Iyo Option® Method (Option Process®) inzira yekukura kwemunhu yakagadzirwa neAmerican Barry Neil Kaufman iyo ine chinangwa chekubvisa maitiro ake asina kunaka uye kusarudza mufaro. Mubepa rino, uchaona kuti nzira yesarudzo chii, misimboti yayo, nhoroondo yayo, mabhenefiti ayo, kosi yechikamu pamwe nekudzidziswa kunodiwa kuti uzviite.

Nzira yeOption inotsanangurwa pamusoro pezvose senzira yekukura kwemunhu. Nzira dzayo dzakasiyana dzinovavarira, muchidimbu, kuwana marudzi ese enzira dzekusarudza mufaro pane kusagadzikana, muhuwandu hwemamiriro. Kunyange zvakadaro vane maitiro ekurapa. Kubatsira kwavo, kunonzi, kune mhedzisiro pamamiriro ehutano hwepfungwa uye hwemuviri.

Maererano nenzira iyi, mufaro isarudzo, kunyange zvazvo "kusagadzikana" uye kusuruvara kunoramba kusingadzivisiki. Barry Kaufman uye vatsigiri veOtion nzira vanodzivirira pfungwa yekuti kurwara hakuna kana kushomeka pane imwe yenzira dzekupona dzemunhu. Tinowanzo funga nezvekutambura uye zviratidzo zvako zvakasiyana (kumukira, kuzviisa pasi, kusuwa) sechikamu chisingadzivisiki chehupenyu hwedu. Nekudaro, sekureva kwavo, zvinokwanisika kubvisa iyi yekare reflex uye kutora nzira nyowani yekupona. Munhu anga“sarudza” rugare rwomukati nomufarwa panzvimbo pokuva nyajambwa wokutambura kwake, kunyange apo iye akasuruvara kana kuti akashatirwa.

Nheyo huru

Mumwe anogona kusvika munzira yekufara nekuziva zvaanotenda uye ngano dzake - izvo munhu wese akagadzira kubva paudiki mupfungwa, manzwiro uye maitiro ekuzvidzivirira kubva kunze kwenyika - uye kunyanya nekuzvishandura. Nemamwe mashoko, patinoona kuti nhamo haisiriyo nzira bedzi inobvira yokubuda nayo mumarwadzo, tinozarura mufaro nomufarwa.

Pachokwadi, iyo Sarudzo nzira inoumbwa seti yemaitiro ekudzidza mufaro (kana "kusadzidza" yekusafara…) ayo mashandisiro, zvichienderana nemamiriro ezvinhu, anogona kuva ekudzidzisa, ekurapa kana zvakapusa muhurongwa hwekukura kwako.

Semuenzaniso, sarudzo yekukurukurirana nzira, iyo yakafuridzirwa ne "girazi" nzira, inotibvumira kudzokera kune zvitubu zvekusagadzikana. Kubva pamanzwiro - ruvengo, kutsamwa, kusuruvara - kunoratidzwa nemunhu, mupi wezano anobvunza zvinotendwa zvakabatanidzwa pazviri, kuitira kuti amubatsire kuzvisunungura kubva kwavari.

Mimwe mibvunzo yakajairika

Unonzwa kusuwa Sei? Iwe unotenda muchikonzero ichi here? Chii chingaitika kana ukasazvitenda? Unofunga kuti kusuruvara uku hakudzivisiki here? Sei uchizvitenda? Chii chingaitika kana ukasazvitenda?

Nekuvhura musuwo kune zvimwe zvingangoitika, uye nekujekesa nyaya, tinovavarira kunzwisisa kwechinangwa chekusagadzikana, mamiriro akakosha ekuwana rugare rwemukati. Iyo nzira inoratidzirwa neruremekedzo rwakadzika rwemanzwiro emunhu anodana pairi uye nekuzaruka kukuru kwemupi wezano, anowanzo kuratidzwa se "kugamuchirwa kusingabvumirwe". Pfungwa yokuti munhu wacho inyanzvi yake uye ane pachake zvigadziro zvekutarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu chero ipi zvayo (kushungurudza, kufirwa, kuparadzana, kuremara kwakakomba, nezvimwewo) iriwo pakati pekuita. Basa remurairidzi rekubvunzurudza uye girazi rakakosha, asi rekupedzisira rinofanirwa kuramba riri catalyst, kusambotungamira.

Sangano reOption Institute rakagadzirawo chirongwa chemhuri dzine mwana ane autism kana kuti ane imwe nyonganyonga yekukura (yakadai seAsperger's syndrome). Chirongwa ichi, icho chinonzi Son-Rise, chakabatsira zvikuru mukuzivikanwa kwesangano iri. Vabereki vanotora chirongwa cheSon-Rise havasi kusarudza nzira yekupindira chete, asi chaiyo nzira yehupenyu. Kuzvipira kwakadaro kunosanganisira mari yakakwirira, mune zvose nguva nemari: purogiramu inoitwa kumba, nekutsigirwa neshamwari uye vanozvipira, kazhinji nguva yakazara, uye dzimwe nguva kwenguva inogona kuwedzera kwemakore akawanda. .

VaKaufman vanotaura nhasi kuti nokubvisa ngano dzomunhu oga, munhu anogona kusvika pakugamuchira uye kuda munhu chose chose, kunyange mwana akaparadzaniswa zvikuru nenyika yokunze. Nokudaro, nekuda kwerudo urwu rusingagumi, mubereki anogona kubatanidza nyika yemwana, kubatana naye munyika ino, kumudzora, uye kumukoka kuti auye munyika yedu.

Pawebhusaiti yeOption Institute, tinogona kuverenga zvakawanda zvipupuriro kubva kuvanhu vari kunetsekana nezvinetso zvakasiyana, senge panic disorder, kushushikana, uye zvirwere zvakasiyana siyana zve psychosomatic, avo vakawana hutano hwavo nekuda kwemaitiro aya. . Saka, mabhenefiti ataurwa pano anga asati ave nyaya yezvidzidzo zvesainzi kusvika zvino.

Inosimudzira budiriro yemunhu

Zviri kuburikidza nekubudirira kutora mafungiro aya erudo rusina magumo, kune ivo pachavo uye kune vamwe, kuti "vane hutano" vanogona kuporesa maronda avo emukati, uye kuzvidzora uye vozosarudza mufaro. Vaizoita, kune imwe nhanho, maitiro akafanana neanoitwa nevanhu vane autistic vanozoshanda zvakare.

Kubatsira vana vane autism kana humwe hurema hwekukura

Tsvakurudzo imwe chete inoratidzika kunge yakadhindwa pamusoro penyaya uye yakatarisa hutano hwepfungwa hwemhuri dziri kutora chikamu muchirongwa pane kushanda kwayo. Akagumisa kuti mhuri idzi dziri pasi pekunetseka kwakanyanya uye dzinofanira kukwanisa kuvimba nerutsigiro rwakawedzerwa, kunyanya panguva iyo nzira inoonekwa seisina simba. Munguva pfupi yapfuura, chinyorwa chakaburitswa muna 2006 chinoshumawo zvakabuda mutsvagiridzo iyi, panguva ino ichipa zvinodikanwa zvinodikanwa zvekuongororwa kwevana vane autism. Nekudaro, hapana ruzivo rutsva rwunopihwa maererano nekubudirira kwechirongwa.

Dzidza kuita sarudzo dziri nani 

Nzira yekusarudza yaizobvumira kuti sarudzo dzakajeka uye dzinonzwisisika dziitwe

Vaka chivimbo

Batanidza zviwanikwa zvako: nzira yesarudzo inoita kuti zvikwanisike kuziva zviwanikwa zvako nekuona nekubvisa zvinotendwa zvisina kunaka.

The Option Institute inotarisira zvirongwa zvinosanganisira akawanda madingindira uye mafomula: Sarudzo yeMufaro, Kuzvipa Simba, Couples Course, Exceptional Woman, Calm Amid Chaos, nezvimwewo. Ruzhinji rwacho rwunopihwa nenzira yekugara kwakawedzera kana kushoma pachikoro. (iri muMassachusetts).

The Institute inopawo chirongwa chekudzidzisa kumba (Kusarudza kurarama nerufaro: sumo yeSarudzo Maitiro) iyo inokutendera kuti udzidze nezve nzira nekuumba yako wega boka rekukura. Kune iyo Option dialogue, sevhisi yerunhare inopihwa.

Vaperekedzi kubva kuOtion method uye varairidzi kubva kuSon-Rise chirongwa vanodzidzira vakazvimiririra munyika shoma dzeEurope uye muCanada. Tarisa rondedzero iri pawebhusaiti yeInstitute 3.

MuQuebec, Option-Voix Center inopa mamwe masevhisi akananga kunzira yacho: nhaurirano panzvimbo kana parunhare, zvidzidzo zvekosi nzira yeSarudzo, kugadzirira kana kutevera kwemhuri dziri muchirongwa cheSon-Rise (ona Nzvimbo dzenzvimbo).

Nyanzvi

Iyo inofanirwa kuve yakatenderwa neiyo Option Institute sezvo nzira yekusarudza iri chiratidzo chakanyoreswa.

Nzira yechikamu

Pamasesesheni ehurukuro ekusarudza, hurukuro inotora nguva ingangoita awa uye inoitika vakatarisana kana parunhare. Mushure mezvikamu zvishomanana, munhu wacho anowanzobatanidza mazano emhando iyi yekukurukurirana, uye obva azvishandisa akazvimiririra. Anogona kudana chipangamazano zvakare apo neapo, sezvo uine mudziyo unorodzwa nguva nenguva.

Iva murapi

Kudzidziswa kunopihwa chete kuInstitute. Zvitupa zviviri zvinopihwa: Option process kana Son-Rise. Hapana chinodikanwa chechikoro chinodiwa; kusarudzwa kwevanoda kukwikwidza kunoenderana nekunzwisisa kwavo huzivi hwekutanga uye pamhando yekubatana kwavo.

Barry Kaufman nemukadzi wake Samahria vakagadzira chirongwa cheSon-Rise zvichienderana neruzivo rwavo pachavo. Nyaya yevanaKaufman nemwanakomana wavo Raun, vakaonekwa vaine autism pazera regore nehafu, inotaurwa mubhuku rinonzi A Miracle of Love uye mubhaisikopo reTV rakagadzirwa neNBC rinonzi Son-Rise: A Miracle. yeRudo. Sezvo pasina kurapwa kwakajairika kunopa tariro yekurapa, kana kuvandudza kumwana wavo, veKaufman vakatora nzira yakavakirwa parudo rusina magumo.

Kwemakore matatu, siku nesikati, vaichinjana naye. Vakava magirazi chaiwo emwana wavo, vachitevedzera maitiro ake ose: kuzununguka panzvimbo, kukambaira pasi, kuongorora minwe yake pamberi pemaziso ake, etc. Nzira yacho yakabereka chibereko: zvishoma nezvishoma, Raun akazarura kusvika. nyika yekunze. Iye zvino akura, ane dhigirii reyunivhesiti mune biomedical ethics uye hurukuro pasi rese pachirongwa cheSon-Rise.