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Kana zvikaitika kuti vana vanoitwa mhirizhonga kuchikoro, imhaka yekuti vamwe vakaita mafungiro echisimba izvo zvinovasunda kuhasha kune vamwe vavo. Ndizvo zvakaita mwana wako here? Isu tinotora maitiro ekugadzirisa zvakanyanya mhirizhonga yako ne psychosociologist Edith Tartar Goddet.
Mhirizhonga kuchikoro, vana vapi vari panjodzi?
Vana “vanomukira” kazhinji kazhinji vanoita boka, inotsanangura chiremba wepfungwa Edith Tartar Goddet. Kune rumwe rutivi, tinowana vanhu vanoshungurudza, uye kune rumwe rutivi, vaoni, vanounza a vimbiso yetsika kuita mabasa. “Muboka, munhu wacho haachanzwi ane mutoro uye anozvibvumira kuita zvose. Uye mwana wese anogona, pane imwe nguva, achida edzai simba rake pane vamwe,” inotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi.
"Uyezve, mwana akanaka, akadzikama, kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yakasununguka, asi achidya mifananidzo yakawanda yechisimba, achada kusangana navo rimwe zuva kana rimwe," anowedzera Edith Tartar Goddet. “Zvakakosha kusasiya mwana mumwe chete pamberi pechiso, uye kuisa mashoko pane zvaanoona kuitira kuti afunge. “
Mhirizhonga yechikoro: kugamuchira mhosva yemwana ane hasha
Vabereki vanofanira kubvuma kuita zvechisimba zvemwana wavo uye muperekedze. Dzimwe mhuri dzakakuvara dzinosarudza kuramba chokwadi, asi maitiro aya anoisa "mutadzi" mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, izvo zvingaita kuti atange patsva. Uyezve, zvinokosha kuti kubatana navadzidzisi.
Chikoro chinofanira kuita sei nemwana anoshungurudza?
Chikoro, kune chikamu chacho, chinofanira kutora mabasa acho, pasina chitarisiko chinonyadzisa, kuburikidza nekugadzirisa kuongorora kwevaduku vanoshungurudza. Zvinokurudzirwa kuita kuti mudzidzi ave nemhosva kuitira kuti azive zvaanoita, obva aita chirango. “Kuvapa chirango pasina kuvapa mhosva kungaisa munyori wacho mungozi, izvo zvaizoita kuti agumbuke,” anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu Edith Tartar Goddet.
Nzira yekuita sei nemwana ane chisimba?
Kana ari kekutanga, ye "kuedza", zvakakwana kuita kuti mwana wako anzwisise kuti akaita zvakaipa. “Kana tikaita zvinhu nemazvo, haazozviiti zvakare,” anotsanangura kudaro Edith Tartar Goddet.
Tinoda kurondwa kwepfungwa kumwana ane chisimba here?
Ukuwo, kana iri mubvunzo we kudzokorora, tsigiro ingave iri madikanwa. “Vamwe vana, vanotambura, uye kwete hazvo kutsauka, vanotaura zvavanoda nechisimba. Kana munhu wacho ari kushushikana, anogona kuita chisimba kuti anyaradze kusagadzikana kwake. Vamwe vana vanogara ipapo. Vanoita nemazvokuda, kunyangwe vakazvibata chaizvo. Saka kurongeka kwepfungwa kungave kuri madikanwa. “