Wechidiki haadi kukura: nei uye zvekuita?

Chokwadi, vane makore-17-makore vaimboenda kumberi, vachitarisira mashopu, kuzadzisa zviyero zveStakhanov, asi ikozvino havachakwanisa kubvarura mabhuti avo palaptop. Vana vemazuva ano (ngatiitei kuchengetedza: kwete vese, hongu), nepazvinogona napo, vari kuyedza kunonoka kukura, ndiko kuti, kugona kuronga hupenyu, kuve nebasa rezviito, kuvimba nesimba ravo. "Zviri nyore kwavari here?" - takabvunza nyanzvi.

"Dambudziko riripo zvechokwadi," anodaro chiremba wezvepfungwa Anna Golota. - Kuwedzerwa kwekuyaruka kwakaenderana nekuchinja kwetsika nemagariro uye kuwedzera kwehupenyu hwehupenyu. Pakutanga, "kukura" kwaive kusingadzivisike uye kumanikidzwa: kana iwe ukasafamba, uchafa nenzara mune chaiyo kana yekufananidzira izwi reizwi. Nhasi, izvo zvinodiwa nemwana zvakakosha zvinowaniswa, saka haafanire kuenda kufekitori kunoshanda mushure megiredhi rechinomwe kuti azvidye. Chii chinofanira kuitwa nevabereki?

Wakaona here kuti mwana anofarira chimwe chinhu? Tsigira kuda kwake, govana mafaro eichi chiitiko, kurudzira uye tendera mhedzisiro, batsira, kana zvichidikanwa (kwete panzvimbo pake, asi naye). Iwo hunyanzvi hwekutanga kusanganisa zviito zviviri muketani uye kuzadzisa mhedzisiro zvakadzidziswa pazera remakore maviri kusvika kumana. Mwana anogona kuwana ruzivo rwakakosha chete nekuita chimwe chinhu nemaoko ake. Naizvozvo, avo vana vanokura mumafurati uko zvese zvisingakwanisike, asi iwe unogona chete kutarisa makatuni uye kubata piritsi, hunyanzvi uhu haukure, uye mune ramangwana kukanganisa uku kunoendeswa kunodzidza (padanho repfungwa). Vana vanokura mumusha kana imba yega, avo vanobvumidzwa kumhanya zvakanyanya, kukwira miti, kusvetukira mumadhaka, kudiridza mvura vachiri vadiki, vanowana hunyanzvi hwekuita basa. Vachaisawo nekuzvidira mahwendefa mukicheni, kutsvaira pasi, uye kuita basa ravo rechikoro.

• Kana mwanasikana wako akasvika pamuedzo nemubvunzo "Amai, ndingaedza here?" Dzima mafuta ari kufashaira, gadzira payi pamwe chete, fry uye ubate baba kuna. Uye usakanganwa kurumbidza!

Kana amai vakagara vakaneta, vakamonyaniswa, vasingafare, vachiita mabasa epamba achigomera, "Kuneta nemi mese," anoenda kunoshanda sebasa rakaoma uye achingonyunyuta kumba kuti zvakashata zvese zviriko, panogona kunge pasina kutaura nezve chero kurerwa kwekusununguka. Mwana munzira dzese anodzivirira akadaro "kukura", chingoteedzera maitiro ako. Imwe mhando ndeyekuti "Munhu wese ane chikwereti neni". Mubereki iye pachezvake akajairwa kunakidzwa nekungogara, haakoshesi basa kana kumanikidzwa kushanda, achichiva avo vakagara zvakanaka. Mwana anoteedzerawo tsika dzakadai, kunyangwe kana dzikasanzwika kwaari zvinonzwika.

• Baba, kwete, kwete, hongu, ivo vachati kumwana (hafu-nekuseka, hafu-zvakakomba): "Iwe hauzove mutungamiri, iwe waifanirwa kunge wakaberekwa mwanakomana wemutungamiri wenyika." Kana: "Rangarira, mwanangu, sarudza muroora akapfuma, ane roora, kuti usanyanya kusununguka pabasa." Iwe unofunga kuti aya mazwi anomukurudzira here?

Mumakore makumi mashanu apfuura, nzanga yakava inoshivirira vanhu vane hunhu uye hunhu hwakasiyana neyakajairika tsika. Uchikadzi, husina mwana, nharaunda dzeGBBT, nezvimwe zvabuda. Nekudaro, kusununguka kwakawanda, kuramba kurangwa kwekudzidzisa, uye hunhu hwevanhu kune vanovimba zvinotungamira, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, kuchokwadi chekuti chikamu chevechidiki chinosarudza mararamiro akadaro. Parizvino, hatigone kumanikidza vana vedu kuti vade kurarama nenzira yatinoita.

• Mwanasikana anorota kukunda muenzaniso wepasirese wepasirese, achipedza maawa achidzidza magazini akajeka. Usamudye ane mhanza musoro nehurukuro dzisingaperi! Zvingangodaro, haasi padyo nemuenzaniso weamai vanyoro uye vane hanya vemhuri.

Uye zvakadaro, kana iwe uchida kuunza hunyoro, mutsa, uye kunyunyuta mumwanasikana wako, iva muenzaniso wehunhu hwakanaka kubva nhasi. Imba ine hutano chinhu chaunogona kupa mwana wako sedhiri. Uye zvino iye pachake, sezvaanogona uye anoda.

• Chero ani zvake vana vanoda kuve - mutambi, wefashoni modhi, kana anozvipira muAfrica - tsigira yavo sarudzo. Uye yeuka kuti echinyakare vatevedzeri havadziviriri kumatambudziko. "Varume chaivo" vanofa kazhinji kupfuura vamwe kubva pakurwara nemoyo nekurohwa, uye vakadzi vakapfava uye vane hanya vanowanzo kuve nyajambwa wemudzvanyiriri.

Kuzvimiririra muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva, hwatakakwanisa kuunza achiri kuyaruka, zvinozojeka kana iwe (mamiriro) usipo. Pamberi pevabereki, mwana anozozvibata nenzira yehuhwana. Nekudaro, kazhinji kazhinji zviswededze pachezvako uzvichengete iwe muruoko kana chishuwo chisingadzivisike chikamuka chekuchenesa shangu dze "mwanakomana wako anodikanwa". Izvo zvakakosha kuti udzidze maitiro ekugovana miganhu nevana vatokura.

• Iye achizeza anoisa zvinhu mumba, inokodzera zita rembwende kubva kuvabereki vake. Uye atanga kugara nejaya rakaparadzaniswa nevabereki vake, anofara nekuchenesa uye nyanzvi yekubika. Ivo baba vechidiki vanodisa kubatsira kuputira mwana, anomukira kwaari husiku, asi amai vake pavangouya "kuzobatsira mwana," anobva angopunzika ndokuenda kuTV. Inzwi rakajairika?

Munguva pfupi yapfuura, huwandu hwevana vane ADHD (attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) yanga ichiwedzera. Vana vakadaro havana kurongeka, vanokurumidza kuita zvinhu, havana zororo. Zvakaoma kwavari kuronga zviito zvazvino, ndoda kutaura nezve hurongwa hwehupenyu kana kusarudza basa. Kuitwa kwechero chiitiko chine chekuita nekubudirira kunokonzera kuwedzera kushushikana kwepfungwa uye kushushikana mavari. Iye achadzivirira mamiriro ezvinhu akaomarara kuti azvichengete.

• Mwanakomana, ave kudzidza kwemakore maviri, anodonhedza chikoro chemimhanzi nekuda kwekuita kwamai vake kune vaviri vari mudhayari rake. Kumubvunzo "Haudi gitare here?" anopindura: "Ndinoda, asi handidi zvinonyadzisa."

Vana vazhinji vemazuvano vane kusakwana kwehunhu hwekuda - ivo vanongoita, vanoenda nekuyerera, vanowira pasi pesimba remakambani akashata, uye vanowanzo tsvaga varaidzo yechinyakare. Havaumbe zvinangwa zvepamusoro zvebasa, kukudzwa, basa, hunhu hunogadziriswa nemanzwiro echinguvana uye zvishuwo.

• Mune basa uye hupenyu hwepamoyo, munhu akadaro haana kuvimbika, asi haakuvadzi. Semuenzaniso - protagonist yemufirimu "Afonya". “Unofanirwa kuroora, Afanasy, kuroora! - Sei? Vanofanira kundidzingawo pamba? ”Kubatsira vana vakadaro kuwana nzvimbo yavo yakakodzera muhupenyu idambudziko rakakura. Mumwe munhu anobatsirwa nemitambo, mumwe munhu ane chiremera munhu mukuru.