"Hapana akandibatsira newe - uye ini handidi," amai vacho vanongoerekana vataura vachipindura chikumbiro chekubatsira nemwana. Zvinonzwika senge zvine hukasha, asi ambuya vane kodzero yekuramba kuchengeta mwana muzukuru wavo.
Vanambuya vemazuva ano havasi zvachose zvavaive makore gumi nemashanu kusvika gumi apfuura. Zvino vazukuru vakapedza svondo navo vachifara: mapayi, mitambo yebhodhi, nzendo dzekubatana kune zvinokwezva. Vazhinji vakafara kuchengeta vana vazukuru vavo. Zvino kune vanambuya vakadaro futi, asi kune vashoma vavo. Mumwe munhu ane rudo nehupenyu hwepamoyo, mumwe munhu ibasa, uye mumwe munhu zororo rakakodzera. Muverengi wedu Zhanna, amai vadiki, akasanganawo nemamiriro ezvinhu akadai:
“Zvakaitika kuti ndaifanirwa kuenda kubasa kare pane zvandakanga ndaronga pandakaenda kuzororo rekuzvarira. Amai vangu vachiri vadiki chaizvo, uye ndakafunga kuti havazovi nebasa nekundibatsira nemwanakomana wavo. Asi akazoti anga ari mudiki, uye akanganwa mabatirwo evana vakadaro. Ndakahaya mukoti, uye pasina nguva ndakakwanisa kuendesa Yegorka munzvimbo inochengeterwa vana. Iye zvino mukomana wangu ane makore mana ekuberekwa, asi amai vangu vachiri kuramba kupedza nguva naye. Dzimwe nguva anobatsira, anomutora kwemaawa akati wandei pakupera kwevhiki, asi ozogara achinyunyuta kuti aneta zvakanyanya, BP yake yakwira, uye iye zvino anofanira kupora kwevhiki rese. Zvisinei, hazvishande. Iye anogara pamba zuva rese, anoona TV, anosangana nevasikana, uye kuzvikumbiro zvangu kuti neimwe nzira andibatsire nemwana wangu, kana vhiki rangu rekushanda rikava svondo remazuva manomwe, anoti zvakanyanyisa: “Hapana munhu akandibatsira newe, ini ndakabuda mazviri ini, apa waedza sezvandinoita. ”Chii ichi? Kutsiva? Akavanda ruvengo kwandiri? Mukana wekudzorera hujaya hwako hwekare? "
“Munyika yanhasi, vanambuya vakawanda vanosarudza vekupedzisira pakusarudza pakati pevazukuru neupenyu hwega. Uye kune dzimwe nyika, tsika iyi yakagara ichionekwa seyakajairwa. Vanasekuru vanorarama hupenyu hwakazara, ita zvavanoda, kufamba, uye hazvina basa kuti sekuru ava vane makore mangani, makumi mana kana makumi masere.
Ehezve, chinzvimbo chaJeanne chakajeka uye chinonzwisisika: chero amai vanoda rubatsiro uye chero rubatsiro kuvana runokosha. Asi usakanganwa kuti pakusarudza kuita vana, tinozvitakura isu pachedu. Mushure mezvose, izvi ndizvo chaizvo sarudzo yedu uye chishuwo. Kubatsira ambuya harisi basa ravo, asi basa! Vabereki, zvakadaro, vakatorera vana vavo. "
Nekudaro, zvichiri kugona kukanganisa chinzvimbo chaamai vangu. Kunyanya chaizvo, unogona kuedza.
1. Kutanga iwe unofanirwa kuzvisarudzira wega kuti ndeipi, riini uye panguva ipi yaunoda rubatsiro. Uye, zvakakosha, nderupi rubatsiro iwe iwe pachako rwaungade kugamuchira kubva kuna amai vako.
2. Edza kubatana naamai vako. Chero chiito kana kusaita kwemunhu kune tsananguro, kukurudzira kwayo. Gara pasi patafura yekutaurirana, bvunza pachena: ambuya vako vakagadzirira kukubatsira iwe, nderupi rubatsiro rwavanogona kupa uye nehukuru hwupi.
3. Taura pachena, pasina kunyepedzera. Tiudze nezvemanzwiro ako, manzwiro, kushaya kwako rubatsiro uye kuti zvingave zvakanaka sei kana kana mumwe munhu mudiki akabatsira iwe.
4. Tsvaga zvaunogona kuitira amai vako. Zvichida ichi chinhu chisina kana basa kwauri, asi chakanyanya kukosha kwaari.
5. Dhirowa mhando yechibvumirano nehurongwa. Kunyangwe zvikaratidzika kwauri kuti amai vako havana kubatikana nechero chinhu, muchokwadi zvinogona kunge zvakasiyana. Tsvaga maitiro ake ezuva nezuva, vhiki, nguva yaaigona kunyatsoendesa muzukuru wake kwaari. Bvumiranai pane chaiwo nguva dzakatarwa.
6. Ivawo, nekutenda chero rubatsiro kubva kwaari, nekuti kunyangwe kutsigirwa kushoma kwakakosha kwauri. Zvinotaridza sekunge hapana chemashiripiti, asi isu tinowanzokanganwa nezvezvinhu zvakapusa zvakadaro, tichitora rubatsiro kubva kunze kurerutsa.
7. Taura nemhuri uye shamwari, taura zvaunonzwa, uyezve, iva wakagadzirira kuvateerera. Maonero edu mamiriro ezvinhu uye nemaonero evamwe anogona kusiyana zvakanyanya, uye kazhinji zviri nyore kwazvo kuwana mukana kana tikangotaura.
8. Tambudza amai vako nezvishoma zvidiki: rinogona kunge riri bhokisi remaswiti ake avanofarira, kana kubuda mu cafe.
9. Ipa amai vako imwe nguva, asi kwete chete mukati memadziro eimba yako kana yeimba, paunomupa basa kwezuva rimwe kana vhiki. Mukoke kuti afambe-fambe mutown, firimu, kana chiratidziro. Amai vachazvikoshesa.
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Iwe unofunga mbuya vanofanirwa kuchengeta vazukuru vavo here?
Ehe, zvirokwazvo. Wese munhu anozobatsirwa neizvi: ambuya, vana, nevabereki.
Haifaniri kudaro. Ichi chinofanira kunge chiri chishuwo chake chechokwadi, uye kwete basa rakatemerwa kubva kunze.
Ini handina hanya nenyaya iyi. Kana iwe uchida kutsvaga nzvimbo yemwana, ndinogona kuhaya nanny kana kukumbira shamwari. Kubata amai kunodhura iwe pachako. Mwana anobva asadzora mushure merubatsiro rwakadai.
Zvinoitika nenzira dzakasiyana. Dzimwe nguva haakwanise kurarama pasina rubatsiro rwakadai uye ndinofunga kuti ambuya vanofanira kunzwisisa basa ravo rakakosha.