PSYchology

Kuzivikanwa kwekudzidziswa kwekukura kwemunhu nhasi kwakakura kupfuura nakare kose. Tinoedza kuzvinzwisisa pachedu, kuwana zvinhu zvitsva zveunhu hwedu. Paitove nekutsamira pakudzidziswa - nzira nyowani kwete yekurarama, asi yekutamba hupenyu. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Elena Sokolova inotaurira kuti nei kushushikana kwakadaro kune ngozi uye kuti ungaibvisa sei.

Ndinowana kudzidziswa kwakanaka kwehunyanzvi kunoshanda. Vanobatsira avo vanoda shanduko uye vakagadzirira. Asi mumakore akati wandei apfuura, vazhinji veavo vari kutsvaga "piritsi remashiripiti" - shanduko dzinokurumidza muhupenyu pasina kuedza kwavo.

Vanogara vachipinda makirasi matsva uye vanova nyore kudzidzira kupindwa muropa. Unofanira kunge wakaona vanhu vakadai. Kazhinji ivo vane yakasarudzika "ruzivo" nezve chimiro chenyika, yakasarudzika uye isingarambiki, uye vanogara vachienda kune kudzidziswa. Kuda kudzidziswa "maitiro" matsva mune mamwe madenderedzwa, maitiro matsva echitendero. Kunyangwe, kwandiri, iyi inzira nyowani yekusararama, asi yekutamba hupenyu, kukudziridza hunhu hutsva uye kudzidzira hunyanzvi hutsva mukudzidziswa. Asi usazvishandisa pangozi.

Kudzidzira kufunga hakubatsiri. Zvinonakidza kuti vashanyi vakadaro "vanopenga" vanoshanduka zvakanyanya. Chero bedzi ivo vachikurudzirwa neruzivo rutsva uye vachigamuchira tarisiro yakakwana kubva ku «guru», vanoramba vakatendeka, asi vanogona kukurumidza kukanganisa. Pinda imwe pfungwa wova muteveri weimwe. Pasinei nenyaya yekuti mazano aya neruzivo zvinogona kuchinja kune zvakapesana chaizvo - kubva kuBuddhism kuenda kukusatenda Mwari, kubva kumukadzi weVedic kuenda kumukadzi weTantric ...

Ivo vakabatikana nechido vanopfuudza kune guru chinhu chakakosha - mutoro wehupenyu hwavo

Vaya vakabatikana nechido uye kuzvipira mumaziso avo vanosvitsa kuna guru guru chinhu chakakosha - mutoro wehupenyu hwavo.

Nokuda kweizvi, vanoda ruzivo ruchachinja upenyu hwavo: “Ndingararama sei, kazhinji, zvakarurama nezvisina kururama! Nenzira, ini handidi kufunga, ndinozvisarudzira iniwo. Ndidzidzisei, O guru guru. Hongu, hongu, ndakanzwisisa zvese (ndakanzwisisa) ... kwete, handizviite. Chii chinofanira kuitwa? Aiwa, hatina kuwirirana kudaro.. Ndiri wepiritsi remashiripiti. Kwete sei?"

Kudzidzira, asi kwete mapiritsi emashiripiti

Kudzidzira chii? INYANZVI, senge mumitambo - wakaenda kunodzidzira kupomba tsindi uye usatarisire kuti achadzungaira. Kudzidziswa inheyo, zero level, dhipoziti, fungidziro, uye chiito chinotanga kana wabva pakudzidziswa.

Kana kutora kudzidziswa kwebhizinesi. Iwe unodzidza maitiro ebhizinesi, wedzera kugona munzvimbo ino, uye wobva waunza ruzivo rutsva uye iwe pachako rutsva kubhizinesi rako chairo uye worishandura, richiita kuti rinyatsoshanda. Izvi zvakafanana zvinoenda kune kudzidziswa kwekusimudzira munhu.

Vaya vakabatikana vane dambudziko guru neizvi. Nekuti haudi kutora matanho. Handidi kufunga. Ongorora, usade kuchinja. Uye mushure mekudzidziswa, kana yave nguva yekuita, kuramba kunomuka - "Nekuda kwechimwe chikonzero handigone kubva mumba, handigone kutanga kuita chimwe chinhu, handisi kusangana nemurume ..." Ndipe rimwe piritsi remashiripiti. “Ndakafunga kujairana nemurume ndikaenda kunodzidziswa”… mwedzi mitanhatu yapfuura… wakambosangana here? "Kwete, ndine resistance."

Uye, mushure memakore akawanda, uye zvichida kunyange kare, apo mapiritsi emashiripiti asina kushanda, ivo vakaodzwa mwoyo mumudzidzisi, munzira, muchikoro. Uye unofunga kuti vanoitei? Kutsvaga mumwe murairidzi. Uye zvinhu zvose zvinodzokorora zvakare - maziso akazvipira, propaganda yemafungiro, kutarisira chishamiso, "kupikisa", kuora mwoyo ...

Murairidzi semubereki

Dzimwe nguva hazvisi zvekudzidziswa zvachose.

Dzimwe nguva vanopengenuka vanoenda kukudzidziswa, kuedza kupedzisa hukama hwemwana nemubereki kuti pakupedzisira vahwine, kuwana mvumo, kuzivikanwa, kuyemurwa kubva kumubereki. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, mudzidzisi-guru anoita se "mubereki".

Ipapo kufunga kwakadzama kwevakuru kunodzima, censor inonyungudika, kusangana nezvido zvemunhu kunonyangarika (kana zviripo) uye chirongwa che "mubereki-mwana" chinotendeuka, uko mubereki anotaura zvekuita, uye mwana anoteerera kana kuita sehure.

The Possessed vari kutsvaga piritsi remashiripiti rinoshandura hupenyu hwavo, uye kana izvo zvikasashanda, vanosiya… kune mumwe murairidzi.

Asi izvi hazvichinje hupenyu hwemwana chero munzira, nekuti zvese zvaanoitira izvi ndezvekuda kutariswa nemubereki. Hazvinei kuti mubereki akanaka here kana kuti akaipa.

Nenzira, izvi zvinotsanangura kufarira kukuru mukudzidziswa, uko kune mamiriro akaoma kwazvo ekurapa vatori vechikamu. Pane kunzwa kwemukati kwe "zvakajairika", zvakanaka, kujairana. Izvi kana zvakagamuchirwa mumhuri. Kana hukama nevabereki hwakanga huchitonhora, zvichida kunyange hutsinye (uye muRussia iyi zvichida imwe mhuri yechipiri), saka pakudzidziswa kwakadaro mutori wechikamu anonzwa ari pamba, munzvimbo yakajairika. Uye asingazivi anoda pakupedzisira kuwana "mhinduro" - ndiko kuti, kudzivirira kodzero yake yehupenyu kana kutora pfungwa yemudzidzisi.

Iko hakuna mukati mukati, hapana hunyanzvi uye tsika uye ruzivo rwekuvimba nemunhu mukuru uye anotsigira anogona kundibatsira kukunda matambudziko.

Nzira yekubatsira vanoomerwa

Kana mumwe munhu waunoziva akatopfuura neakawanda ekudzidziswa, asi hapana chinochinja muhupenyu hwake, taura kuti arege. Chimbozorora ufunge. Pamwe haachida zvachose. Semuyenzaniso, pakudzidziswa kwangu kuroora kana kuroorwa, chokwadi pachava nemumwe munhu, semugumisiro wekushanda naye, anoona kuti HAASI KUDA kuroora, uye chishuwo chacho chaitungamirirwa nedzvinyiriro yehama, nzanga, haagoni kurarama nefunganyo yomukati ari oga. Uye zororo rakadini rinouya panguva iyo, aona kusada, mukadzi anozvibvumira kusada. Mufaro wakawanda sei, simba, simba, kufemerwa kunovhura apo iwe unogona kutungamira simba rako uye kutarisa kune iyo inonakidza chaizvo.

Dzimwe nguva vanoomerwa vanoenda kunodzidziswa, vachiedza kupedza hukama hwemwana nemubereki uye pakupedzisira kuwana kuzivikanwa kubva ku "mudzidzisi-mubereki"

Kana iwe uchida kuzvitarisira iwe pachako, iwe unogona kuwana yakanaka yepfungwa iyo ichakubatsira iwe kudzokera kune sosi, unzwe iwe uye unzwisise zvinangwa zvako uye zvaunokoshesa. Nzira huru yekubuda mukushushikana ndeyekudzokera kunzvimbo yako yakasimba uye yakura, uye izvi zvinogona kuitwa kuburikidza nemuviri. Kutamba, mitambo, kutarisa kune zvaunoda, manzwiro uye manzwiro. Dzimwe nguva, zvisinganzwisisike, matambudziko ehutano, kuneta kwakawanda uye, semhedzisiro, kuwedzera kunetseka kunogona kunge kuri shure kwekudiwa kwekudzidziswa.

Kudzidziswa kunoshanda uye kunobatsira kune avo vakagadzirira kuchinja hupenyu hwavo. Vanogona kuva pendel yemashiripiti, nzvimbo yekuedza yekuwedzera maonero emunhu, kugona hunyanzvi hwekutaurirana hutsva nekudyidzana nevanhu uye nehupenyu.

Kudzidziswa hakugone kupa chero vimbiso yekuti hupenyu hwako huchashanduka.

Iwe uchawana ruzivo rwakakwana uye maturusi ekuchinja.

Asi unofanira kuzvishandura iwe pachako.

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