Mwana wangu anoda zvese, ipapo ipapo
Haagoni kumirira. Zvaakaita nezuro achaita sei neawa imwe chete? Hazvina musoro kwaari. Anogara mukukurumidza, haana nguva yakatarwa yekubvuma kunonoka zvikumbiro zvake. Kana tikasakurumidza kusvika pakuda kwake, zvinoreva kuti “kusambofa” kwaari.
Haakwanisi kusiyanisa zvaanoda nezvaanoda. Akaona kamota aka kari mumaoko eimwe hombe pasupermarket. Kwaari, kuva nayo kwakakosha: kunomuita akasimba, akure. Anoda kutora pfungwa dzako. Zvimwe hausi kuwanikwa zvakanyanya panguva ino, hapana nguva yakakwana yekutaura newe. Kutsvaga chimwe chinhu kubva kwauri inzira yake yekureva rudo nekutarisisa kubva kwauri.
Kudzidza kuvhiringidzika
Kunonoka kana kurega zvishuwo zvako kunzwa uchinetseka. Kuti akure achifara, mwana anofanira kusangana nechitsama chakati chokukangaidzika pazera duku. Kuziva nzira yekuigamuchira kuchamubvumira kupinda muboka rinofunga nezvevamwe, kuchinjira kumitemo yenzanga, uye ipapo, murudo rwake uye muupenyu hwake hwounyanzvi, kudzivisa kuodzwa mwoyo nokukundikana. Zviri kumunhu mukuru kuti amubatsire kutsungirira dambudziko iri nekuderedza dhirama.
Kuwana zvishuvo zvake zvose kunoedza, kuitira kuti ave nerunyararo kana kuti chete nokuda kwomufaro wokumufadza. Zvisinei, zvinonyadzisa zvikuru kumupa: kana tikasamboti "kwete" kwaari, haazodzidzi kumisa zvikumbiro zvake, kugamuchira kusafara. Sezvaanokura, haazoshiviriri chero zvipingamupinyi. Egocentric, hudzvinyiriri, achaomerwa nekuongwa muboka.
Ndomudzivisa sei?
Ita zvavanoda. Ane nzara, ane nyota, anehope here? Aswera asina kukuona uye arikukumbira hug? Kana ukasangana nezvido zvavo zvepanyama uye zvepfungwa panguva yakakodzera, mwana anonzwa akachengeteka, anovimba newe nyore nyore paunomukumbira kuti ambomira zvido zvake.
Unogona kutarisira. Mitemo yakafanorongwa inoshanda semienzaniso. Iti, "Tiri kuenda kuchitoro, unogona kutarisa zvese, asi ini handikutengere matoyi." “; "Ndichakupa maround maviri ekufara-famba, asi ndizvozvo." Paanotaura, muyeuchidze nezvemutemo, wakadzikama uye nechivimbo.
Mirai makasimba. Kana sarudzo yaitwa uye yakatsanangurwa, hapana chikonzero chekuzvipembedza, zvakangofanana, kumira kwakazara. Kunyanya iwe unopinda munhaurirano, ndipo paanonyanya kusimbirira. Usazviisa pakutsamwa kwake; Miganho yakajeka inomusimbisa uye imutsigire. Kana uchinetseka kugara wakadzikama, ibvapo. Usagara uchiti “kwete”. Usawira mune zvakapesana zvakawandisa: nekumuudza zvine hungwaru kuti "kwete" kana "gare gare", unomuita kuti agare asina moyo murefu, asingagutsikane nekusingaperi uyo anogara achishungurudzika sekutambudzwa. Ipe mamwe mafaro nekukasira uye unakirwe mufaro wayo.