Zvipupuriro: "Ndaivenga kuva nepamuviri"

“Pfungwa yekugovana muviri wangu nemumwe munhu inondinetsa. »: Pascale, 36 makore, amai vaRafaël (21 mwedzi) uye Emily (6 mwedzi)

“Shamwari dzangu dzose dzaitya kubereka mwana uye kushushikana. Ini, izvo hazvina kumbondinetsa! Kwemwedzi mipfumbamwe, ndakanga ndichangomirira kusununguka. Kurumidza, rega mwana abude! Ndine fungidziro yekuzvida pakutaura izvozvo, asi handina kumbofarira mamiriro ezvinhu aya e "kugarisana". Kugovana muviri wako nemumwe munhu nguva yese iyi zvinoshamisa, handizvo here? Ndinofanira kunge ndanyanya kuzvimiririra. Zvisinei, ndaida chaizvoizvo kuva amai (uyezve, taifanira kumirira makore mana kuti tive naRafaël), asi kwete kuva nepamuviri. Hazvina kundirotesa. Ndaiti ndikanzwa kufamba kwebeche kwaisava mashiripiti, kunzwa kwacho kwaitondisvota.

Ndakafungira kuti 
zvakanga zvisiri kuzondifadza

Kunyange nanhasi, pandinoona anozova amai, handiendi mumafaro mukuti “wow, izvo zvinokuita kuti ude!” Mode, kunyangwe ndikamufarira. Kwandiri, chiitiko ichi chinoperera ipapo, ndine vana vaviri vakanaka, ndakaita basa… Kunyange ndisati ndabata pamuviri, ndaifungidzira kuti ndaisazozvifarira. Dumbu hombe rinokutadzisa kutakura kutenga kwako wega. Kusvotwa. Kurwadza kwemusana. Kuneta. The constipation. Sisi vangu ibulldozer. Anotsigira marwadzo ose emuviri. Uye anoda kuva nepamuviri! Ini kwete, kakukanganisika kadiki kanondivhiringa, kunokanganisa mufaro wangu. Zvigumbu zvidiki zvinotora. Ndinonzwa kudzikira. Ini pasina mubvunzo hunhu hudiki! Kune zvakare mune mamiriro ekuzvitakura pfungwa yekuti ini handichazvimiririra zvachose, ndisisiri pamusoro pekugona kwangu, uye izvo zvinonditsamwisa! Nguva dzose dziri mbiri ndaifanira kunonoka kubasa. Kuna Rafaël, ndakanga ndava pamubhedha nokukurumidza zvikuru (pamwedzi mishanu). Ini, uyo anowanzoda kuva nekutonga pamusoro pehupenyu hwangu hwebasa uye purogiramu yangu ... Chiremba ainditevera pachake akandikurudzira kuti ndaiva mukadzi "nechimbichimbi".

Kutyisidzira kwekushanda nguva isati yakwana hakuna kubatsira ...

Side cuddling, Nil neni, taifanira kumisa zvinhu zvose zvakafa panguva yekutanga pamuviri, nokuti pakanga pane kutyisidzira kwekuberekwa kusati kwasvika. Hazvina kubatsira kundifadza. Ndakasununguka nokukurumidza (pamwedzi minomwe) nokuda kwechirwere cheti. Kumwanasikana wangu Emily, yanga isiri nguva yakanaka. Nil aitya kuita zvakaipa, kunyange dai ngozi yacho isipo. Zvakadaro… Chinhu chega chandaifarira pandaiva nepamuviri kwaiva kuongororwa kuti ndine pamuviri here, maultrasound uye mazamu angu ane rupo… Asi ndakarasikirwa nezvose uye zvakatowanda! Asi ndihwo hupenyu hongu, ndichazvigadzirisa ...

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“Kunzwa ndine mhosva kwakandiremera panguva yandaiva nenhumbu. »: Maylis, 37 makore, amai vaPriscille (makore gumi nematatu), Charlotte (makore gumi nerimwe), Capucine (makore masere) uye matanhatu (makore matanhatu)

“Ndinofunga kuti manzwiro angu asina kunaka ane chokuita zvikuru nekuziviswa kwepamuviri pangu pekutanga. Kudangwe, kuita kwevabereki vangu kwakandivhiringidza zvikuru. Ndainge ndarongedza magaba echikafu chemwana kuti ndivape surprise yakanaka. Muchena, nekuvhura mapakeji! Vaive vasina kutarisira nyaya iyi zvachose. Ndaiva nemakore 23 uye vakoma vangu (tiri vana vashanu) vakanga vachiri kuyaruka. Vabereki vangu vakanga vasina kunyatsogadzirira kuva sekuru.

Vakabva vangotaura kuti ini naOlivier taisakwanisa kuita mwana. Isu takanga tichitanga muhupenyu hwehunyanzvi, ichokwadi, asi isu takanga tava kurenda furati, takachata uye tine chokwadi uye tine chokwadi chekuda kutanga mhuri! Muchidimbu, takanga takatsunga zvikuru. Pasinei nezvose, zvavakaita zvakandibaya mwoyo: Ndakachengeta pfungwa yokuti ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kuva amai.


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Apo mwana wedu wechina akaberekwa, ndakabvunza mumwe mudiki akandibatsira kuona zvakajeka uye kuzvisunungura pakuva nemhaka murusando rushomanene. Ndingadai ndakaenda kare nokuti ndakakweva kusagadzikana uku panguva yenhumbu dzangu ina! Semuenzaniso, ndakazviudza kuti "kana PMI ikapfuura, vanozoona kuti imba haina kuchena zvakakwana!" Mumaziso evamwe ndainzwa kunge “amai mwanasikana”, munhu asingatarisire asina chaaiziva. Shamwari dzangu dzakaenderera mberi nezvidzidzo zvavo, dzakatenderera nenyika uye ini ndaive ndakapfeka machira. Ndakanzwa kakupererwa. Ndakaramba ndichishanda asi ndakashaya. Ndakachinja mabasa, ndakavamba kambani yangu. Handina kunyatsokwanisa kuzvipatsanura zvakanaka pakati pevana vangu nebasa rangu. Yakanga yakatosimba kune yekupedzisira iyo yakasvika nekukurumidza kupfuura zvaitarisirwa… Kuneta, kushaya hope, kunzwa mhosva kwakawedzera.

Handina kukwanisa kumirira kuona chimiro changu mumafafitera echitoro

Zvinofanira kunzi ndakanga ndarwara pamuviri. Pamuviri wangu wekutanga, ndinoyeuka ndichikanda nepahwindo rekumashure remota ndakarara pamusoro pemutengi panguva yerwendo rwebhizinesi ...

Kuwedzera kurema kwakandiodzawo mwoyo zvikuru. Ndakawedzera pakati pe20 ne25 kg nguva imwe neimwe. Uye chokwadi handina kurasikirwa nezvose pakati pekuzvarwa. Muchidimbu, ndakava nenguva dzakaoma dzandaisagona kumira ndichiona chitarisiko changu mumafafitera ezvitoro. Ndakatombochema nazvo. Asi vana ava ndaivada. Uye kunyangwe nembiri, tingadai tisina kunzwa takakwana. ”

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“Ndaisagona kutsungirira kuudzwa nguva dzose zvandaifanira kuita! »: Hélène, 38 makore, amai vaAlix (makore masere) uye Zélie (makore matatu)

“Pamuviri pangu handina kunetseka, asi vamwe ndivo vainetseka! Kutanga, murume wangu Olivier, uyo aitarisira zvose zvandaidya. Yaifanira kuva yakanyatsonaka kuti "kure kuravira kwemwana!". Vanachiremba vakandipawo mazano akawanda. Veukama vainetsekana nekamwe kakufamba kangu “Usanyanya kutamba!”. Kunyange zvazvo mashoko aya aibva mumanzwiro akanaka, akandipa pfungwa yokuti chinhu chiri chose chaigarosarudzirwa ini. Uye hazvisi mumaitiro angu ...

Zvinofanira kutaurwa kuti zvakatanga zvakashata nekuongorora pamuviri. Ndakazviita mangwanani-ngwanani, zvishoma zvichisundirwa naOlivier, uyo akawana dumbu rangu "rakasiyana". Rakanga riri zuva rebhachura rangu. Ndaifanira kuparura nhau kushamwari makumi mashanu ndisati ndanyatsoona. Uye ndaifanira kudzikisa kushandisa kwangu champagne uye cocktails ...
Kwandiri, pamuviri inguva yakaipa yekuva nemwana, uye zvechokwadi haisi iyo inofadza iyo yandakatora mukana. Zvakangoita serwendo rwekuenda kuzororo!

Dumbu hombe rinokutadzisa kugara zvakanaka. Ndakanorovera nemadziro, ndakatadza kuisa masokisi angu ndega. Mafambiro evacheche handina kumbonzwa nekuti vaive vakagara. Uye ndakatambura zvikuru kubva musana wangu uye kuchengetwa kwemvura. Pakupedzisira, ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kutyaira kana kufamba kwemaminitsi anopfuura gumi nemashanu. Kusataura makumbo angu, matanda chaiwo. Uye hadzisi hembe dzekuzvara dzakandifadza ...

Hapana akanzwira tsitsi bhodhoro rangu ...

Kutaura zvazviri, ndakanga ndakamirira kuti ipfuure, ndichiedza kusachinja mararamiro angu zvakanyanya. Nzvimbo yehunyanzvi yandinoshanda mairi ndeyevarume zvakanyanya. Mudhipatimendi rangu, vakadzi vanogona kuverengwa paminwe yeruoko rumwe. Zvakakwana kuti nditi hapana akasundwa negaba rangu kana kundibvunza kuti ndakazvifambisa sei pakurapwa kwangu. Zvakanakisa, vaaishanda navo vakanyepedzera kunge vasina chavakaona. Zvakaipa zvikuru, ndaifanira kutaura mashoko akadai sokuti “Rega kushatirwa pamusangano, uchazvara!” Zviri pachena kuti zvakatonyanya kundigumbura. ”…