Mukati
Kukurirwa nemanzwiro, akabatwa nokutya, kukurirwa nerudo… Vanababa vatatu vanotiudza nezvekuzvarwa kwemwana wavo.
“Ndakapengeswa murudo, nerudo rwemwana rwakaita kuti ndinzwe ndisingakwanisi. “
Jacques, baba vaJosefa, ane makore matanhatu.
“Ndakaona pamuviri pemumwe wangu 100%. Ungati ndiri mumwe wevarume vanoita zvekuvharisa. Ndairarama nemaitiro ake, ndaidya saiye… Ndainzwa kuwirirana, maererano nemwanakomana wangu kubva pakutanga, wandakanga ndabudirira mukusimbisa kutenda kune haptonomy. Ndaikurukura naye uye ndaigaromuimbira rwiyo rumwe chete mazuva ose. Nenzira, apo Joseph akaberekwa, ndakazviwana ndiine kanhu katsvuku aka kachichema mumaoko angu uye kuita kwangu kwekutanga kwaiva kuimba zvakare. Akabva adzikama ndokuvhura maziso ake kekutanga. Isu takanga takagadzira chisungo chedu. Nanhasi ndinoda kuchema pandinotaura nyaya iyi nekuti manzwiro aive akasimba. Mashiripiti aya pekutanga akandikanda mububble rerudo. Ndakapenga murudo, asi nerudo rwandaisaziva kare, rwakasiyana nerwandinoitira mukadzi wangu; nerudo rwemwana rwakandipa kunzwa kusabatwa. Handina kukwanisa kubvisa maziso angu paari. Nekuchimbidza, ndakabva ndaona pandiri kuti vamwe vana baba vaive vakabata vana vavo neruoko rumwe chete vachiridza ngoma pamafoni avo nerumwe. Zvakandirovesa nehana zvakanyanya uye zvakadaro ndanga ndakapindwa muropa nelaptop yangu, asi ipapo, kamwechete, ndakange ndadimburwa zvachose kana kuti ndakabatana zvachose neHIM.
Kuzvara kwaiedza Anna nemwana.
She had a huge surge of blood pressure, mwana wedu aiva munjodzi uye ndizvo zvaari. Ndaitya kurasikirwa navo vari vaviri. Pane imwe nguva, ndakanzwa kupera simba, ndakagara mukona kuti ndipengenuke ndokufamba ndichidzokera. Ndakanga ndakatarisana nekutarisa, pakutsvaga chero chiratidzo uye ndakadzidzisa Anna kusvikira Joseph abuda. Ndinoyeuka nyamukuta uyo akatsikirira padumbu rake uye kudzvinyirirwa kwakatipoteredza: aifanira kuberekwa nokukurumidza. Mushure mekushushikana kwese uku, kunetsana kwakadzikira ...
Mwenje madiki anodziya
Panyaya yemamiriro ekunze uye chiedza, seni ndiri mugadziri wekuvhenekesa pamifananidzo yefirimu, kwandiri chiedza ndicho chakakosha zvikuru. Ndakatadza kufungidzira kuti mwanakomana wangu azvarirwa pasi pemhepo inotonhora neon. Ndakanga ndaisa maruva kuti ndipe kudziya kwemhepo, zvaive zvemashiripiti. Ndakaisawo mumba muya maternity ward manurse akatiudza kuti vainge vasisade kubuda, mhepo yainge yatodeuka uye yakasununguka. Joseph akafarira kutarisa tumwenje tuya, zvakamudzikamisa.
Ukuwo, handina kana kumbofarira kuti usiku, ndakanzi ndiende.
Ndozvibvarura sei kubva pachikochi ichi kana zvese zvaive zvanyanya? Ndakapikisa ndikaudzwa kuti ndikarara pachair yaive pedyo nemubhedha ndikadonha netsaona, chipatara chaive chisina inshuwarisi. Handizivi kuti chii chakapinda mandiri nekuti handisi munhu anonyepa, asi nemamiriro akaita zvinhu zvakadai, ndakati ndiri mutori wenhau dzehondo uye kurara pacheya ndakaona vamwe. Hapana chakashanda uye ndakanzwisisa kuti kwaiva kutambisa nguva. Ndakaenda, ndaora mwoyo uye ndanyara apo mumwe mukadzi akanditsikirira mukoridho. Vamwe vanaamai vakanga vachangobva kuita mwana pedyo nesu uye mumwe wavo akandiudza kuti akandinzwa, kuti akanga ari mutori wenhau dzehondo uye aida kuziva kuti ndaishanda mubazi ripi. Ndakamuudza manyepo angu ndokubva taseka tese tisati tabuda muchipatara.
Kuzvara kwatibatanidza
Ndinoziva varume vakandiudza zvakavanzika kwandiri kuti vakafadzwa zvikuru nekusununguka kwevavakaroorana navo, kunyange zvishoma kusemeswa. Uye kuti vaizowana zvakaoma kumutarisa "sepakutanga". Zvinoita sezvisingadaviriki kwandiri. Ini, ndine fungidziro yekuti zvakatibatanidza zvakanyanya, kuti takarwa tese hondo isingadaviriki yatakabuda takasimba uye murudo. Tinodawo kuudza mwanakomana wedu ane makore matanhatu nhasi nyaya yekuzvarwa kwake, yekusununguka mwana, kubva pakuberekwa rudo rusingagumi urwu. “
Nekuda kwechimbichimbi, ndaitya kurasikirwa nekuzvarwa.
Erwan, ane makore makumi mana nerimwe, baba vaAlice naLéa, vane mwedzi mitanhatu.
“'Tiri kuenda kuOR. Kuvhiya kwave iko zvino. ” Kuvhunduka. Mwedzi yakati gare gare, mutongo wachiremba wechikadzi wakapfuura nomukoridho nomumwe wangu, uchiri munzeve dzangu. Dzave 18 pm uno Gumiguru 16, 2019. Ndichangobva kuendesa mumwe wangu kuchipatara. Anofanirwa kugara maawa makumi maviri nemana achiongororwa. Kwemazuva akati wandei, akazvimba muviri wese, aneta chaizvo. Tichazoziva gare gare, asi Rose ane kutanga kwe preeclampsia. Injodzi inokosha kuna amai uye kuvacheche. Anofanira kuzvara. Pfungwa yangu yekutanga ndeyekufunga "Kwete!". Vanasikana vangu vaifanira kunge vakazvarwa musi wa24 Zvita. Kuvhiya kwakarongwa zvakare kare ... Asi izvi zvakange zvanyanya!
Ndinotya kushaya mbereko
Mwana wemumwe wangu akasara ari ega pamba. Tichigadzirira Rose, ndinomhanyira kunotora zvinhu ndokumuudza kuti achava mukoma. Kare. Zvinonditorera maminitsi makumi matatu kuti ndiite rwendo rwokudzoka. Ndine kutya kumwe chete: kupotsa kuzvara. Zvinofanira kunzi vanasikana vangu, ndakavamirira kwenguva refu. Tave nemakore masere tichiedza. Zvakatora anenge makore mana tisati tatendeukira kukubatsira kubereka, uye kukundikana kweIVF nhatu dzokutanga kwakanga kwatiwisira pasi. Zvisinei, nekuedza kumwe nokumwe, ndaigara ndiine tariro. Ndakaona zuva rangu rekuzvarwa rechi40 richiuya… Ndakasvotwa kuti hazvina kushanda, handina kunzwisisa. Ku test yechi4 ndainge ndakumbira Rose kuti asavhure email ine maresults eku lab ndisati ndabva kubasa. Manheru, takawana pamwe chete mazinga eHCG * (yakanyanya kukwirira, iyo inofananidzira mazai maviri). Ndakaverenga nhamba dzacho ndisinganzwisise. Pandakaona chiso chaRose ndipo pandakanzwisisa. Akati kwandiri: “Zvakashanda. Ndazviona!”.
Takachema takambundirana
Miscarri iyi ndaitya zvekuti handina kuda kutakurwa asi musi wandakaona tunhumbu twaive paultrasound ndakaita kunge baba. Uyu Gumiguru 16, pandakamhanya ndichidzokera muwadhi yevakasununguka, Rose aive muOR. Ndaitya kuti ndainge ndasuwa kuzvara. Asi ndakanzi ndipinde mublock maiva nevanhu gumi: vana chiremba, vananyamukuta, magynecologists… Vanhu vese vakazvizivisa ndichibva ndagara pedyo naRose, ndichitaura mashoko anotapira kwaari kuti adzikame. Chiremba wechikadzi akataura nezvekufamba kwake kwese. Alice akaenda na19:51 pm uye Lea na19:53 pm Vairema 2,3 kg imwe neimwe.
Ndakakwanisa kuva nevanasikana vangu
Vachingobuda ndakabva ndasara navo. Ndakaona kufemeruka kwavo vasati vapinzwa. Ndakatora mifananidzo yakawanda pamberi uye mushure mekunge yaiswa muincubator. Ndakazobatana nemumwe wangu muimba yekurara ndichimuudza zvese. Nhasi, vanasikana vedu vane mwedzi mitanhatu, vari kukura zvakakwana. Ndichitarira shure, ndinoyeuka zvinofadza zvekuberekwa kwomwana uku, kunyange zvazvo kwakanga kusiri nyore kusvika. Ndakanga ndakwanisa kuvapo pavari. “
* Human chorionic gonadotropic hormone (HCG), yakavanzwa kubva mumavhiki ekutanga ekuzvitakura.
“Mukadzi wangu akabereka akamira mukoridho, iye ndiye akabata mwanasikana wedu muhapwa. “
Maxime, ane makore 33, baba vaCharline, ane makore maviri, uye Roxane, ane mazuva gumi nemashanu.
“Kumwana wedu wekutanga, takava nehurongwa hwekuzvarwa nahwo. Taida kuti kusununguka kuitirwe muimba yekusununguka. Pazuva retemu, mudzimai wangu akanzwa kuti kurwadziwa kwakatanga kuma3 mangwanani, asi haana kundimutsa pakarepo. Pashure peawa, akandiudza kuti taigona kumbogara pamba. Takaudzwa kuti kumwana wokutanga, aigona kupedza maawa gumi, naizvozvo hatina kukurumidza. Takaita haptonomy kugadzirisa marwadzo, akageza, akagara pabhora: Ndakanyatso tsigira chikamu chese-pre-work ...
Dzakanga dziri 5 am, macontractions akanga achiwedzera, isu taigadzirira ...
Mudzimai wangu akanzwa mvura yaipisa ichipera akabva aenda kuchimbuzi ndokuona kuti aibuda ropa zvishoma. Ndakafonera maternity ward kuti tinzwe nezvekusvika kwedu. Akanga achiri muimba yokugezera apo mudzimai wangu akadanidzira kuti: “Ndinoda kusunda!”. Nyamukuta vakabva vasvika parunhare vakati ndifonere Samu. Dzakati 5:55 am ndakanzi Samu. Panguva iyi mudzimai wangu akanga akwanisa kubuda muchimbuzi ndokukanda nhanho, asi akatanga kusunda. Yaive pfungwa yekupona yakapinda mukati: mumaminetsi mashoma, ndakakwanisa kuvhura gedhi, kukiya imbwa mukamuri ndokudzokera kwairi. Na6:12 mangwanani, mudzimai wangu, achakamira, akabata mwanasikana wedu muhapwa paaibuda. Mwana wedu akabva angochema izvo zvakandisimbisa.
Ndakanga ndichiri muadrenaline
Maminitsi mashanu azvarwa, vadzimi vemoto vakasvika. Vakandirega ndichicheka tambo, ndakaendesa placenta. Vakabva vadziisa amai nemwana kweawa imwe chete vasati vaenda navo kumaternity ward kuti vaone kuti zvinhu zvese zvakanga zvakanaka here. Ndakanga ndichiri muadrenaline, vadzimi vemoto vakandikumbira mapepa, amai vangu vakasvika, vaSamu zvakare ... muchidimbu, hapana nguva yekudzika! Kwaingova maawa mana gare gare, apo ndakavakumbanira muwadhi yokubereka, pashure pokunge ndaita kuchenesa kukuru, kuti ndakaregedza magedhi emvura. Ndakachema neshungu ndakambundira mwana wangu. Ndakanyevenuka ndichiona vanyarara, kamwana kakanga kakayamwa.
Chirongwa chekuzvarwa pamba
Kusununguka kwechipiri, takanga tasarudza kubva pakutanga kwenhumbu kuberekerwa kumba, nanyamukuta watakanga taita naye bond of trust. Takanga tiri mu zenitude chaiyo. Zvakare, kuzvimba kwacho hakuna kuratidzika kuva kwakaoma kumudzimai wangu, uye nyamukuta wedu akadanwa kunonoka. Zvekare, Mathilde akazvara ega, pamakumbo mana pamubhedha wekugezera. Apa ndakaburitsa mwana panze. Mushure memaminitsi mashoma, nyamukuta wedu akabva asvika. Isu taiva vekupedzisira kuzvarwa pamba muHauts-de-France panguva yekuvharirwa kwekutanga. “