PSYchology

Kana ndiri murairidzi, ndinofanira kunzwisisa musiyano pakati pevateereri vechirume nevechikadzi. Musiyano uyu uripo, uye unofanirwa kuverengerwa kuti usarudze nzira inoshanda kwazvo yekuitisa dzidziso - zvese zvekupa ruzivo nekuvandudza hunyanzvi.

Zvinoenderana nekuona kwangu, hapana musiyano pakati pevateereri vechirume nevechikadzi pakudzidziswa kwe "bhizinesi". Nekudaro, vateereri vanoona zviri nani kutanga mudzidzisi wechirume. Murairidzi wechikadzi ari kuedzwa «nezino». Uye munyaya iyi, mudzidzisi anofanira kuratidza simba rake uye kuratidza kuti anoziva zvakawanda uye ane chimwe chinhu chekudzidzisa vateereri. Pakudzidziswa kwebhizinesi, ini pachangu ndakaona mudzidzisi wechirume nekuvimba kukuru.

Pazvidzidzo zvekudzidzisa vanozvipira, uko vateereri vari vadzidzi, vane makore 20-25, tinoedza kuisa varume semutungamiri anotungamira. Izvo zvine musoro zviri nyore: vasikana vanowira murudo, vanonakidzwa uye vanoteerera. Zvisinei, pakati pevarairidzi pane Vakadzi vanotungamirira dzidziso nenzira yokuti vateereri vafadze uye vashamiswe. Sei? Ruzivo, ruzivo, kugona ku "zvinonaka" kupa ruzivo. Chitarisiko chevarairidzi ava hachinakidzi zvachose. Vanosangana neuchenjeri.

Zvinova pachena kuti nyaya iyi yakakura, iwe unofanirwa kutora imwe kucheka. Isu tinotora makore e18-27, vateereri vanokurudzirwa, nyaya yekudzidziswa inonyanya bhizinesi.

Iyo chaiyo yevateereri vechikadzi iri muchokwadi chekuti vateereri vakadai vanopindura zvakanyanya kune zvakaipa zviitiko zvezvinhu uye chirongwa chemazuva ese, fungidziro yekufungidzira inokunda ipapo, kune hukuru hwepfungwa hwekuona, vateereri vanofarira kuona ruzivo nenzeve, kazhinji inoratidzirwa nekushaikwa kwekufarira mune zvehupfumi, zvesainzi, zvehunyanzvi uye zvemitambo misoro, inofarira kuenda kune dzakasiyana siyana hurukuro nehurukuro, haina ruzivo rwakanyanya pazvinhu zvese.

Zvinodiwa pakutaura muvateereri vechikadzi:

  • inodiwa inductive mharidzo yezvinyorwa: kubva kune iyo kuenda kune general;
  • kukwidziridzwa kwemharidzo kunodiwa: kuratidza manzwiro, kupenya kwekutaura uye mifananidzo inobata;
  • kushandiswa kwakanyanya kwekuonekwa uye kukwezva kune mienzaniso yezuva nezuva, zviitiko zvehupenyu hwezuva nezuva, matambudziko emhuri;
  • taura nyaya imwe chete.

Vateereri vechirume vakasiyana. Inoziviswa zviri nani pazvinhu zvese, ine ruzivo rwechangobva kuitika kubva mumapepanhau uye kuburitswa kwenhau, muvateereri vakadai vanodzorwa nezvido zvine chekuita nebasa nezvematongerwo enyika. Vateereri havashiviriri mitsetse mirefu, havafariri kutsenga kwakadzama kwezvinhu.

Zvinodiwa pakutaura muvateereri vechirume:

  • iyo deductive mharidzo yezvinyorwa inonyatso nzwisiswa, nyaya inowirirana kubva kune mukuru kune iyo chaiyo;
  • manzwiro anofanirwa kuve ari pakati nepakati, unogona kushandisa yakanyanya kujeka mharidzo;
  • hapana chikonzero chekuwana mhedziso dziri pachena kune vateereri;
  • muhurukuro, mibvunzo 2-3 inogona kurangarirwa, ichipa gakava rinosungirwa remifungo inoiswa pamberi;
  • manzwiro anogamuchirwa, asi chete pasi pemamiriro ekuvakwa kwakanaka kwekuita kwese.

Kutaura zviri nyore, murume ipfungwa, mukadzi kunzwa. Zvichida, zvakakosha kujekesa maererano naNI Kozlov: "Mukadzi, kana akararama semukadzi, anorarama nemanzwiro. Murume, kana ari murume, anotungamirirwa nepfungwa. Isu tinorangarira kuti kune vakadzi vane murume murume uye varume vane mukadzi: uye ipapo isu tichasangana izvo zvisiri izvo kana vakadzi vakada mharidzo ine musoro. Zvisinei, mutemo mukuru unoramba uchishanda:


Panyaya yevateereri vechikadzi, tinoshanda pamanzwiro, munyaya yevateereri vechirume, pane pfungwa.

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