Unogara uchitukana uye uchigadzirisa zvinhu here? Zvichida mukwanyina wako asingadzoreki “ndizvo zvakarairwa nachiremba.” Zvakabuda mukuongorora kwakaitwa vakaroorana zvinoratidza kuti varume nemadzimai vanopopotedzana kusvikira vapfava vanorarama nguva refu kupfuura vaya vanodzvinyirira hasha.
"Kana vanhu vakaungana, kugadzirisa kusawirirana kunova rimwe remabasa akakosha," akadaro Ernest Harburg, purofesa anobuda muDhipatimendi rePsychology uye Hutano paYunivhesiti yeMichigan, akatungamira chidzidzo ichi. “Semutemo, hapana anodzidziswa izvi. Kana vose vakarerwa nevabereki vakanaka, zvikuru, vanotora muenzaniso kubva kwavari. Asi kazhinji kazhinji, vakaroorana havanzwisisi nzira dzokugadzirisa nadzo kusawirirana.” Sezvo kupokanidzana kusingadzivisiki, zvinokosha zvikuru kuti vakaroorana vanozvigadzirisa sei.
“Ngatitii pane kunetsana pakati penyu. Mubvunzo wakakosha: uchaita sei? Harburg inoenderera mberi. "Kana iwe ukango "kuviga" kutsamwa kwako, asi uchiramba uchiramba mupfungwa kune muvengi uye uchitsamwira maitiro ake, uye panguva imwechete usatomboedza kutaura nezvedambudziko, yeuka: uri mumatambudziko.
Ongororo dzakawanda dzinoratidza kuti kuburitsa hasha kunobatsira. Semuenzaniso, rimwe basa rakadaro rinosimbisa kuti vanhu vakatsamwa vanoita zvisarudzo zviri nani, zvichida nokuti manzwiro aya anoudza uropi kufuratira kusava nechokwadi uye kuisa pfungwa pane zvakakosha zvechinetso. Mukuwedzera, zvakazoitika kuti avo vanoratidza pachena kutsamwa vari nani mukutonga kwemamiriro ezvinhu uye kukunda matambudziko nokukurumidza.
Hasha dzemumagaba dzinongowedzera kushushikana, izvo zvinozivikanwa kupfupisa tarisiro yehupenyu. Maererano nenyanzvi dzepfungwa, zvinhu zvakawanda zvinotsanangura chikamu chikuru cherufu rusati rwasvika pakati pevakaroorana vanovanza zviratidzo zvehasha. Pakati pazvo pane muitiro wokuvanza kusagutsikana kwenyu mose, kusakwanisa kukurukura manzwiro nezvinetso, mafungire asina hanya kuutano, maererano nomushumo wakabudiswa mu Journal of Family Communication.
Kana kurwiswa kwacho kwaionekwa sekwakavakirwa, vanyajambwa vanenge vasina kumbotsamwa.
Boka renyanzvi rinotungamirirwa naPurofesa Harburg rakaongorora vakaroorana 17 vane makore 192 kusvika ku35 kwemakore anopfuura 69. Chainyanya kutariswa pakuona kwavanoita utsinye husina kunaka kana husina kufanira kubva kune mumwe wavo.
Kana kurwiswa kwacho kwaionekwa sekwakavakirwa, vanyajambwa vanenge vasina kumbotsamwa. Zvichienderana nemaitiro evatori vechikamu pamamiriro ekufungidzira ekukonana, vakaroorana vakakamurwa kuita zvikamu zvina: vaviri vakaroorana vanoratidza hasha, mudzimai chete ndiye anoratidza hasha, uye murume anonyudza, murume chete ndiye anoratidza hasha, uye mudzimai anonyura, vese vari vaviri. vakaroorana vanopedza hasha.
Vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti 26 vakaroorana, kana vanhu makumi mashanu nevaviri, vaiva vadzvinyiriri—kureva kuti, vose vakaroorana vakanga vachivanza zviratidzo zvehasha. Munguva yekuedza, 52% yavo vakafa, zvichienzaniswa ne25% pakati pevamwe vakaroorana. Enzanisa data mumapoka. Munguva imwe cheteyo, 12% yevakaroorana vakaora mwoyo vakarasikirwa nemumwe wevakaroorana navo, uye 27% vose. Nepo mumapoka matatu asara, mumwe wevakaroora akafa mu23% chete yevakaroora, uye vese vari vaviri - mu19%.
Zvinoshamisa kuti, pakuverenga mhedzisiro, zvimwe zviratidzo zvakatorwawo: zera, uremu, BP, kusvuta, mamiriro ebronchi nemapapu, uye njodzi dzemoyo. Maererano neHarburg, idzi nhamba dzepakati. Tsvagiridzo irikuenderera mberi uye timu inoronga kuunganidza makore makumi matatu e data. Asi kunyange iye zvino zvinogona kufanotaurwa kuti mukuverenga kwekupedzisira kwevakaroorana vanopika uye vanokakavadzana, asi vachiramba vaine hutano hwakanaka, pachava nekaviri.