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Kuzvidza avo vari nhanho imwe pazasi, manzwiro anokatyamadza ekusarudzwa, manzwiro ekutendera zvachose - reverse side of elitism, munyori Leonid Kostyukov anotenda.

Munguva ichangopfuura ndakakokwa kumhemberero yeChipiri Chepamusoro, uye nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero handina kuenda kwairi. Uye haugone kutaura kuti ini ndakanga ndisingade chikoro changu ...

Ndakafunda ikoko kubvira muna 1972 kusvikira muna 1976, uye nokukurumidza pandakasvika ikoko, ndakanzwa mufaro. Ndaifarira kumuka mangwanani ndozvikwevera kune rumwe rutivi rweMoscow. Zvechii? Chokutanga pane zvose - kutaurirana nevaunodzidza navo, vanhu vanofarira uye vanofara. Takanga tine makore gumi namashanu okukura, tichizvivimba, tichibhejera, tichikwanisa, chibereko cheichi chikoro here? Kumwero mukuru, hungu, nemhaka yokuti chikoro chedu chesvomhu chakatanhamara zvakasimba mukurwisana nemamiriro ezvinhuwo zvake.

Ini ndinoda wechidiki uyo, semuenzaniso, wandaive? Unhu uhwu hwandakaedza, nepese pandaigona napo, kunyatsoroverera muvana vangu kana vadzidzi pashure? Tiri panzvimbo inotsvedza zvikuru pano.

Kutenda kwevanhu kwakakosha zvikuru: kuvabereki, vadzidzisi, nguva, nzvimbo.

Mukupesana, kunyunyuta kwasekuru vane bvudzi rakachena pamusoro pezvikanganiso zvevamwe vanhu mukurerwa kwavo kunonzwisa tsitsi uye kazhinji hazvifadzi chero munhu.

Kune rumwe rutivi, cherekedzo dzangu dzinoratidza kuti kuonga nokuda kwechinhu chiri chose chakaitika kwauri kunowanzobatanidzwa nokusakendenga chose chose. Uye ini, ivo vanoti, ndakanwa waini yepachiteshi, ndikapinda mumapurisa - saka chii? (Haabvumi: akakura zvakanaka.) Asi handina chokwadi chokuti ndakakura zvakanaka kudaro.

Ndaifanira kuramba ndichizunungusa nekudzokorora misimboti yehupenyu hwangu nemaitiro emazuva ese, kunzwa kunyara nemashoko nezviito. Handizivi kana ndinogona kutarira zvakanaka chikoro chakandiumba kusvika pamwero mukuru, asi ndichaedza.

Taizvidza vanhu, tichivanzwisisa sechikwata chevanhu vasina kupasa makwikwi emayunivhesiti

Masvomhu akanga akanaka pachikoro chedu. Vadzidzisi mune zvimwe zvidzidzo vakanga vakasiyana-siyana: kupenya kwakanyanya uye kukanganwa, kupikisa uye zvachose Soviet. Izvi, sokunge zvakadaro, zvakasimbisa kukosha kwemasvomhu muurongwa hwetsika dzechikoro. Uye sezvo dzidziso yechikomonisiti yakanga yakawanda mupokanidzano, yaisagona kukurira kutsoropodzwa kwendangariro yakananga masvomhu. Kufunga kwedu kwakasununguka kwakaderedzwa kusvika pakuramba.

Kunyanya, chimiro chikuru cheSoviet chakaparidzira unyoro kune avo vanonzi vanhu. Taizvidza vanhu, tichivanzwisisa sechikwata chevanhu vasina kupasa makwikwi emayunivhesiti. Kazhinji, isu tinoisa sarudzo yemakwikwi zvakanyanya, tatoipfuura kamwe uye tichida kupasa zvishoma nezvishoma mune ramangwana.

Pane imwe nzvimbo yekunzwa kwekusarudzwa: mwana, uye kunyange wechidiki, anozviona pachake kubva mukati, uye vamwe vanhu - kubva kunze. Ndiko kuti, ane fungidziro yekuti iye paminiti yega yega anorarama hupenyu hwemweya hwakapfuma mune nuances uye kuputika kwemanzwiro, nepo hupenyu hwemweya hwevamwe huripo chete kusvika pamwero waanoona kutaura kwawo.

Kunzwa kwenguva refu kunopfuurira muwechiduku kuti iye (ega kana kuti neshamwari dzake) haana kufanana nevamwe vanhu vose, anoita zvinhu zvoupenzi zvikuru. Kutsauka uku kunobatwa nekuziva kuti uri mukati makadzikama kwazvo sevamwe vese. Izvo zvinotungamirira mukukura uye tsitsi kune vamwe vanhu.

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