimwe zvinogona kuitwa.

Ungave sei mushandi akadaro? Ratidza vaunoshanda navo uye mukuru kuti une hunhu hwakakosha.

1. CHIONO CHINOGONA CHERAmangwana

Kuti urege kurasika pamaforogo emabasa akawanda, zvakakosha kuva nechiono chakajeka cheramangwana. Uye kana iwe uchikwanisa kuratidza zvinogutsa chiratidzo ichi, ipapo iwe uchazvisimbisa iwe semushandi ane chido uye ane muono.

Iwe uri munhu anonyatsoziva zvaanoda. Iwe uri mutungamiri anoona mikana mitsva mikuru. Nechiono chako, unoratidza hupenyu hwako chinangwa uye zvinangwa zvaunoshuvira. Paakabvunzwa, "Unozviona kupi mumakore mashanu?" zvakakosha kuratidza kuti une pfungwa yakajeka yekwauchaenda. Usatya kunyanya kuda chinzvimbo, penda mufananidzo unokatyamadza webudiriro.

2.HARDNESS AND DURABILITY

Munhu wese ane nyaya yekuti vakasangana nematambudziko sei uye vakabudirira kukunda. Funga nezvenguva yawakaratidza kutsungirira. Iyi nyaya haifanire kunge iri yemunhu zvakadzama kana kuburitsa ruzivo rwehupenyu hwako. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuratidza muenzaniso wemamiriro ezvinhu umo iwe wakave wakasimba uye unowedzera ruzivo nekukunda zvimwe zvipingamupinyi. Izvi zvinoronza kuti hausi kukanda mapfumo pasi kana wasangana nematambudziko.

Kuoma uye kusimba zvinogona kukudziridzwa. Maonero epfungwa pakukura nekukura achabatsira mune izvi. Usatya kukundikana, usadzokera shure mukutarisana nematambudziko.

3. KUTANGA UYE KUSAKA

Zvibvunze kuti chii chawakasika chaungadada nacho. Zvichida wakanyora nhetembo kana kunyora mimhanzi kana kuchengetedza blog yakakurumbira? Iyo yekugadzira uye yekutanga yakaratidzwa pakutanga ichave inobatsira kwauri mubasa rako razvino. Rangarira kuti wakawana sei mhinduro kumatambudziko asina mwero kana kungoratidza kufunga kwepakutanga. Funga nezvokuti unhu hwawakaratidza panguva iyoyo hungashandiswa sei iye zvino.

4. UTUNGAMIRIRI

Kunyangwe usiri munzvimbo yehutungamiriri, dzimwe nguva unofanirwa kutora mabasa ehutungamiriri. Munzvimbo dzipi dzehupenyu hwako unonzwa semutungamiri?

Kana mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro asingawanzo, dzidzisa kutsunga uye dzidzira kakawanda mubasa remutungamiri. Tanga nenzvimbo yehukama husina kurongeka: mhuri neshamwari. Batsira vanhu vakakukomberedza kuti hupenyu hwavo huve nani. Zvakakosha kuratidza kugona kwako kutsvaga mutauro wakajairika nevamwe uye kuvabata newe.

5. KUKWANISA KUVAKA HUkama

Kambani yega yega inoda munhu anokwanisa kumisikidza hukama pakati pevanhu. Kana vaunoshanda navo vakawanda vaunokwanisa kusuma kuti uvabatsire kushanda pamwe chete zvinobudirira, ndipo paunonyanya kukosha.

Mumamiriro ezvinhu emakwikwi anotyisa mumusika wevashandi, zvakakosha kuve wakangwara, wekutanga uye bhizinesi

Edza kutsvaga mumwe munhu anogona kuva chipangamazano wako, munhu waunoyemura uye achakubatsirai mose. Batanidza nevanhu vanoita basa rakakosha mukambani yako uye ubatsire kuve nechokwadi chekukurukurirana kwakanaka pakati pavo nekugadzira network yakajairika yemasocial resources.

Mumamiriro ezvinhu emakwikwi anotyisa mumusika wevashandi, zvakakosha kuve wakangwara, wekutanga uye bhizinesi. Zvichienderana negwara rebasa raunosarudza, ungangoda hunyanzvi uye kugona kwakasiyana, asi hunhu hushanu hwakanyorwa pamusoro huchakubatsira iwe kuzadzisa zvinangwa zvako nekukurumidza uye zvakanyanya.

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