“Chakavanzika, hapana anogona kuziva mutambo usati waitwa! ", shamwari yangu yakandiudza pandakamubvunza kuti ane pamuviri pemukomana kana musikana. MuCanada, pamwedzi mishanu yekuzvitakura, "Gender display party" inorongwa. Isu tinogadzira keke hombe yakavharwa nemuchena icing uye tinoburitsa bonde remucheche nekuicheka: kana mukati iri pink, musikana, kana bhuruu, mukomana.
Isu tinorongawo zvinoshamisa vana-mashawa, mwana asati azvarwa kana mushure mekuzvarwa. Amai vanozviita kakawanda uye kakawanda gare gare, mavhiki mashomanana mushure mokusununguka. Zviri nyore - tinogamuchira vese vaenzi, shamwari uye mhuri, muzuva rimwe chete. Ini pachangu handina kuita “gender reflect party” kana “baby shower”, asi ndakasimbirira pamhemberero yandaida ndichiri mudiki, “smashcake”. Vese vana vanoda kutora chikamu mu "smash cake"! Tinorayira keke yakanaka kwazvo, ine icing uye yakawanda yekrimu. Tinoshevedza mutori wemifananidzo, tinokoka mhuri, uye tinorega mwana "aparadze" keke nemaoko ake. Zvinosetsa zvikuru! Imhemberero chaiyo, pamwe inoseka zvishoma asi, pakupedzisira, ndeyekufadza vana vedu, saka nei?
Le zororo rekusununguka kuvadzidzisi, seni, igore rimwe, rinobhadharwa zvizere neSocial Security. Vamwe vanaamai vanowana 55% yemuhoro wavo (kana 30% kana vachida kuiwedzera kusvika kumwedzi gumi nemisere). Nesu, zvinogamuchirwa zvachose kugara pamba kwegore nemwana wako. Zvisinei, muCanada, chero chinhu chinoita sechinogoneka. Ndinofunga kuti yakasarudzika yekuCanada kugamuchira pfungwa dzemunhu wese, kushivirira. Isu takasununguka chaizvo uye hatitongi. Ndakaita rombo rakanaka rekunopedza maternity leave kuCanada. Upenyu imomo hwakadekara zvikuru.
MuCanada, isu hatina basa nekutonhora, kunyangwe kuine -30 ° C. Yakawanda yenguva inopedzerwa mumba zvakadaro, ichisiya imba chete kusimudza mota woityaira kuenda kunzvimbo dzekupaka dzesupamaketi, kana magaraji anodziya. Vana havamborari kunze, semunyika dzeNordic; kamwe chete kunze, vakapfeka zvinodziya zvikuru: bhutsu yechando, ski pants, nguo dzomukati dzemvere dzemakwai, nezvimwewo. Asi nguva yako yakawanda inopedzerwa kumba - munhu wose ane maTV makuru, sofa-inofadza uye super soft rugs. Mafurati, akapamhama kupfuura emuFrance, anobvumira madiki kuti amhanye zviri nyore kupfuura mufurati ine makamuri maviri umo unozarirwa nekukurumidza.
The vanachiremba vanotiudza kuti, “Zamu rakanakisa”. Asi kana usingadi kuyamwisa, munhu wose anonzwisisa. “Ita zvakakunakira,” shamwari dzangu nemhuri vakandiudza kudaro. Sezvineiwo, kuFrance, handinawo kumbonyanya kuomerwa. Kusunungukawo chaiko kuna vanaamai vasina ruzivo rwokuzviwanira vasina chokwadi nezvavo pachavo munharaunda iyi.
ndine chitsamba kuti vabereki veFrance vanoomesera vana vavo. MuCanada, tinonyanya kuvateerera. Tinotaura navo nokushivirira kukuru, uye tinovabvunza mibvunzo: nei makasundidzira uyu musikana muduku mupaka? Watsamwirei handifungi kuti zviri nani, ingori nzira yakasiyana, yepfungwa. Tinopa zvirango zvishoma, uye panzvimbo pacho tinopa mibairo: tinoitumidza "kusimbisa kwakanaka".