PSYchology

Muupenyu hwose, tinowanzova vanyajambwa vezvimiro zvendangariro zvine chokuita nezera. Dzimwe nguva vadiki, dzimwe nguva vakura… Kunyanya, rusarura rwakadai runokanganisa hunhu nehutano hwevakwegura. Nekuda kwezera, zvakanyanya kuoma kwavari kuti vazvizive, uye stereotyped mitongo yevamwe inoderedza denderedzwa rekutaurirana. Asi mushure mezvose, isu tese nekukurumidza kana gare gare tasvika pakuchembera ...

rusarura rwetsika

“Ndiri kurasikirwa nezvinhu zvangu. Yave nguva yekuvhiyiwa kwepurasitiki, "shamwari yakandiudza ichinyemwerera. Vlada ane makore makumi mashanu, uye iye, mumashoko ake, "anoshanda nechiso chake." Muchokwadi, anoitisa zvidzidzo zvevashandi vemakambani makuru. Ane dzidzo mbiri dzepamusoro, maonero akafara, ruzivo rwakapfuma uye chipo chekushanda nevanhu. Asi zvakare ane makwinya ekuedzesera kumeso kwake uye bvudzi jena mubvudzi rake rakagerwa zvine hunyanzvi.

Vatungamiri vanotenda kuti iye, semurairidzi, anofanira kunge ari mudiki uye anoyevedza, kana zvisina kudaro vateereri "havazomutore zvakanyanya." Vlada anoda basa rake uye anotya kusara asina mari, saka akagadzirira, zvinopesana nezvaanoda, kuti aende pasi pebanga, kuti arege kurasikirwa ne "mharidzo" yake.

Uyu ndiwo muenzaniso wakajairika wezera - rusarura runobva pazera. Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti zvakatonyanya kupararira kupfuura kusarurana kwevanhu uye rusaruraganda. Kana uri kutarisa kuvhurwa kwemabasa, unogona kuona kuti, semutemo, makambani ari kutsvaga vashandi vari pasi pemakore makumi mana nemashanu.

“Mafungiro akasarudzika anobatsira kurerutsa mufananidzo wenyika. Asi kazhinji rusaruro runokanganisa maonero akakwana evamwe vanhu. Semuyenzaniso, vashandirwi vazhinji vanoratidza kurambidzwa zera muzvinzvimbo nekuda kwekusagadzikana kwekudzidza kwakashata mushure memakore makumi mana nemashanu, "anodaro nyanzvi yezve gerontology uye geriatrics, Muzvinafundo Andrey Ilnitsky.

Nekuda kwepesvedzero yezera, vamwe vanachiremba havapi varwere vakura kuti varapwe, vachibatanidza chirwere nezera. Uye mamiriro ehutano akadai sedementia anotariswa zvisiri izvo mhedzisiro yekuchembera kwakajairika, nyanzvi inodaro.

Hapana kubuda?

“Mufananidzo wouduku husingaperi unokudziridzwa munzanga. Hunhu hwekukura, hwakadai segrey bvudzi nemakwinya, kazhinji zvakavanzika. Kufungira zvisizvo kwedu kunokonzereswawo nemafungiro asina kunaka ezera rekurega basa. Maererano nesarudzo, vanhu vekuRussia vanosanganisa kuchembera nehurombo, kurwara uye kusurukirwa.

Saka tiri mumatambudziko. Kune rimwe divi, vanhu vakuru havararame hupenyu huzere nekuda kwemaitiro akarerekera kwavari. Kune rumwe rutivi, mafungiro akadaro munzanga anosimbiswa nekuda kwekuti vanhu vazhinji vanorega kurarama hupenyu hwemagariro evanhu nezera, "anodaro Andrey Ilnitsky.

Chikonzero chakanaka chekurwisa zera

Hupenyu hahuperi. Iyo elixir yehudiki isingaperi haisati yagadzirwa. Uye vose avo nhasi vanopisa vashandi 50+, vasingadi kudana vapenjeni "pennies", vateerere neuto rekuremekedza, kana kutaura sevana vasinganzwisisi ("Zvakanaka, boomer!"), Mushure mechinguva ivo pachavo vachapinda muzera rino.

Vachada kuti vanhu "vakanganwe" nezve ruzivo rwavo, unyanzvi uye unhu hwemweya, vachiona vhudzi rakachena uye makwinya? Vachazvifarira here kana ivo vamene vakatanga kuva vakaganhurirwa, vasingabatanidzwi muupenyu hwenzanga, kana kuti kurangarirwa kuva vasina simba uye vasingakwanisi?

“Kusazviremekedza kwevakwegura kunokonzera kudzikira. Izvi zvinowedzera njodzi yekuora mwoyo uye kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe. Nekuda kweizvozvo, vanodya penjeni vanobvumirana nemafungiro aya uye vanozviona semaonerwo avanoitwa nenzanga. Vanhu vakwegura vanoona kuchembera kwavo nenzira yakaipa vanopora zvakanyanya kubva pakuremara uye, paavhareji, vanorarama makore manomwe zvishoma pane vanhu vane maonero akanaka kumakore avo,” anodaro Andrey Ilnitsky.

Zvichida ageism ndiyo chete rudzi rusarura umo «mutambudzi» chokwadi kuva «akabatwa» (kana achirarama kusvika kuchembera). Izvi zvinoreva kuti avo vava nemakore makumi maviri nemakumi matatu ekuberekwa vanofanira kushingaira mukurwisa kurwisana nezera. Uye zvino, zvichida, pedyo ne20, havachazofaniri kunetseka nezve "mharidzo".

Kutarisana nerusaruro rwakadzika midzi iwe pachako kwakaoma, nyanzvi inotenda. Kuti tirwise zera, tinofanira kufungazve kuti kukwegura chii. Munyika dzinofambira mberi, sangano rekurwisana nezera rinokurudzirwa, zvichiratidza kuti kukwegura haisi nguva inotyisa muupenyu.

Maererano nekufanotaura kweUN, mumakumi matatu emakore pachange paine vanhu vanopfuura makore 60 nekaviri panyika yedu sezvavari iye zvino. Uye ava vangangove avo nhasi vane mukana wekupesvedzera shanduko mumaonero eruzhinji - uye nekudaro vanovandudza ramangwana ravo.

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