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Kurova zvino kwave kurambidzwa!
Kubva 22 Zvita 2016, kurohwa kwave kurambidzwa zviri pamutemo muFrance, sezvakaita chero chirango chekurohwa. Kurambidzwa kwenguva refu kwakakumbirwa neCouncil of Europe, iyo yakatsoropodza France ne "kusagovera kurambidzwa kwakajeka zvakakwana, kunosunga uye kwakanyatso kurongeka kwechirango chekurohwa." Naizvozvo zvaitwa! Kana vhoti iyi yakanonoka, imhaka yekuti maFrench, muhuwandu hwavo, vaipokana nazvo: muna Kurume 2015, 70% yevaFrench vaipokana nekurambidzwa uku, kunyangwe 52% yavo vakafunga kuti zvaive nani kuti varege. ipa vana (mabviro Le Figaro).
Kurova, chiito chisiri chidiki kumwana
Patinovabvunza, vamwe vanaamai vanotsanangura kuti “kurova pano neapo hakukuvadzi » kana kutaura kuti: “Ndakarohwa ndichiri mudiki uye hazvina kundiuraya”. Olivier Maurel, munyori webhuku rinonzi "Spanking, mibvunzo pamusoro pemhirizhonga yezvidzidzo", anopindura zvakajeka kuti "kana kuri kupa zvishoma, nei uchizviita? Unogona kuzvidzivirira uye wosarudza imwe nzira yedzidzo ”. Kwaari, kungava mbama yakareruka, kunyange panapukeni, kana kuti mbama, “tiri musimba rechisimba uye mugumisiro pamwana hausi muduku. Zvechokwadi, maererano naye, "kushungurudzika kunokonzerwa ne tepi kunokanganisa zvakananga hutano hwemwana nekukonzera kusagadzikana kwekudya semuenzaniso". Kuna Olivier Maurel, « iyo inonzi girazi neurons yehuropi inorekodha zvese zvinoonekwa zuva nezuva uye iyi nzira inotigadzirira kuti tiite zvakare. Naizvozvi paunorova mwana, unogadzirira nzira yemhirizhonga muuropi hwake uye uropi hunozvinyora. Uye mwana achabereka mhirizhonga iyi muhupenyu hwake. “.
Kuranga Pasina Kurangwa
Vamwe vabereki vanoona kurova senzira “yokusarasikirwa nechiremera pamwana wavo.” Monique de Kermadec, nyanzvi yepfungwa dzevana, anodavira izvozvo “Kurova mwana hakudzidzise chinhu. Vabereki vanofanirwa kurairwa kuranga pasina kurangwa ”. Zvechokwadi, chiremba wepfungwa anotsanangura kuti "kunyange kana mubereki akasvika kune imwe mamiriro ekutya kana mwana adarika muganhu, anofanira kudzivisa kutsamwa uye kunyanya kusamurova". Rimwe remazano ake nderekutaura nemashoko kana kuranga mwana, pazvinobvira, kuperekedza pakutsiura. Nokuti, apo mubereki anosimudza ruoko rwake, “mwana anonyadziswa nechiratidzo uye mubereki anoteererwa nechisimba chinokuvadza kunaka kwoukama hwavo”. Kune nyanzvi yepfungwa, mubereki anofanira "kudzidzisa kuburikidza nemazwi kupfuura zvese". Chiremera chevabereki hachigone kuvakirwa pamhirizhonga kana iri yemukuru ari mukuita. Monique de Kermadec anoyeuka kuti kana “dzidzo yakavakirwa pachisimba, mwana achatsvaka nzira iyi yokuvhiya, pachava nekuwedzera. Mwana anozviona zvakashata uye achava nechido chekutsiva ”.
Nzira yekudzidzisa inopikiswa
Vanaamai vazhinji vanofunga kuti "kurohwa hakukuvadzi". Irwo rudzi urwu rwekutaura kuti masangano mazhinji ave achirwa kwemakore akati wandei. Muna 2013, Children's Foundation yakarova zvakasimba nemushandirapamwe wainzi. Iyi firimu pfupi iri pachena yairatidza amai vaive vakatsamwa vachirova mwanakomana wavo nembama. Yakatorwa mukufamba zvishoma, mhedzisiro yacho yakawedzera kukanganisa uye deformation yechiso chemwana.
Pamusoro pezvo, sangano reEnfant Bleu rakaburitsa muna Kukadzi 2015 mhedzisiro yehombe huru. kubvunzurudza kuongorora. Vanopfuura munhu mumwechete mugumi vanhu vekuFrance vanobatwa nechisimba chepanyama, 10% vakataura kuti vakashungurudzwa mumuviri, zvepabonde kana mupfungwa panguva yehudiki hwavo uye 14% vanofungidzira imwe nyaya munharaunda yavo yepedyo (mhuri, vavakidzani, vavanoshanda navo, vepedyo. shamwari). Muna 45, INSERM yakarangarira kuti munyika dzakabudirira dzakadai seFrance, vana vaviri vanofa zuva nezuva zvichitevera kubatwa zvisina kunaka.
Kuziva :
“Kurova, kunoitwa neruoko rwakashama sezvakunopihwa vana, kwakatanga munenge muzana remakore rechi18. Bva, muzana ramakore rechi 19 uye zvikurukuru muzana ramakore rechi 19, zvimwe wakanga uri muitiro wemhuri. Muzvikoro tinorova zvakanyanya netsvimbo, uye, pamavambo, iyo Historical Dictionary yemutauro wechiFrench waAlain Rey (Robert) inotsanangura kuti izwi rekuti "kurova" haribvi pachigadziko, asi kubva "fascia", kureva iti "bundle" (yematavi kana matanda ewicker). Kwaingova gare gare, pamwe pakutanga kwezana ramakore rechi XNUMX, apo nyonganiso nezwi rekuti "buttock" yakaitika, nekudaro nyanzvi: "mabhomba akapihwa pamagaro". Pakutanga, zvinoratidzika kuti kurohwa kwakapiwa zvakanyanya pamusana. Mumhuri, kubva muzana ramakore rechiXNUMX, kushandiswa kweanomhanya kwaiwanzoitika. Asi isu tinorovawo nezvipunu zvehuni, mabhurashi neshangu ”. (Bvunzurudzo naOlivier Maurel).