Kuyaruka ndiyo nguva apo mukomana mudiki (musikana) anoona zvepabonde. Zvaanoda (iye), manzwiro emuviri wake, uye bonhora ndechimwe chazvo. Vabereki vanopinda muimba yavo yekurara kana yekugezera vasina kugogodza vachafanira kufungazve tsika dzavo, sezvo pwere idzi dzichida kuvanzika. Zvakajairika kuti pazera iri, vanofunga nezvazvo, vanoedza, uye kupanana ruzivo rwezvepabonde.

Kwemazana emakore anoverengeka, bonhora rave richipomerwa mhosva nedzidzo yechitendero. Chinhu chipi nechipi chakananga kana kuti chisina kunanga chine chokuita nevatano, kubatanidza bonhora, chairangarirwa kuva chine tsvina uye chinorambidzwa kunze kweroorano. Kuita zvepabonde kwaibatsira pakubereka, asi shoko rokuti kunakirwa rakanga risiri chikamu cheshoko racho.

Kusunungurwa kwepabonde kwaMay 68 kwakasunungura miviri uye bonhora rakava zvakare tsika yechisikigo, yekuwanikwa kwemuviri uye yebonde. Kune vese vakadzi nevarume. Zvakakosha kuyeuka izvi nokuti mumakore achangopfuura mafaro evanhukadzi akanga ambosendekwa parutivi.

Makirasi edzidzo yezvepabonde kuchikoro anopa mashoko mapfupi. "Tinotaura nezvekubereka, genitalia, anatomy, asi zvepabonde zvakanyanya" inotsanangura Andrea Cauchoix, Mudzidzisi weRudo. Vachiri kuyaruka naizvozvo vanozviwana vamene vachichinjana mashoko akavanzika anowanzotorwa mumafirimu ezvinonyadzisira asingamutsi mafaro, rudo, ruremekedzo kune mumwe wavo.

“Pamazera ose, hazvisi nyore kutaura nezvebonde nevabereki vako, kunyange zvishoma mukuyaruka”. Vabereki vane basa rekutanga kubva paudiki. Kana mukomana mudiki kana musikana atanga "kubata" uye iye (iye) anoona kuti dzimwe nzvimbo dzinonyanya kunakidza kupfuura dzimwe. “Pamusoro pazvo, haufanire kuvamisa kana kuvaudza kuti ine tsvina. Mukupesana, chiratidzo chehutano hwakanaka hwepfungwa uye kukura. Pamakore 4/5, vanokwanisa kunzwisisa kuti zvinofanirwa kuitwa kana vari vega ”. Vana vanogona kukurumidza kufunga kuita bonhora sechinhu chinorambidzwa uye chisina kunaka kana vakatsiurwa.

“Vasinganyanyi kupindira, vabereki vanogona kungoratidza wechiduku kuti kana (iye) aine mibvunzo kana kuti zvinetso, varipo kuti vataure nezvazvo.” Mutsara wakapfava uyu unogona kudzima bonyora uye kuratidza kuti chidzidzo ichi hachina kunetsa.

Mafirimu e“American pie” muenzaniso wakanaka wababa vanoedza kukurukura nomwana wavo ari kuyaruka anoshandisa mapie eapuro kuti aite bonhora. Anonyara zvikuru kana baba vake vataura nyaya yacho, asi paanokura anoona rombo rakanaka rekuwana baba vakateerera.

Paunonyora mazwi akakosha musikana bonhora pamainjini ekutsvaga, zvinosuruvarisa kuti nzvimbo dzezvinonyadzisira dzinotanga.

Zvisinei, mabhuku evana anopa mabasa anofadza. Kune vasati vabva zera, "gwara rekuita zvepabonde zizi" chinyorwa chitsva chaHélène Bruller naZep, mugadziri weakakurumbira "Titeuf" ndiyo inonongedza, inosetsa uye inodzidzisa. Asi kunewo "Kusangana" naIsabelleFILLIOZAT naMargot FRIED-FILLIOZAT, Le Grand Livre de la puberty naCatherine SOLANO, Kuita zvepabonde kweVasikana Kunotsanangurwa kuDummies naMarie Golotte nevamwe vakawanda.

Iyi tabhoo pamusoro pebonyora revakadzi inoenderera mberi kusaziva kwevasikana vadiki maererano nemiviri yavo. Kunoganhurira kunakidzwa pakusangana pabonde nemudiwa, uye vasikana vachiri kuyaruka vanowana mafaro chete neizvi. Nhumbu, clitoris, anus, vagina, etc. Mazwi ese aya anongotaurwa mukati menguva, kana kubvunzana nachiremba wechikadzi. Zvakadini nekunakidzwa pasina zvese izvozvo?

Zvakakosha kuziva kuti vakadzi vazhinji vanoita bonyora. Izvi zvakajairika uye hazvina kana wacky zvachose.

Maererano neongororo yeIFOP, yakaitirwa magazini Kunakidzwa kwechikadzi, nevakadzi 913, vane makore 18 zvichikwira. 74% yevakabvunzwa muna 2017 vakati vakanga vatoita bonhora.

Nokuenzanisa, 19% chete vakataura zvakafanana muma70s.

Kudivi revarume, 73% yevarume vakazivisa kare kuti vakatozvibata pachezvavo ne95% nhasi.

Inenge 41% yevakadzi vekuFrance vanoti vakaita bonhora kamwechete mumwedzi mitatu yapfuura ongororo. Kuchikamu che19%, kekupedzisira kwakapfuura gore rapfuura uye 25% vanoti havana kumbobvira vaita hanya muhupenyu hwavo.

Ongororo ichiri isingawanzoitiki, inoratidza kukosha kwakakosha ruzivo kuvasikana vadiki kuti vasimudze taboo, ichiripo, pabonhora revakadzi.