PSYchology

Wese munhu ane shamwari inotsoropodza inoratidza kuti nyika haina kururamisira, hazvina musoro kutarisira mubairo wepamusoro kune avo vakabatwa. Asi kubva pamaonero epfungwa, zvese hazvisi nyore: kutenda mumutemo wekutsiva pachako kunogona kubatsira.

Akaenda kunoshandira kambani inopfira zvakatipoteredza kana kushandisa utera hwevanhu - "spoiled karma." Akaita repost yekufonera rubatsiro - bata "pros to karma." Majee parutivi, asi iyo pfungwa yemubairo wepasirese kubva kuhuchenjeri hweBuddhism neHinduism zvakare inobata avo vasingatendi mumutoro wemweya unoperekedzwa - kuzvarwa patsva, samsara uye nirvana.

Kune rimwe divi, karma mupfungwa yezuva nezuva chimwe chinhu chatinovimba nacho. Inorambidza kuita zvinopesana nezvinodiwa nevamwe, kunyange kana pasina anoziva nezvazvo. Kune rumwe rutivi, inovimbisa mufarwa—chero bedzi isu timene takagadzirira kupa chimwe chinhu nenzira isina udyire. Asi izvi zvese ndezvekufungidzira. Vanoruramiswa sei?

ndinopa kuti mupe

Nyika yenyama inoteerera mutemo we causality, uye isu tinowana nyore kuratidzwa kwayo muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva. Takashambira nehuro mumvura ine chando - mangwanani tembiricha yakakwira. Iwe wakapinda mumitambo kwemwedzi mitanhatu - muviri wakava toned, wakatanga kurara zviri nani uye kuita zvakawanda. Kunyangwe tisingazive zvakadzama kuti metabolism inoshanda sei, tinogona kufungidzira: kuisa mari muhutano hwako kunobatsira, asi kuipfira kunenge kupusa.

Mitemo yakafanana, maererano nevamwe, inoshanda munyika yehukama hwevanhu. Nyanzvi yeAyurvedic Deepak Chopra inogutsikana neizvi. MuMitemo Mimwe YeMweya Yekubudirira, anotora "mutemo we karma" kubva kune imwe, "mutemo wekupa." Kuti tigamuchire chimwe chinhu, tinofanira kutanga tapa. Attention, simba, rudo imari yese inozobhadhara. Rega kwete pakarepo, kwete nguva dzose muchimiro icho fungidziro inokwevera, asi zvichaitika.

Zvakare, kusavimbika, udyire uye kunyengera zvinogadzira denderedzwa rakashata: tinokwezva vanhu vanotsvagawo kuzvisimbisa pamutengo wedu, kutishandisa nekutibiridzira.

Chopra anorayira kuti usvike kune imwe neimwe yezvisarudzo zvako, kuti uzvibvunze: izvi ndizvo zvandinoda chaizvo? Ndine mufungo here? Kana isu tisina kugutsikana nehupenyu-zvichida nekuti isu pachedu takazvinyengedza uye nekusaziva tikaramba mikana, hatina kutenda musimba redu uye takafuratira mufaro.

KANA PASINA ZVINOREVA, ZVINOFANIRA KUUNZWA

Dambudziko nderekuti zvikonzero chaizvo uye mhedzisiro yezviitiko zvakawanda zvakavharwa kubva kwatiri nemadziro eruzha rweruzivo. Kana, mushure mekubvunzurudza kwakabudirira, isu takarambwa, panogona kuva nezviuru zvezvikonzero zveizvi. Kukwikwidza kwedu kwaienderana neaigona kuve mutungamiri, asi zviremera zvepamusoro hazvina kuzvifarira. Kana kuti pamwe bvunzurudzo haina kufamba zvakanaka, asi takazvisimbisa neimwe nzira, nekuti taida chaizvo. Chii chakaita basa guru, hatizivi.

Nyika yakatitenderedza kazhinji iri kunze kwesimba redu. Tinogona kungofungidzira kuti zvinhu zvichafamba sei. Semuenzaniso, tinoda kunwa kofi mangwanani mune imwe kiosk. Nezuro akanga ari panzvimbo, nhasi zvakare - tinotarisira kuti mangwana tichienda kubasa tichakwanisa kuzvibata kune chinwiwa chinonhuwira. Asi muridzi anogona kuvhara chinobuda kana kuchiendesa kune imwe nzvimbo. Uye kana kunaya zuva iroro, tinogona kusarudza kuti chadenga chatora zvombo kutirwisa, uye kutanga kutsvaka zvikonzero isu pachedu.

Tine yakakosha neural network inoshanda muuropi hwedu, iyo inonzi neuroscientist Michael Gazzaniga anodana muturikiri. Nguva yake yaanofarira ndeyekubatanidza iyo inouya data mune inowirirana nyaya, kubva iyo imwe mhedziso pamusoro penyika yaizotevera. Takagara nhaka network iyi kubva kumadzitateguru edu, avo zvaive zvakakosha kuti tiite pane kuongorora. Magwenzi achizununguka nemhepo kana chikara chakahwanda ipapo - vhezheni yechipiri yaive yakakosha kuti urarame. Kunyangwe muchiitiko che "alarm yenhema", zviri nani kutiza uye kukwira mumuti pane kudyiwa.

Kuzvizadzisa chiporofita

Ko muturikiri anotadza nei, otanga kutidyisa nyaya dzatisina kupihwa basa, nekuti tiri munzira hatina kusiya chigaro chedu chemu metro kune chembere, hatichipe mupemhi, kuramba chikumbiro. shamwari yausingazivi?

Nyanzvi yokushanda kwepfungwa Rob Brotherton, mubhuku rake rinonzi Distrustful Minds, akaratidza kuti muitiro wokubatanidza zviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana zvinongotevera mumwe nomumwe unobatanidzwa nemhosho yokuenzanisa: “Apo muuyo wechiitiko uchikosha, unotyisa uye wakaoma kunzwisisa, tinokombamira pakuita chimwe chinhu. funga kuti chikonzero chayo chinofanira kunge chakakosha, chine njodzi, uye yakaoma kunzwisisa. "

Imwe nzira kana imwe, tinotenda kuti nyika inotitenderedza uye zvese zvinoitika zvine basa kuhupenyu hwedu.

Kana iwe wakanga usina rombo nemamiriro ekunze pakupera kwevhiki, ichi chirango chekusabvuma kubatsira vabereki vako munyika, asi kusarudza kupedza nguva iwe pachako. Chokwadika, mamiriyoni avanhu akatamburawo ikoku anofanira kuva akatadza munzira yakati. Zvikasadaro, kuvaranga pamwe chete nesu, denga rinoita senguruve.

Nyanzvi dzepfungwa Michael Lupfer naElisabeth Layman vakaratidza kuti kutenda mujambwa, karma, uye kupa kwaMwari kana vamwari mhedzisiro yekutya kwakadzama kwehupenyu. Hatigoni kudzora zviitiko, migumisiro iyo ichachinja hupenyu hwedu, asi hatidi kunzwa sechitoyi mumaoko emasimba asingazivikanwi.

Naizvozvo, tinofungidzira kuti tsime rematambudziko edu ese, asiwo nekukunda, isu pachedu. Uye kusimba kwedu kufunganya, kunowedzera kusaziva kuti nyika yakarongeka zvine mutsindo uye zvinonzwisisika, tinowedzera kushingaira kutsvaga zviratidzo.

Kuzvinyengera kunobatsira

Zvakakosha here kuedza kurambidza avo vanotenda mukubatana kwezviitiko zvisingaenderani? Kutenda mujambwa hakuna maturo uye kusingabatsiri here, kunoranga makaro, ruvengo negodo, uye kunopa mubayiro rupo nomutsa?

Kutenda mumubayiro wekupedzisira kunopa simba kuvanhu vakawanda. Apa ndipo panopinda placebo effect: kunyangwe mushonga ukasashanda wega, unokurudzira muviri kuunganidza zviwanikwa. Kana karma isipo, zvingave zvakakodzera kuigadzira.

Maererano nenyanzvi yepfungwa yesangano Adam Grant, kuvapo chaiko kwenzanga kunobvira nokuti tinodavira kutenderera kwezvakanaka nezvakaipa. Pasina zviito zvedu zvokuzvipira, izvo, chaizvoizvo, zvinoreva kuchinjana nechisiko chapose pose, nzanga ingadai isina kurarama.

Mumitambo yepfungwa pamusoro pekugoverwa kwezvakanaka, ndeye pro-social (inobatsira kune vamwe) maitiro anovimbisa kubudirira. Kana munhu wese akadhonza gumbeze pamusoro pavo, iyo "pai" yakaunganidzwa inokurumidza kunyunguduka, ingave purofiti, zviwanikwa, kana hunhu husinganzwisisike sekuvimba.

Karma inogona kunge isipo sekururamisira kwakabatanidzwa kunounza kuenzanisa kune zvakasikwa, asi kutenda mairi hakukuvadzi chero ani zvake, kunze kwekuti tinozviona semutemo wetsika uye wetsika: "Ndinoita zvakanaka, nokuti izvi zvinoita kuti nyika ive nzvimbo iri nani. »

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