Mukati
"Ndapedza, ndichabudirira", "mafambiro andakaita basa iri." Hatisi kuda zvakanyanya kutaura mazwi akadaro kwatiri, nekuti kazhinji isu tinowanzo kuzvituka kupfuura kuzvirumbidza isu pachedu. Uye zvakare gara uchida mhedzisiro yakanaka. Chii chinotitadzisa kuzvitenda uye kudada nekubudirira kwedu?
Pandaibvunza mibvunzo ndichiri mwana, ndaiwanzonzwa nevabereki vangu kuti: “Zvakanaka, izvi zviri pachena!” kana kuti “Pazera rako, unotofanira kuziva ikoku,” anoyeuka kudaro Veronika ane makore 37 okukura. - Ndichiri kutya kubvunza chimwe chinhu zvakare, kuti ndiite seupenzi. Ndiri kunyara kuti handizivi chimwe chinhu. "
Panguva imwe cheteyo, Veronica ane dzidzo mbiri dzakakwirira mumukwende wake, zvino ava kuwana chetatu, anorava zvikuru uye ari kudzidza chimwe chinhu nguva dzose. Chii chiri kutadzisa Veronica kuzviratidza ega kuti ane chimwe chinhu? Mhinduro ndeyekuzviremekedza kwakaderera. Tinozviwana sei uye nei tichizvitakura kuburikidza nehupenyu, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinodaro.
Kuzvitarisira pasi kunoumbwa sei?
Kuzviremekedza ndiwo maitiro atinozviona isu pachedu: zvatiri, zvatinokwanisa uye zvatinokwanisa kuita. “Kuzviremekedza kunokura muuduku apo, nebetsero yavakuru, tinodzidza kuzvinzwisisa timene, kuziva zvatiri,” anotsanangura kudaro Anna Reznikova, nyanzvi yendangariro nyanzvi mukurapa kwechinguvana kunonangana nemhinduro. "Ndiwo magadzirirwo emufananidzo wako mupfungwa."
Asi sezvo vabereki vachiwanzoda vana vavo, nei tisingawanzozvikoshesa? "Muhuduku, vanhu vakuru vanova vatungamiri vedu munyika, uye kekutanga tinowana pfungwa yezvakanaka nezvakaipa kubva kwavari, uye kuburikidza nekuongorora: kana iwe wakazviita nenzira iyi, zvakanaka, kana wakaita. zvakasiyana, zvakaipa! nyanzvi yepfungwa inoenderera mberi. "Iyo yekuongorora iyo pachayo inoita jee rine hutsinye."
Uyu ndiye muvengi mukuru wekubvuma kwedu isu pachedu, zviito zvedu, chitarisiko ... Isu hatishaiwi ongororo yakanaka, asi kubvuma isu nezviito zvedu: zvingava nyore kuita sarudzo nazvo, zvingava nyore kuedza chimwe chinhu, kuedza. . Patinonzwa kuti takagamuchirwa, hatityi kuti chimwe chinhu hachizoiti zvakanaka.
Tiri kukura, asi kuzviremekedza hakusi
Saka tinokura, tova vanhu vakuru uye … ramba tichizvitarisa nemaziso evamwe. “Aya ndiwo mashandire anoita muitiro wesumo: zvatinodzidza pamusoro pedu kuhama kana kuti vanhu vakuru vanokosha muuduku zvinoratidzika kuva zvechokwadi, uye hatipanikiri ichi chokwadi,” anotsanangura kudaro Olga Volodkina, chiremba we<em>gestalt. - Aya ndiwo maitiro anodzikamisa kutenda anomuka, anonziwo "mutsoropodzi wemukati".
Isu tinokura uye nekusaziva tichiri kuwiriranisa zviito zvedu nemabatiro anoita vanhu vakuru pazviri. Havasisiri pedyo, asi inzwi rinoita serinotenderera mumusoro mangu, iro rinogara richindiyeuchidza izvi.
“Munhu wose anoti ndiri mupikicha, asi ndinoona sokuti shamwari dzangu hadzidi kundigumbura,” anodaro Nina ane makore 42 okukura. — Ambuya vaigara vachigunun’una kuti ndiri kukanganisa furemu, ipapo ndainyemwerera nenzira isiri iyo, ndozomira panzvimbo isiri iyo. Ndinotarisa mapikicha angu, zvose muhuduku uye zvino, uye zvechokwadi, kwete chiso, asi imwe mhando yegrimace, ndinotarisa zvisiri izvo, semhuka yakafukidzwa! Inzwi raAmbuya richiri kutadzisa Nina anoyevedza kunakidzwa nokumira pamberi pomutori wemifananidzo.
Vitaly, ane makore 43 anoti, “Ndaigara ndichifananidzwa nehanzvadzi yangu. zvinhu zvakawanda. Asi budiriro dzangu hadzina kurangarirwa. Vabereki vaigara vachida chimwe chinhu. ”
Mutsoropodzi wemukati anodya ndangariro dzakadaro. Inokura pamwe chete nesu. Kunovamba muuduku, apo vanhu vakuru vanotinyadzisa, vanotinyadzisa, enzanisa, vanopomera, vanotsoropodza. Ipapo anosimbisa nzvimbo yake mukuyaruka. Maererano nekuongorora kweVTsIOM, musikana wegumi wega wega ane makore 14-17 anonyunyuta pamusoro pekushaikwa kwekurumbidzwa uye kubvumirwa kubva kuvanhu vakuru.
Gadzirisa kukanganisa kwekare
Kana chikonzero chekusagutsikana kwedu pachedu iri nzira iyo vakuru vedu vakatibata nayo muhuduku, zvichida tinogona kuzvigadzirisa iye zvino? Zvingabatsira here kana isu, zvino vanhu vakuru, tichiratidza vabereki vedu zvatawana tichida kuremekedzwa?
Igor ane makore 34 okukura haana kubudirira: “Mukati mekirasi nachiremba wendangariro, ndakayeuka kuti baba vangu vaigara vachinditi ndiri benzi nguva dzose ndichiri mwana,” anodaro, “ndaitotya kutaura navo kana ndaida. batsira nebasa rechikoro. Ndaifunga kuti zvaizova nyore ndikamuudza zvose. Asi zvakazoitika neimwe nzira kutenderedza: Ndakanzwa kubva kwaari kuti kusvika zvino ndaramba ndiri blockhead. Uye zvakava zvakaipa kupfuura zvandaitarisira. "
Hazvibatsiri kunyunyuta kune avo, mukuona kwedu, vane mhosva yekusachengeteka kwedu. "Hatigoni kuvashandura," anosimbisa Olga Volodkina. "Asi isu tine simba rekuchinja maitiro edu kune zvinomisa kutenda. Takura uye, kana tichishuva, tinogona kudzidza kurega kuzvikoshesa, kuwedzera ukoshi hwezvishuvo zvedu nezvinodikanwa, tova tsigiro yedu timene, iye mukuru uyo ane mirangariro inokosha kwatiri.”
Kuzvishora, kuzvikoshesa idanda rimwe chete. Zvakapesana ndezvekuzvirumbidza usingatarise chokwadi. Basa redu harisi rekubva kune imwe yakanyanyisa kuenda kune imwe, asi kuchengetedza kuenzanisa uye kuchengetedza kusangana nechokwadi.