PSYchology

Mutengi: Mwanasikana wangu, ane makore gumi nematanhatu. "Ndinoda kutaura"

Chikumbiro: “Vashanu vedu tiri shamwari. Pakati pedu pane musikana asingakoshesi hushamwari hwedu. Munhu wese akagumburwa naye, akamubvisa kushamwari mukuonana. Ndingaita sei kuti shamwari dzangu dziyanane naye?” Kusimudzirwa pamweya, maziso anopisa. Kuda kutaura uye kuita sarudzo inokosha.

Ndiri kujekesa chikumbiro: “Zvinorevei kuti haakoshesi ushamwari? Sei muchifunga kuti munofanira kuvayananisa?"

- Ane dzimwe shamwari - kambani yakasiyana. Anopedza nguva yakawanda navo. Haachengeti shoko rake: anotiudza kuti achaenda nesu, uye ipapo anoramba uye oenda navo. Sei ndichida kushamwaridzana? Iye pachake akandibvunza, nokuti ndisati ndagara ndichimuyananisa navo, asi panguva ino ini ndakagumburwa naye, handina kubvumirana. Asi ini handina kuibvisa kubva kune Shamwari muKudhumhana.

Unofunga kuti arikunetsekana nazvo here?

Komenda. Kana mupi wezano achida kubvunza kana shamwari yacho ine chido chechokwadi kana chido chekuchengetedza ushamwari, ndiko kuti, pamusoro pekuda kuita, mubvunzo waizova wakanaka. Mubvunzo wemanzwiro mubvunzo uri mukati.

- Kunetseka, asi kwete zvakanyanya. Ane imwe kambani. N. ari kunyanya kunetseka nekuti aimuda. Ndiye akatanga kumubvisa pamaContacts.

— Vamwe vanonzwa sei nezvazvo?

Komenda. Mubvunzo wei uye nei? Iwe unogona kutaura nezvemanzwiro kwenguva refu. Mubvunzo une musoro ungave: zvine musoro here kuvayananisa? Mikana ipi iyo mwanasikana anoona iyi?

“Vanomutsigira. Pakarepo shure kwake, vakamubvisa kushamwari. Asi ini handibvise zvakadaro. Tichiri kutaura naye. Kana tikasataurirana kwenguva yakareba, saka pamwe ndichaidzima.

Zvakanaka, usadzima. Vamwe vanozviona sei?

— Zvakanaka. Ndinofunga vakamirira kuti ndivayananise.

— Unochida here?

Komenda. Mwanasikana aida kuita chimwe chinhu, akanga ari kushingaira, sei basa racho richifanira kudzimwa? Panzvimbo pokukurukura kuti “sei muchida izvi,” zvaiva nani kupa hurongwa hwekuti vangayananisa sei. Sangana neshamwari, muudze chikonzero nei akagumburwa, taura nezve kana akagadzirira kubata shamwari neruremekedzo, uye zvakanyanya - kana mabvumirana kusangana, saka huya, usashatise shamwari dzako ... zviri nani kuita uye kupfidza pane kwete kuita uye kutendeuka. Zvirinani kuedza nekudzidza pane kusaita chinhu nekufunga.

Saka handina kuita nharo naye. Handidi kuti haaiti zvaanotaura, asi anogona kushamwaridzana nemunhu wese. Uye handisi kuzongovimba nezvivimbiso zvake nezvose. Kana ikashanda - yakanaka, kana isingashande - haina basa.

- Kana iwe usina kupika, N. haadi kutsungirira, haatore danho rekutanga, saka nei uchichida? Unoda chaizvo kuvayananisa here? Pamwe pane chakaitika pakati pavo chausingazive nezvacho? Asi imi muri shamwari, taurai nemunhu wese, tsvaga zvavanenge vakamirira, zvinovarwadza zvakadii. Kana vasingadi kutsungirira, siya zvese sezvazviri - ramba uchitaurirana sepakutanga, kana achida kutora danho rekutanga kana kuratidza chishuwo mune iyi nzira - mubatsire. Kana zvisina kudaro, nguva ichaisa zvinhu zvose panzvimbo yayo. Iwe haugone kumusimudza, atova nemakore gumi nematanhatu ...

— Teerera…

Komenda. Zvakazoitika - kusava nematuro. Shungu dzakapera, zvidzidzo zvehupenyu hazvina kudzidzwa. Zvinokwanisika uye zvakakosha kuti unzwisise manzwiro kana zvisingabviri kupa chero chinhu pamwero wezviito. Panguva ino, unogona kutarisa pane zviito, kutaura pamusoro pezviito, zviito, zviito!

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