Mukati
Chitendero muhupenyu hwemhuri
“Baba ava mutendi uye ini handitende kuti kuna Mwari. Mwana wedu achabhabhatidzwa asi achazvisarudzira kuti atende kana kusatenda, paanenge akura zvakakwana kuti anzwisise ari oga uye kuunganidza ruzivo rwese rwaanoda kuti aumbe maonero. Hapana anomumanikidza kutora ichi kana icho chitendero. Inyaya yemunhu oga,” vanotsanangura kudaro vamwe amai pasocial network. Kazhinji kazhinji, vabereki vezvitendero zvakavhengana vanotsanangura kuti mwana wavo achakwanisa kusarudza rudzidziso rwake gare gare. Hazvisi pachena, sekureva kwaIsabelle Levy, nyanzvi munyaya dzekusiyana kwezvitendero muvaviri ava. Kwake: " Kana mwana wacho aberekwa, vaviri vacho vanofanira kuzvibvunza kuti vangamurera sei muchitendero kana kuti kwete. Ndezvipi zvinhu zvekunamatira zvicharatidzwa kumba, ndeapi mitambo yatichatevera? Kazhinji kusarudzwa kwezita rekutanga ndiko kunosarudza. Sezvakaita mubvunzo wekubhabhatidzwa pakuzvarwa kwemwana. Vamwe amai vanokurangarira kuva kwakanakisisa kumirira: “Ndinokuwana kuri upenzi kuvabhapatidza mwana. Hatina chatakavabvunza. Ini ndiri mutendi asi handisi chikamu chechimwe chitendero. Ndichamuudza nyaya dzakakosha dzebhaibheri uye mitsetse mikuru yezvitendero zvikuru, zvetsika dzake, kwete kunyanya kuti atende mazviri ”. Saka unotaura sei nevana vako nezvechitendero? Vanotenda kana kuti kwete, varoorani vorudzidziso vakavhengana, vabereki vanowanzoshamisika pamusoro pebasa rorudzidziso nokuda kwomwana wavo.
Zvitendero zvekudavira Mwari mumwe chete uye zvevamwari vakawanda
Muzvitendero zvaMwari mumwe (Mwari mumwe), munhu anova muKristu nokubhabhatidzwa. Mumwe muJudha pakuzvarwa pachirango chekuti amai vacho muJudha. Iwe uri muMuslim kana wakazvarwa nababa vechiMuslim. "Kana amai vari muMuslim uye baba vechiJudha, saka mwana haasi chinhu zvachose kubva pamaonero echitendero" anotsanangura Isabelle Lévy. Muchitendero chevazhinji (Vanamwari vakati wandei) sechiHindu, magariro nezvitendero zvehupenyu zvinobatanidzwa. Sosaiti inoumbwa nemakasitoma, gadziriro yezvimiro zvenzanga nezvitendero, inowirirana nezvinodavirwa nemiitiro yokunamata zvomunhu wacho. Kuberekwa kwemwana mumwe nomumwe uye matanho akasiyana-siyana ehupenyu hwake (mudzidzi, musoro wemhuri, akarega basa, nezvimwewo) zvinosarudza mararamiro ayo. Misha mizhinjisa ine nzvimbo yokunamatira: mitezo yemhuri inoigovera zvokudya, maruva, rusenzi, makenduru. Vanamwari navamwarikadzi vakakurumbira, vakadai saKrishna, Shiva naDurga, vanonamatwa, asiwo vamwari vanozivikanwa nokuda kwamabasa avo chaiwoiwo (Mwarikadzi weChibhokisi, somuenzaniso) kana kuti vanoshandisa chiito chavo, dziviriro yavo munharaunda yakaganhurirwa bedzi. Mwana anokura pakati pevanonamata. Mumhuri dzakasanganiswa, zvakanyanya kuoma kupfuura zvinoita.
Kukura pakati pezvitendero zviviri
Kupindirana kwezvitendero kunowanzoonekwa sehupfumi hwetsika. Kuva nababa namai vechitendero chakasiyana kwaizova vimbiso yekusununguka. Dzimwe nguva zvinogona kunge zvakanyanya kuoma. Vamwe amai vanotitsanangurira kuti: “Ini ndiri muJudha uye baba vacho muKristu. Takazviudza panguva yenhumbu kuti kana ari mukomana, aizochecheudzwa UYE kubhabhatidzwa. Tichikura, taizotaura naye zvakanyanya nezve zvitendero zviviri izvi, zvaive kwaari kuti aite sarudzo yake gare gare ”. Maererano naIsabelle Levy “apo vabereki vanenge vari vezvitendero zviviri zvakasiyana, chakanakisisa chingava chokuti mumwe asiyane nokuda kwechimwe. Chitendero chimwe chete chinofanira kudzidziswa kumwana kuitira kuti ave nemanongedzo akasimba pasina kukakavara. Zvikasadaro sei uchibhabhatidza mwana kana mushure mekunge pasina kuteedzerwa kwechitendero panguva yehudiki mukatekismu kana chikoro cheKoranic? “. Kune nyanzvi, muvakaroorana vakavhengana vezvitendero, mwana haafaniri kusiyiwa aine uremu hwekusarudza pakati pababa vechitendero chimwe naamai vechimwe. “Vamwe varoorani vakanga vapatsanura firiji kuva makamuri akawanda kuti vagovanisa zvokudya zveHaral zvaamai, avo vakanga vari muMuslim, uye zviya zvababa, avo vakanga vari muKaturike. Kana mwana wacho aida soseji, aingochera kubva mufiriji, asi aine zvirevo kubva kune chero mubereki kuti adye soseji "yakarurama", asi ndeipi? »Anotsanangura Isabelle Levy. Haafungi kuti chinhu chakanaka kurega mwana achidavira kuti achasarudza gare gare. Pane kudaro, “Mukuyaruka, mwana anogona kupengenuka nokukurumidza zvikuru nemhaka yokuti anoerekana awana rudzidziso. Izvi zvingave zvakadaro kana pakange pasina rutsigiro uye kudzidza kunofambira mberi muhuduku kwakakosha kubatanidza nekunzwisisa chitendero, ”anowedzera Isabelle Levy.
Basa rechitendero kumwana
Isabelle Levy anofunga kuti mumhuri dzisingadaviri kuvapo kwaMwari, panogona kuva nekushaikwa kwemwana. Kana vabereki vakasarudza kurera mwana wavo pasina chitendero, achanangana nazvo kuchikoro, neshamwari dzake, dzichava dzokuteerera kwakadai nokudaro. ” Mwana wacho pachokwadi haana kusununguka kusarudza chitendero sezvo asingazive kuti chii. “Zvamazvirokwazvo, kwaari, rudzidziso rune basa re” tsika, chokwadika chiito. Isu tinotevera mitemo, zvinorambidzwa, hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwakarongeka pachitendero ”. Izvi ndizvo zvakaitika kuna Sophie, vamwe amai vane murume wechechi imwe cheteyo: “Ndiri kurera vanakomana vangu muchitendero chechiJudha. Tinopfuudza tsika dzechiJudha kuvana vedu, pamwe chete nomurume wangu. Ndinoudza vana vangu nezvenhoroondo yemhuri yedu uye nevanhu vechiJudha. Manheru eChishanu, dzimwe nguva tinoedza kuita kiddush (munamato weshabbat) patinenge tichidya manheru kumba kwehanzvadzi yangu. Uye ndinoda kuti vakomana vangu vaite bhawa mitzah (chirairo). Tine mabhuku akawanda. Munguva pfupi yapfuura ndakatsanangurira mwanakomana wanguwo chikonzero nei “nhengo” yake yakanga yakasiyana neyeshamwari dzake. Ndaisada kuti zviitewo vamwe rimwe zuva vanoratidza musiyano uyu. Ndakadzidza zvakawanda nezvechitendero pandakanga ndichiri muduku nemisasa yechiJudha yechirimo yakaendeswa nevabereki vangu. Ini ndinoda kuita zvimwe chete nevana vangu ”.
Kufambiswa kwechitendero nemadzisekuru
Vanasekuru vane basa rinokosha mukupfuudza miitiro yetsika nechitendero kuvazukuru vavo mumhuri. Isabelle Levy anotsanangura kwatiri kuti aive nechipupuriro chinobaya mwoyo chasekuru nasekuru avo vakasuruvara kusakwanisa kuendesa tsika dzavo kuvakomana vaduku vemwanasikana wavo, akaroorwa nemurume wechiMuslim. “Ambuya vacho vakanga vari muKaturike, vakanga vasingakwanisi kudyisa vana quiche Lorraine, somuenzaniso, nokuda kwebhekoni. Kuvaendesa kuchechi neSvondo, sezvaaimboita, kwakanga kusingabvumirwi nomutemo, zvinhu zvose zvakanga zvakaoma. “Filiation haiitike, anoongorora munyori. Kudzidza nezvechitendero kunopfuura nemuupenyu hwezuva nezuva pakati pavanasekuru, vanatezvara, vabereki nevana, panguva yekudya semuenzaniso uye kugoverana kwezvimwe zvechinyakare ndiro, mazororo munyika yekwakabva kuti vabatane zvakare nemhuri, kupemberera mazororo echitendero. Kakawanda, vanaambuya vomumwe wevabereki ndivo vanovakurudzira kusarudzira vana chitendero. Kana zvitendero zviviri zvakasangana, zvichange zvakaoma zvikuru. Vana vaduku vanogona kunzwa kuoma. Kuna Isabelle Levy, “vana vanojekesa misiyano yorudzidziso yavabereki. Minamato, chikafu, mabiko, kudzingiswa, chirairo, nezvimwe… zvese zvichave chikonzero chekugadzira kupokana mumubatanidzwa wezvitendero zvakasanganiswa ”.