Munhu ane narcissistic personality disorder ane zvakawanda zvakafanana nemunhu anongozvivimba. Zvisinei, panewo misiyano inokosha. Ngatiedze kuona kuti chii.
Mune imwe nzira, munhu wese ane hunhu hwekunarcissistic. Matambudziko anomuka kana atora nzvimbo yekutanga pane humwe hunhu nehunhu.
Kuzvivimba uye kuzviremekedza kunobatsira kutsungirira matambudziko uye kusarasikirwa nekuvapo kwepfungwa. Kuvatora, isu tinoongorora zvine hungwaru kugona kwedu, asi panguva imwecheteyo tinotenda kune vamwe uye tinovashuvira rombo rakanaka. Uye kuzviremekedza kwedu hakutamburi kubva kune izvi. Asi tinogona here kutaura kuti vanhu vane narcissistic personality disorder vane kuzviremekedza kwakanyanya? Uye ndeupi musiyano uripo pakati penarcissism uye kuzvidzora kune hutano?
Heano matatu makuru ma paramita aunofanira kudzidza kuti unzwisise mutsauko.
1. Maonero ako pachako
Narcissism inotanga muhuduku, kana mwana asingagamuchiri rudo rusina magumo uye kugamuchirwa kubva kuvanhu vakuru, kana kuva "chidhori" mumhuri yake. Kukura, mumatambudziko ose ari maviri anoda "kudya": anogara achiedza kugadzirisa kushaya rudo uye kunamatira, haanzwi kugutsikana pasina "kurohwa" kubva kune vamwe. Anozviona seakaderera, anotambura nefunganyo uye kufufutirwa nehasha. Narcissists vanowanzo shungurudzika uye vanonzwa vari panjodzi.
Uye kune mumwe munhu anongovimba naye pachake, kuzviremekedza kunobva kwete pakurumbidza kwevamwe vanhu, asi pakuona kwechokwadi kweruzivo rwake uye unyanzvi. Anotenda kuti kana akaedza, achaita zvose. Anotsanangura kukundikana nekusava neruzivo, anoedza kunzwisisa chikonzero chekukanganisa uye kuchibvisa, pasina kudonha kubva pakutarisisa kuduku.
2. Ukama nevamwe
Iyo narcissist inogara iri muhukama hwekodhi. Kazhinji anoshandisa kusasimba kwevamwe kuvakunda uye kuvamanikidza kutamba nemitemo yake. Semuenzaniso, mutungamiri ane narcissistic personality disorder anoda kuti vari pasi pake vatevedzere mitemo yaakagadzira, iyo yaanogara achichinjawo.
Anozvirumbidza uye anoda kuti vamwe vaimbirewo rumbidzo yake. Haafungidzirike, hazvibviri kunzwisisa kuti chii chinganyatsomudzikamisa, zvaangade. Mumuchato, narcissist anogara achiputsa zvibvumirano, somuenzaniso, anogona kubiridzira, achipomera mumwe wake nokuda kwezvakaipa zvake.
Munhu ane kuzviremekedza kwakanyanya kazhinji anoreva vanhu vanobva pachinzvimbo: "Ndakanaka, iwe wakanaka" pane kuti "Ndakanaka, iwe wakaipa." Anotenda kuti kana akabudirira, zvino munhu mumwe nomumwe anogona kutora nzvimbo yake pasi pezuva, kana akaedza zvakaoma. Vanhu vakadai vanogadzira vatungamiriri vakanaka vanokudziridza vari pasi pavo, uye havavadzvanyiriri kana kuvatyisidzira. Muhupenyu hwemhuri, vanhu vanozvivimba havadi kureurura nguva dzose uye roller coasters, rudo rwavo rwakafanana uye runodziya, vanogara vachichengeta shoko ravo.
3.Zvinhu zvebasa
Vese narcissist uye munhu anozviremekedza zvakanyanya anogona kubudirira muhunyanzvi. Chokwadi, nzira dzekukwira nhanho dzebasa dzichave dzakasiyana.
Kana yekutanga "kumanikidza uye kuranga", ipapo yechipiri inokurudzira, inokurudzira uye inopa mhinduro yakakwana. Vanozviisa pasi havana kugadzikana nemutungamiri wenarcissistic, uye narcissist pachake haana kugadzikana muhukama naye. Zvakanaka kana anzwisisa izvi uye anokumbira rubatsiro. Asi izvi hazviwanzoitiki. Narcissistic personality disorder inonetsa kutsiva.
Mushandi ane kuzviremekedza kwakakwana, kusiyana narcissist, anogona kutanga hukama hwakanaka nevamwe, zviri nyore uye zviri nyore kushanda naye. Haazvisimbisi achiitira kuti arasikirwe nevatsva uye haafadzi vakura. Anoziva kukosha kwake, asi haakoshesi kubudirira kwevamwe.
* Iyo yakasviba Triad yehunhu: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, uye psychopathy