Wakaona here kuti vanhu vari murudo vanotanga kutaridzika zvakasiyana: vanopenya nekupfava, kufara uye mufaro. Nyanzvi yemishonga yeChinese Anna Vladimirova inotaurira nzira yekuchengetedza uye kukudziridza kunzwa kwerudo rwakachena muupenyu hwemhuri. Hazvinei hazvo.
Paunenge uri murudo uye uchangotanga kutaurirana nemudiwa wako, chero nguva pamwe chete yakazvipira kune imi vaviri. Hazvina mhosva kuenda kupi, zvekuita - anotora pfungwa dzese, uye kana uine rombo rakanaka, zviri zviviri. Iwe unofarira mune zvaanofarira, uye kurumidza kugovera zvaunoda.
Mushure mechinguva, hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hunotanga kukunda: kukakavara uye kusagutsikana kune mumwe nemumwe kunomuka. Zvishoma nezvishoma, mufananidzo wemudiwa unova usina kunaka uye une rudo sepakutanga. Uye zviri kuramba zvichioma kufuratira. Dai waikwanisa kuchengetedza… Kwete, kwete kungochengeta, asi kudziridza nekuwedzera rudo rwekutanga rwakajeka urwu, unofunga kuti hupenyu hungave hunogutsa uye hunofadza here? Ndine chokwadi hungu!
Vanhu vari murudo vanokwezva zvikuru kune vamwe kupfuura vanhu vasingagutsikani. Vanocherechedza zvakanyanya kunaka kwete mudiwa chete, asiwo munyika yose. Vanoda mabvi-yakadzika gungwa - havaoni zvipingamupinyi. Naizvozvo, ini ndinopa mamwe maekisesaizi akareruka kukudziridza hunyanzvi hwekuwira murudo. Edza uye ndinofunga uchazvifarira.
Pindura
Vakaroorana vanofara vakasimba vanosiyana nevamwe vose mukuti vanopindura kune mumwe nemumwe kakawanda kupfuura vamwe. Fungidzira mamiriro acho ezvinhu: iwe wakabatikana nechimwe chinhu chakakosha - kubika kudya kwemanheru, kuverenga bhuku, kutaura neshamwari. Uye anodongorera nepahwindo.
“Tarirai, ishiri yakanaka sei,” anodaro. Uchasiya basa rako here, unoda here kugoverana nguva ino naye? Pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvakakosha mune izvi.
Kana iwe uchida kusimbisa mamiriro ekuve murudo, unofanirwa kudzidza kupindura kakawanda iwe pachako uye neruremekedzo kutsvaga mhinduro yakawanda kubva kune mumwe wako. Hazvisi zvekuvhiringidza hupenyu hweumwe neumwe, basa kana kuona nhabvu — "ndiani anonyanya kukosha kwauri, varume gumi nevaviri ava vanomhanya kumunda kana ini?".
Paunoedza kukwevera ngwariro yake kuchimwe chinhu, uye iye aneta uye opotsa mashoko asina mufungo, mubetsere kupindura. Mupe mumwe mukana kuti ajaire kudaira kwauri. Uye, chokwadi, rovedza kupindura kune zvaanopa zvekukurukurirana.
tapurirwa
Ndine shamwari inogara iri murudo - kwete hazvo nemurume mumwe chete, asi hazvina basa. Anoratidza rudo rwakajeka zvekuti zvinonetsa kuti vasatapukirwa. Mumwe nomumwe wedu anoda musikana akadaro kuitira kuti tigone "kubuda" kubva munharaunda yedu uye kutarisa nyika kuburikidza nemeso ake. Izvi hazvireve kuti iwe uchave wakangofanana naye, asi nekuchinja chitarisiko chako, iwe uchaita zvakawanda zvinowanikwa muhukama hwako.
Tonga rudo
Mumafirimu eDisney, panogara paine mwenje inodziya yerudo inoita kuti mufananidzo wacho uve usina uye unakidze. Mune zvinyorwa, pane zvinopesana, chiedza chinowanzotonhora, saka zviri nyore kuziva - kana zvichionekwa, pane kunzwa kwechokwadi.
Saka isu, tichiwira murudo, tinoona nyika mune "pink haze" - tinoumba mufananidzo werudo wemudiwa. Uye gare gare tinotakurwa nehuchokwadi uye kutora "pasipoti mapikicha", izvo, zvechokwadi, hazvifadzi. Inokurumidza kushanduka kuita tsika yakaipa iyo inoita kuti hukama hudzike. Kugadzirisa sei? Nokurovedza muviri kuri nyore.
Kutanga, tora rwendo rwepfungwa kupinda munguva yakapfuura. Kanganwa nezvemakore ekugara pamwe chete uye pinda mukati menguva inopenya yehukama hwako nemanzwiro. Zvipe maminetsi mashoma, rega manzwiro auye ari mupenyu mumuviri.
Rangarira kuti waifungidzira sei murume uyu pawaifunga nezvake. Izvi zvakaitika mumamiriro api ezvinhu? Mufananidzo iwoyo wakauisa kupi iwe pachako? Yakakura sei? Chiedza cherudzii chiripo?
Rangarira maawa mangani pazuva awakashandisa kufunga nezvemudiwa wako pawakatanga kufambidzana naye
Zvino funga nezvekuti unofungidzira sei murume wako zvino. Mufananidzo wacho unoisa kupi, ukuru hwakadini, unovheneka sei, unopfeka zvipfeko zvipi, chiso chayo chii? Cherechedza musiyano uri pakati penzira mbiri idzi dzokufunga nezvemudiwa.
Gadzira mufananidzo mutsva wepfungwa wemudiwa kubva ikozvino. Isa pawakaisa kare. Ita hukuru hwakakodzera, shandura chiedza. Chidhirowe nenzira yawakachidhirowa nacho panguva yerudo rwechido. Ingoita kuti mufananidzo wacho ukure ikozvino.
Kana iwe ukapa chiitiko ichi maminetsi mashoma, unozviwana wava kudanana nemurume wako zvakare. Pakutanga, manzwiro aya anogona kuita senge ephemeral uye asinganzwisisike, asi zvinoreva kuti iwe unoda zvishoma kudzidzira. Rangarira maawa mangani pazuva awakashandisa kufunga nezvemudiwa wako pawakatanga kufambidzana naye - wakazvidzidzisa kumuda nekumushuva.
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