Zvipupuriro zvevabereki: “Mwana wangu akanga ari nyajambwa wokudheererwa kuchikoro”

Uchapupu hwaSabrina, amai vaEliott, 9: “Mwana wangu aishungurudzwa kuchikoro. “

“Ndinofunga kuti vana vedu vanonetswa zuva nezuva nevakomana vaviri vomukirasi yavo. Uye maererano nemwanakomana wangu, Eliot ndiye mbudzi yavo. Dzimwe nguva anotofanira kugara akakiya muchimbuzi panguva yekuzorora kana kuti anorohwa! ” Pakafona amai veshamwari yaEliot vachindiudza kuti mwana wangu ane makore 9 arikushungurudzwa handina kuzvibvuma. Ko ini amai vake, uyezve mudzidzisi, ndazvitadza sei? Ndinoteerera uye ndinogara ndakagadzirira kuteerera kuvana vangu vanogoverana nyaya dzavo, mufaro wavo, kusuwa kwavo. “Haisi chokwadi amai. Tiri shamwari, tinonakidzwa uye dzimwe nguva tinopokana, ndizvo chete. ” Eliot akarerutsa, kana asina kunyarara nyaya yacho.

Mufiri wekudheererwa kuchikoro

Panguva iyoyo, takanga tichiparadzana nababa vake, uye mwanakomana wangu aiva nechikonzero chiri chose chokugumbuka. Saka, paakashandisa fungidziro yomusoro kana kuti kurwadziwa nomudumbu kuti asaenda kuchikoro, ndakazviudza kuti akanga ari panguva yakaoma… Mhinduro yake padambudziko iri yaive yekudaidza vana ovaudza kuti vagadzirise matambudziko avo epanhandare pakati pavo. Mukuru wechikoro akatadza kunyatsozviona. Mwanakomana wangu airamba achidzokorora zvaainge ataura, achipomera vana uku achizvipembedza; kuvadzivirira pakupedzisira. Hatina kuyera kubata kwepfungwa kwaive nevakomana vaviri ava pana Eliot.

Mamwe manheru, ndakaziva kuti mumwe wevainyangira akanga adzingirira mwanakomana wangu muchivanze, mucheki webhokisi ari muruoko rwake, achityisidzira kumucheka pahuro. Zvaitofanira kuuya izvi kuti ndimuke ndiende kunomhan'ara. Eliot aifanira kuchinja chikoro. Ndakasangana na manager vakangondiudza kuti waiver request was going to be complicated. Ndaiona vana vaviri vacho mangwanani oga oga asi, sezvandakanga ndadzidziswa mukurovedza kudheerera, handina kutaura navo kuti ndisaita kuti zvinhu zvitonyanya kuipa. Ndakanzwisisa kuti vaingova vana vaviri varombo vaiva nezvinetso munzanga nedzidzo. Semudzidzisi, ndinoziva kuti aya maprofile evana atinoda kubatsira, asi kamwe kamwe hapana anga aona kukanganisa kumwanakomana wangu. Ndakabva ndafonera inspector wepa Academy, uyo akandivimbisa kuti aizowana nzvimbo panzvimbo itsva. Mangwana acho, akachinja chikoro. Kuchema nehasha zhinji zvakatevera. Eliot akanzwa kusaruramisira. "Ndivo vanhu vakaipa, sei ini ndini ndinofanira kuenda?" Akabva atya kuzonetswa zvakare. Kutya kuva ndega. Kwaari, vakomana vaviri ava vakanga vave shamwari asati anzwisisa kuti uku kuenzana kwesimba kwakanga kusiri ushamwari. Zvakanga zvakakodzera kumutsanangurira kuti avo vanoshungurudza vamwe, vanoda kutonga uye kuvanyadzisa, havasi shamwari, nokuti shamwari inounza hukama hwakanaka.

Komuredhi vapambi 

Nhasi Eliot ari kufara kuenda kuchikoro. Akadzikama uye akasununguka. Ndinonzwa mhosva huru, nekuti ndinoona mushure mekunge akatsamwa zvisingaite panguva ino. Ndakarangarirawo kuti aimbouya kumba dzimwe nguva aine mavanga pamuviri. Akadaro shamwari yake yamusundidzira asina kuzviita nemaune. Ko ndaigotadza sei kuona, kusanzwisisa kare? Isu tinoziva kuti chiriko uye tiri kurohwa nenyundo nemishandirapamwe yekushungurudza vanhu. Sevamwe amai ndakavabvunza kuti taivanetsa kuchikoro here asi mwana wangu haana kutaura. Muchikoro chepuraimari, vadiki zvikuru zvokusagona kupatsanura zvinhu, uye kwavari, zvakaoma kutsauranisa musiyano pakati pokuti “iwe uri mukomana wangu zvikuru, ndinotamba newe zvikuru” namabhendi maduku anomanikidza vamwe vana mukurwisana. maitiro. “

Hurukuro naDorothée Saada

Chipupuriro chaCaroline, amai vaMélina, ane makore 6 okukura, uye Emy, mwedzi 7: “Handina kubudirira mukudzivirira mwanasikana wangu! “

“Mwana wangu mukuru ane makore 6 okuberekwa, akanga achangodzokera giredhi rekutanga uye akafara zvikuru, zvikuru kubvira gore rapfuura, ari kukwira bhazi kuenda kuchikoro. Kubva kukireshi, agara aine hunhu hwakasimba. Zvokuti muchikamu chiduku, takava nezvakataurwa nemudzidzisi. Akasunda, akarova vamwe vake. Sezvineiwo, iyi ndima yakaipa yakakurumidza kupfuura. Taigara tichigadzirisa zvose zvataikurukura naye, asi gore rechikoro richangotanga, Mélina akatanga kuvhara nzeve dzake pese pataitaura naye nezvechimwe chinhu chaaisafarira. Ditto patakamuudza kuti "kwete", nepo, kusvika panguva iyoyo, taigara tichikwanisa kumuita kuti ateerere kufunga zvakadzikama. Ikoko handina kumuziva. Ndakafunga kuti zvainge zvakonzerwa nekusagadzikana kwese kwegore rino, kuzvarwa kwemunin'ina wake, asi kwete… Mamwe manheru, akati kwandiri: “Munoziva amai, pane vakomana vandiinavo. kunetsa mubhazi. ” Ndakadonha kubva kumakore. Ndakaona kuti vakomana vana vaiva mubhazi, kusanganisira wemakore gumi, vaitaura zvinhu kwaari sekuti: "Unoita sehure", "musoro webhanana", nezvimwewo. Ndinofunga kuti zuva iroro vanofanira kunge vakanyanya kureba. ndosaka akazondiudza nezvazvo.

Zviri pachena kuti zvakanga zvave zvichiitika kwemavhiki maviri kana matatu. Iye ane hunhu hwakasimba kudaro handina kufunga kuti anganetswa. Ndakapererwa. Ndakanga ndakundikana kudzivirira mwanasikana wangu uye, kupfuura zvose, ndakasuruvara kuti zvakanga zvatora nguva refu kwazvo kundiudza nezvazvo. Ndakanzwa hasha kuti hapana ainge azviona semuperekedzi kana mutyairi webhazi anenge anzwa zvinyadzi izvi. Kusimbisa nyaya iyi, ndakafonera shamwari ine mwanasikana anokwirawo bhazi. Mudiki wacho akasimbisa kutukwa uye kushungurudzwa.

Mwanasikana wangu akatukwa nekunetswa

Takagadzirisa nyaya yacho, uye Muvhuro wakatevera wacho, takaenda kuchiteshi chebhazi kwaikwirirwa mwana mumwe nomumwe uye takaudza vabereki zvose. Vabereki vaviri vakangoti dhuma dhuma pavakaona murume wangu asvika ndokutanga kutaura kuti vaisaziva. Vana vavo vakatsinhira zvaiitika mubhazi ndokutsiurwa. Takataurawo nemutyairi nemuperekedzi. Kubva ipapo, zvese zvadzokera kune zvakajairika. Mwanasikana wangu achinja maitiro ake. Haachavhari nzeve kana asingadi kunzwa chinhu. Ndinovimba chiitiko ichi chamupa chivimbo matiri. Uye kuti zuva iro chimwe chinhu chichaitika zvakare, iye achava neushingi hwokutiudza zvakare. Kana tichiona kushungurudzwa kwakaipisisa kunoitwa nevamwe vana, dzimwe nguva kwemakore, vasingadi kutaura nezvazvo, tinozviudza kuti takanga taita rombo rakanaka. “

Hurukuro naEstelle Cintas

Chipupuriro chaNathalie, amai vaMaelya, vane makore 7 okukura: “Vana vangava vane utsinye sei? “

Mukati mezororo raitevera gore rokupedzisira rekireshi, mwanasikana wedu ane makore 5 nehafu okukura akatanga kudya zvishomanene. Rimwe zuva akati kwatiri: “Handifaniri kudya zvakanyanya, ndikasadaro ndichafuta.” Tanyeverwa, takamubvunza kuti nei akadaro. Tichiziva kuti ndiri mukobvu, takazviudza kuti pamwe yakabva ikoko… Panguva iyoyo, hapana chaakawedzera. Akabva atiudza kuti mumwe musikana kuchikoro aigara achimuudza kuti akafuta. Sezvo takanga tiri pakati pezororo rechirimo, hapana zvataigona kuita. Asi mazuva mashoma ndadzokera kugiredhi rekutanga, ndichikurukura nevamwe amai, mwanasikana wavo akatarisa wangu ndokuti: “Aaa, zvakanaka, haana kukora!” Pandakamubvunza kuti atsanangure, akandisimbisa kuti vamwe vasikana vemukirasi iyi vaingoramba vachiti vakafuta. Ndainge ndaita hasha. Chikanganiso chandakaita kwaiva kutaura kuna amai zvakananga ndokuvatsanangurira kuti mwanasikana wavo akanga ataura mashoko anorwadza. Wekupedzisira, pane kuti aendese mwanasikana wake parutivi kuti ataure nezvazvo uye aone zvakanga zvaitika, akamubvunza pamberi pangu achiita kuti asanzwe zvakanaka. Zviripachena, mudiki wacho akaramba zvese. Mai vaya vakabva vapindawo zvakandisvota. Pashure pezvo, uyu muduku navamwe vana mukirasi vakapfuurira. Zuva nezuva, zvakanga zvakasiyana: vakavhara mwanasikana wangu mukona yechivanze, vakaba zvipfeko zvake, vakatsika patsoka dzake, nezvimwewo. Yakanga iri nguva yakaoma zvikuru kuna Maelya. Zvekuti kuchikoro ainge asisade akachema angosvika kumba. Ndakazviona ndava muhofisi yemaneja kakawanda.

Rutsigiro kubva kusangano rinorwisa kushungurudzwa kuchikoro

Nguva imwe neimwe ndaiudzwa kuti: “Idzi inyaya dzevana. Mai vekamusikana kacho vakatosvika pakundipomera mhosva yekudheerera, kunyange zvazvo ndisina kumboona mwanasikana wavo! Sezvo chikoro chakanga chasarudza kuita chinhu, ndakafonera sangano rinoona nezvemhirizhonga muchikoro uye mumwe munhu wemufundisi akatibata. Takazoita mahwekwe nevakuru namhamha vacho tikavaudza kuti kana pasina chaizoitika taizomhan'ara kuvakuru. Somugumisiro webvunzurudzo iyi, mamiriro acho ezvinhu akavandudzika zvishoma. Ndinofunga kuti kwave nekutariswa kwakanyanya nevadzidzisi uye nekudaro kushomeka kwekurwisa. Asi nekukura kwayakanga yaita, takanga tasarudza kuchinja chikoro… Zvaiva zvakanaka, nekuti taifanira kutamira kune imwe imba. Takangonyoresa mwanasikana wedu kare. Kubva ipapo, ndakaona kuchinja kukuru mumwana wangu. Maelya anoshanda zviri nani, anofara, haachachemi. Akaita shamwari itsva uye ndakawana musikana mudiki aifara uye asina hanya wandaiziva. “

Hurukuro naEstelle Cintas