Mukati
- 1. Kudzokera kubasa mushure memwana: tinozvifunga isu pachedu
- 2. Tinoparadzanisa mutoro wepfungwa nembiri
- 3. Tinotarisira sangano rine mwana anorwara
- 4. Dzokera kubasa mushure memwana: rega baba vabatanidzwe
- 5. Tinorega… uye tinorega kuongorora zvose zvababa
- 6. Dzokera kubasa mushure memwana: pakati pevabereki, tinoparadzanisa mabasa
- 7. Tinoongorora kurongeka kwezvinhu zvedu zvinokosha
- 8. Dzokera kubasa mushure memwana: kugadzirira kuparadzana
- 9. Tinorangarira pamwe chete
Kwangosara mazuva mashoma kuti titangezve basa, uye mibvunzo zviuru zana mupfungwa! Kuparadzana kuchafamba sei nemwana? Ndiani achamuchengeta kana achirwara? Zvakadini nemabasa epamba? Heano makiyi ekutanga patsoka yekurudyi uye kwete kupera simba usati watombotanga!
1. Kudzokera kubasa mushure memwana: tinozvifunga isu pachedu
Kuyananisa hupenyu hwemukadzi, mukadzi, amai uye musikana anoshanda zvinoreva kuva mune zvakanaka mumuviri nepfungwa. Zvisinei, hazvisi nyore kutora nguva nepurogiramu yakabatikana kudaro. “Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha kugutsikana nekukosha kwekuzvifunga. Kudzidza kubata simba rako kunoita kuti udzikise kuneta uye nekudaro uve nemoyo murefu uye uchiteerera kune vaunoda, ”anotsanangura Diane Ballonad Rolland, murairidzi uye murairidzi mukutarisira nguva uye hupenyu hwepakati *. Anopa zano, semuenzaniso, kutora zuva reRTT pasina mwana wako, iwe pachako. Kamwe pamwedzi, iwe unogona zvakare kuenda kunonwa mukamuri yetii, wega. Tinotora mukana uyu kuongorora mwedzi wapfuura neuchauya. Uye tinoona manzwiro atinoita. "Iwe unodzorera kuziva muhupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva uye ugare wakabatana nezvido zvako", anopokana Diane Ballonad Rolland.
2. Tinoparadzanisa mutoro wepfungwa nembiri
Kunyange zvazvo vanababa vari kuzviita zvakanyanya uye vazhinji vavo vane hanya sesu vanaamai hapana chekuita, kazhinji vanotakura pamapfudzi avo (uye kumashure kwemisoro yavo) zvose zvavanogona kutarisira: kubva pakugadzwa kwachiremba kusvika kuna amai. zuva rekuzvarwa kwevakwasha, kusanganisira kunyoresa kukireshi… Nekutangazve basa, mutoro wepfungwa unowedzera. Saka, ngatitorei matanho! Hapana mubvunzo wekutakura zvinhu zvese pamapfudzi ake! “Kamwe pavhiki, semuenzaniso manheru eSvondo, tinopa pfungwa nemumwe wedu papurogiramu yevhiki. Isu tinopanana ruzivo kuderedza mutoro uyu. Ona kuti ndiani anotungamira chii, ”anokurudzira Diane Ballonad Rolland. Mese makabatana here? Sarudza Google Calendar kana maapplication akaita seTipStuff inofambisa kurongeka kwemhuri, ita kuti zvikwanisike kugadzira zvinyorwa ...
3. Tinotarisira sangano rine mwana anorwara
Muchokwadi, gumi nerimwe pathologies zvinotungamirira kusabatanidzwa munharaunda . Kana mwana wako achirwara uye mukoti kana mubatsiri wekurera asingakwanisi kumugara, mutemo unopa vashandi mubazi rakazvimirira. mazuva matatu ekuenda kwemwana anorwara (uye mazuva mashanu evana vari pasi pe1) pakuratidzwa kwechitupa chekurapa. Saka tinoona, chibvumirano chedu chekubatana chinogonawo kutipa zvimwe. Uye inoshanda kune vese vanababa naamai! Zvisinei, zororo iri haribhadharwe, kunze kweAlsace-Moselle, kana kana chibvumirano chako chichichipa. Isu tinotarisirawo nekuona kana veukama vachikwanisa kurera mwana.
Uye amai vega… tozviita sei?
Zviri kunze kwemubvunzo kutora chinzvimbo chababa naamai nezvakawandisa. Tinotarisa pane izvo zvinoita sezvinonyanya kukosha kwatiri. Tinokudziridza mambure edu nepatinogona napo: mhuri, shamwari, vabereki vanochengeta vana, vavakidzani, PMI, masangano… Kana varambana, kunyangwe baba vasipo, vane basa ravo rekuita. Zvikasadaro, tinoedza kubatanidza varume mudenderedzwa redu rehukama (sekuru, papi…).
Pakupedzisira, tinonyatsozvitarisira uye tinoziva unhu hwedu pachedu. “Iva panguva ino. Kwemaminetsi matatu, pora, fema zvinyoro nyoro, batanidza newe kuti udzorere. “Mubhuku rekutenda,” nyora pasi zvinhu zvitatu zvawakaita zvaunotenda nazvo. Uye yeuka, mudiki wako haadi amai vakakwana, asi amai varipo uye vakagwinya, "anoyeuka kudaro chiremba wepfungwa.
4. Dzokera kubasa mushure memwana: rega baba vabatanidzwe
Baba varikumashure here? Isu tinowanzo kutarisira imba uye mudiki wedu zvakanyanya? Nekudzokera kubasa, yave nguva yekugadzirisa zvinhu. “Ndiye mwana wevaviri ava!” Baba vacho vanofanirwa kunge vaine chekuita naamai, ”anodaro Ambre Pelletier, murairidzi waamai uye chiremba wepfungwa. Kuti aite kuti atore zvinhu zvakanyanya mumaoko ake, tinomuratidza tsika dzedu kuchinja mwana, kumudyisa… Tinomukumbira kuti ageze isu patinenge tichiita chimwe chinhu. Kana tikamupa nzvimbo, achadzidza kuiwana!
5. Tinorega… uye tinorega kuongorora zvose zvababa
Tinoda kuti diaper inopfekedzwa seizvi, kuti kudya kunotorwa panguva yakadai, nezvimwewo. Asi mumwe wedu, anoenderera nenzira yake. Amber Pelletier anoyambira zvekuda kudzoka kumashure kwababa. “Zviri nani kurega kutonga. Ndiyo nzira yakanakisa yekukuvadza nekugumburisa. Kana baba vari kuita chimwe chinhu chavasina kujaira, vachada kuremekedzwa kuti vawedzere kuzviremekedza. Nokumutsoropodza, anoisa pangozi kungokanda mapfumo pasi uye kutora chikamu zvishoma. Unofanira kurega! », Anonyevera chiremba wepfungwa.
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6. Dzokera kubasa mushure memwana: pakati pevabereki, tinoparadzanisa mabasa
Diane Ballonad Rolland anopa zano gadzira tafura yekuti "ndiani anoita" nemumwe wedu. “Onai mabasa akasiyana epamba neemhuri, mozoona kuti ndiani anoaita. Mumwe nomumwe wavo anobva aziva zviri kutungamirirwa nomumwe. Zvadaro wovagovera zvakaenzana. "Tinoenderera mberi nechikamu chekuita: mumwe achaendesa Jules kuna chiremba wevana, mumwe achatarisira kusiya vana ..." Mumwe nemumwe anoratidza mabasa aanoda. Vasingaongi vachagoverwa vhiki yega yega pakati pevabereki, "anokurudzira Ambre Pelletier.
7. Tinoongorora kurongeka kwezvinhu zvedu zvinokosha
Nekudzokera kubasa, zvisingabviri kuita zvinhu zvakawanda sezvataiva pamba. Normal! Tichafanira kudzokorora zvatinokoshesa uye kubvunza mibvunzo yakarurama: “Chii chinokosha kwauri? Ndekupi kunokosha? Usapfuudza zvinodikanwa zvemirangariro pashure pokutenga kana kuti basa repamba. Hazvina mhosva kana imba yacho isina kukwana. Isu tinoita zvatinogona uye zvatove zvisina kuipa! », Anozivisa Diane Ballonad Rolland.
Isu tinosarudza sangano rinochinjika, izvo zvinochinjira kumararamiro edu. "Hachifanirwe kuve chinokumanikidza, asi nzira yekukuita kuti unzwe zvakanaka. Iwe unongofanirwa kuwana chiyero chakakodzera nemumwe wako, pasina kumanikidzwa, ”anowedzera.
8. Dzokera kubasa mushure memwana: kugadzirira kuparadzana
Kwemwedzi yakati wandei ikozvino hupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva hunotenderera pamwana wedu. Asi nekudzoka kubasa, kuparadzana hakudzivisiki. Iyo yakanyanya kugadzirirwa, iyo yakawanda inozoonekwa zvinyoro-nyoro nemucheche uye nesu. Kunyangwe ichitarisirwa nemubatsiri wekireshi kana mukireshi, nguva yekuchinja (inonyatsodikanwa) ichapihwa kwatiri kufambisa shanduko. Uyewo siya nguva nenguva, kana zvichiita, kuna mbuya nasekuru, hanzvadzi yako kana mumwe munhu waunovimba naye. Nekudaro, isu tichajaira kusagara tiri pamwe chete uye isu tichave tisingatye kuisiya kwezuva rose.
9. Tinorangarira pamwe chete
Hatisi tega mukufungidzira kudzokera kubasa. Kunze kwewatakaroorana naye, hatizezi kuona vadiwa vedu kana vachikwanisa kutitsigira pane dzimwe pfungwa. Vanasekuru vangave varipo kuti vatore muduku wedu mamwe madekwana kukireshi. Shamwari yedu yepamoyo inogona kugarira mwana kuti tigotandara manheru erudo here? Tiri kufunga nezve emergency guard mode. Izvi zvichatibvumira kudzokera kubasa nenzira yakasununguka zvikuru. Nesuwo tinofunga kugovana network pakati pevabereki paInternet, saMumAround, sangano "Amai, baba neni tiri amai"
* Munyori we "Magical timing, hunyanzvi hwekuzvitsvagira nguva", Rustica éditions uye "Chishuvo chekuve zen uye kurongeka. Vhura peji yacho”. Blog rake www.zen-et-organisee.com
Munyori: Dorothee Blancheton