Mukati
- Ukama hwemwanasikana nababa
- Oedipus kana Electra complex chii tsanangudzo? Unoti kudii musikana anodanana nababa vake?
- Zvazvinoreva: Nei vasikana vaduku vachida baba vavo?
- Dambudziko reOedipus mumusikana mudiki: basa rababa rinosarudza
- Maitiro ekugadzirisa hukama hweedipal: hukama hwekukwikwidzana pakati paamai nemwanasikana
- Oedipus complex: uye panguva yekurambana
Ukama hwemwanasikana nababa
Baba, baba, baba… Lucie, ane makore mana, haana chaasara kunze kwababa vake. Kwemwedzi mishomanana zvino, ave achiratidza kusava nehanya zvikuru naamai vake. Baba vake chete ndivo vanowana nyasha mumeso ake. Naiye, anoita zvakawanda: kutarira, kunyemwerera kwokunyengerera ... Anoda kudya chete kana ari iye anomugadzika patafura ndokusunga napkeni yake. Uye anodanidzira nenzwi guru achiti: Achawana naye. Uye nepo Jade, 4, achikumbira baba vake kuti vapfeke mangwanani nehusiku nguva yekurara, Emma, 3, nokuda kwake, anoedza husiku hwese kugara pakati pevabereki vake pamubhedha wevakaroorana. Uye Laïs, ane makore matanhatu, anodzokorora pamadiro “Iti baba, unondida here kupfuura amai?” “
Oedipus kana Electra complex chii tsanangudzo? Unoti kudii musikana anodanana nababa vake?
Asi chii chakashata navo? Hapana chinhu kunze kwekurambidza kwakanyanya: vanoyambuka nguva yeOedipus complex. Afemerwa nemunhu anobva mungano yechiGiriki akauraya baba vake akaroora amai vake, pfungwa iyi inobva mungano yekare inoreva nguva iyo mwana anosangana nerudo rusina magumo kumubereki wechikadzi, uye kunzwa godo kumubereki wemurume mumwe chete. Muchiitiko apo iyo Oedipus complex iri muhukama hwababa / mwanasikana, inonziwo Electra complex.
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Zvazvinoreva: Nei vasikana vaduku vachida baba vavo?
Hapana chikonzero chekuedzesera. Pakati pemazera e2 ne6, iyo Electra yakaoma chikamu chakajairika chekusimudzira uye hunhu hwepfungwa. “Pakutanga kwoupenyu hwake, kasikana kacho kanoramba kaine ukama hwepedyo naamai vake. Asi zvishoma nezvishoma, iye achavhura kune nyika uye anzwisise kuti kune, sababa vake, rimwe bonde raanobva atanga kuda kuziva ", Anotsanangura nyanzvi yepfungwa Michèle Gaubert, munyori we" Mwanasikana wababa vake ", ed. yeMunhu.
Kubva pazera re3, musikana anosimbisa huzivi hwake hwepabonde. Mutevedzeri wake ndiamai vake. Anozvibatanidza naye kusvikira ava kuda kutora nzvimbo yake. Saka nyenga baba vake. Anobva aona amai vake semukwikwidzi oedza kumusundidzira parutivi, dzimwe nguva nechisimba. Asi panguva imwe cheteyo, achiri kumuda zvikuru uye anonzwa ane mhaka nokuda kwehasha dzake. Vana vese vane makore matatu kusvika matanhatu vanopinda muchikamu ichi chine dutu. Vakomana vaduku vanotamba mhirizhonga nababa vavo uye vanombundira amai vavo. Vasikana vadiki vanowanza maitiro ekunyenga vachis-à-vis baba vavo. Kubva mukusajeka kwemirangariro yavo kunomuka nyongano, kuvhiringidzika uko vabereki bedzi, kupfurikidza nechimiro chavo chendangariro chakasimba asi chokunzwisisa, vachakwanisa kubuda.
Dambudziko reOedipus mumusikana mudiki: basa rababa rinosarudza
"Kazhinji, baba vanonzwa kuremerwa kuiswa pamberi pechiitiko," anodaro Alain Braconnier, chiremba wepfungwa uye chiremba wepfungwa paCenter Philippe Paumelle, muParis. “Asi kana akasagadza ganhuriro, kasikana kake kanogona kudavira kuti zvishuvo zvake zvinobvira, ndokupfuurira kuedza kwake kunyengedza. ” Nokudaro kukosha kwekuiisa panzvimbo yayo uye muratidze kuti vaviri vacho varipo kunze kwake. Hatizezi kuigadzirisa patsva, tisina kuitsiura kana kuita kuti inzwe ine mhosva hongu. “Kupfurikidza nokumusundira kure zvakakomba, unomupinza mungozi yokusafara uye kumudzivisa, somunhu mukuru, kuswedera kumurume,” anonyevera kudaro chiremba wepfungwa. Mufananidzo waachave nawo, wehukadzi hwake uye wesimba rake remangwana rekunyengerera zvinoenderana nekutarisa kwekuyemura uye kurumbidza kwaanotumirwa nababa vake. Asi pamusoro pezvose, isu hatitambe mutambo wake, hatimurege achitenda nemafungiro edu kuti tinogona kunyengerwa parejista yakachengeterwa vakuru.
Maitiro ekugadzirisa hukama hweedipal: hukama hwekukwikwidzana pakati paamai nemwanasikana
Mwanasikana wedu ari kutifuratira zvehumambo? Zvakaoma kuti amai vabvume. "Mune Electra complex, amai vanowanzotarisira, panguva ino, kunzwa usina kubatanidzwa », Anotsanangura Alain Braconnier. Hapana mubvunzo kutidzima. "Kuti akure zvakabatana, mwana anofanira kushanduka muukama hwematatu", inosimbisa chiremba wepfungwa. Kuti tigadzirise, tinofunga nezvekuzvichengetedza nguva dzakakosha, tega naye. Zvichamubatsira kuti azvizive mune dzimwe nzvimbo. Tinoyeukawo kuti “mukwikwidzi” wedu muduku anongova mwana, wedu, anotida uye anovimba nesu kuti timutungamirire. Saka hatimuseki, hatisekeri nhamburiko dzake dzokuda kufadza baba vake. Asi tinomusimbisa, ndichiramba ndakatsiga: “Neniwo, pandaiva pazera rako, ndaishuva kuroora baba vangu. Asi izvozvo hazvigoneki. Ndave mukadzi ndakasangana nababa vako, tikadanana uye ndiko kuzvarwa kwako. “
Amai divi
Kutarisa kwaanoita baba vake kunotisvota? Kupfuura zvose, tinodzivisa kupinda mumakwikwi. Anoyeuchidzwa zvinyoronyoro kuti baba vake havasi vake. Asi isu tinoramba tine rudo… uye nemoyo murefu. Oedipus ichakurumidza kuva yeuko iri kure.
Oedipus complex: uye panguva yekurambana
Munguva iyi yakaoma, "kana vabereki vakaparadzana, zvinofanirwa kudzivirira zvachose kuti baba kana amai vane kodzero yekuchengeta mwana vanongoraramira mwana chete uye vanoumba" vaviri vaviri "naye. Zvakanaka kuti mukomana muduku nemusikana muduku vari kugara vachisangana nemunhu wechitatu - shamwari, babamunini - kuputsa hukama hwefusional. Zvikasadaro, zvinokanganisa kugadzira kushaikwa kwekuzvimiririra kumativi ese. »Anopedzisa chiremba wepfungwa Michèle Gaubert.