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Vana vaviri vakasiyana gore rimwe chete
Pamberi pekudzivirira kubata pamuviri, nhumbu dzainge dzakabatana maererano nezvakanaka zvaAmai Nature, uye mu20% yezviitiko, mwana n ° 2 ainongedzera muromo wemhino gore rakatevera kuzvarwa kwemwana mukuru. Mazuva ano, varoorani vanosarudza mukaha wakaderedzwa kazhinji kazhinji vanoita kudaro kusimudzira chinzwano pakati pehama nehanzvadzi. Ichokwadi kuti pavanokura, vana vaviri vepedyo vanoshanduka semapatya uye vanogovana zvinhu zvakawanda (zviitwa, shamwari, zvipfeko, nezvimwewo). Kusvikira panguva iyoyo ... kana mwana mutsva asvika, chikuru chiri kure nekuzvimiririra uye izvo zvinoda inivhesiti uye kuwanikwa nguva dzese. Vamwe vakadzi vanokurumidza kutanga pamuviri wechipiri, vachimanikidzwa newachi inozivikanwa yebiological. Kunyangwe isu tichiri vadiki zvakanyanya pa35, yedu yaichengeterwa mazai iri kutanga kuderera. Saka, kana iwe wakatanga kunonoka kune wekutanga, zviri nani kuti usamirira kwenguva yakareba kuti uwane pamuviri wechipiri.
Pazasi : amai pavanenge vaine pamuviri kaviri vakatevedzana, muviri wavo hauna kugara uine nguva yakakodzera yekudzokera muchimiro. Vamwe vachine mamwe mapounds mashoma ... zvakanyanya kuoma kurasikirwa mushure. Vamwe havana kuzadzazve simbi yavo. Nekuda kweizvozvo, kuneta kwakanyanya, kana kunyangwe njodzi yakanyanya yeanemia.
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Kana nhumbu yako yekutanga yaiperekedzwa neBP kana chirwere cheshuga, zviri nani kumirira kusvika bharanzi radzokera kune zvakajairika usati wawedzera mhuri. Mazano akafanana kune avo vakazvara nechikamu checesarean, nokuti pamuviri uye kubereka zviri pedyo pamwe chete zvinogona kuderedza uterine vanga. Ichi ndicho chikonzero Koreji yeFrench Obstetrician Gynecologists (CNGOF) inopa zano pamusoro pekuva nepamuviri pasati papera gore kusvika gore nehafu mushure mekuvhiyiwa.
UYE PAMUSORO PEMWANA?
Imwe nzvero muUnited States yakanongedzera kungozi huru yokukura nguva isati yakwana apo mwana wechipiri anotevera zvikuru kwazvo: mwero wokuzvara nguva isati yakwana (masvondo 37 asati akwana) wakanga wakakwirira nekanenge katatu pakati pevacheche. amai vake vaive nenhumbu mbiri mukati megore rimwe chete. Kuti ukwanise nekuti "zvidzidzo izvi zvakaitwa mhiri kweAtlantic hazvifanirwe kutakurwa muFrance", inotsikisa Muzvinafundo Philippe Deruelle.
"Ndaida mwana wechipiri nekukurumidza"
Nhumbu yangu yekutanga uye kuzvara mwana, handinyatso kuyeuka zvakanaka… Asi pandakambundikira Margot, zvakave zviroto zvakazadzika uye ndiko kusabuda panguva idzodzo. akapfuma mundangariro zvekuti ndaida mwana wechipiri nekukurumidza. Ndaisadawo kuti mwana wangu arere ari ega. Pashure pemwedzi mishanu, ndakanga ndava nepamuviri. Nhumbu yangu yechipiri yakandipedza simba. Panguva iyoyo, murume wangu akanga ari muchiuto. Aifanira kuenda kunze kwenyika kubva ku4 kusvika kumwedzi we8 wemimba. Hazvisi nyore zuva nezuva! Chetatu chidiki chakasvika "nekushamisika", 17 mwedzi mushure mechipiri. Nhumbu iyi yakafamba zvakanaka. Asi kudivi re “relationship”, zvaisava nyore. Ndiine vana vaduku vatatu, ndaiwanzonzwa ndasiyiwa. Zvakaoma kuenda kunodya neshamwari kana kuva neresitorendi yerudo ... Nekusvika kwegotwe, "vakuru" vanozvimiririra uye kamwe kamwe, ndinoita zvakanyanya kumwana wangu. Mufaro chaiwo! ”
HORTENSE, amai vaMargot, vane makore 11 1/2, Garance, vane makore 10 1/2, Victoire, 9, uye Isaure, 4.
Pakati pemwedzi mitatu ne18
Kana ukasarudza kumirira pakati pemwedzi 18 ne23 usati wabata pamuviri zvakare, uri mugwara chairo! Iyo iri chero ipi zvayo nguva yakakodzera yenguva yekudzivirira prematurity, yakaderera uremu uye kupfupfudzika *. Muviri wakapora zvakanaka uye uchiri kubatsirwa nedziviriro yakawanikwa panguva yekuzvitakura kwekutanga. Izvi hazvisisiri izvo zvachose kana gap rinopfuura makore mashanu (59 mwedzi kuti ive chaiyo). Kune rumwe rutivi, imwe ongororo yaizoratidza kuti kumirira 27 kusvika 32 mwedzi kwaizoderedza njodzi yekubuda ropa mu3rd trimester uye urinary tract infection. Kudivi rinoshanda, unogona kupfuudza zvipfeko nematoyi kubva kune yekutanga kusvika kune yechipiri, uye kunyange kana vana vakatora makore mashoma kuti vagoverane mibato yakafanana, mukurusa kazhinji anodada kushanda senhungamiro kumunun’una kana kuti hanzvadzi yake. . Kamwe kamwe, kunozorodza vabereki zvishoma! * Chidzidzo chepasi rose chinosanganisira mamirioni gumi nerimwe evakadzi vane pamuviri.
Uye kune hutano hwemucheche, zviri nani mukaha mukuru?
Sezviri pachena kwete. Zvidzidzo zvakaratidza kuwedzera intrauterine kukura retardation, kuderera kwekuzvarwa uremu uye prematurity kupfuura makore mashanu. Pakupedzisira, imwe neimwe mamiriro ane zvayakanakira nezvayakaipira. Zviri kwauri kuti usarudze zvinoenderana nechido chako. Chinokosha ndechokugamuchira uyu mucheche mutsva mumamiriro ezvinhu akanaka, nekutevera kwakanaka panguva yose yekuzvitakura uye azere nemufaro mupfungwa!
Muvhidhiyo: Vhara nhumbu: ndedzipi njodzi?
Mwana wechipiri makore mashanu kana kupfuura mushure mekutanga
Dzimwe nguva mukaha mukuru pakati penhumbu mbiri dzekutanga. Dzimwe mhuri dzinodzokera shure makore mashanu kana kuti gumi gare gare. Zvinoita kuti vabereki varambe vari muchimiro chakanaka! Iko hakuna mubvunzo wekukweva tsoka dzako kutakura bhasikoro kana scooter paunenge uchidzoka kubva kupaki! Kana kuramba mutambo wenhabvu kana bhishi volleyball pamhenderekedzo yegungwa paunenge uchitorara tauro rako. Iyi nhumbu yakasvika pakupera kwekutanga, inodzoreredza simba uye inzwi! Uye sezvatakapfuura nemamiriro ezvinhu ose nehombe huru, kwechipiri, tinoregedza ballast uye isu hatinyanyi kunetseka. Panewo zvakanakira: unogona kunakidzwa chaizvo nemwana mumwe nemumwe sekunge ari ega mwana, uye nharo dziri pakati pavo hadziwanzo.
Kune rimwe divi, maererano nechimiro, isu dzimwe nguva takaneta kupfuura zvataive takaita kune vakuru: simuka maawa matatu kana mana ega ega, takura mubhedha unopetwa nemabhegi emanapukeni, tisingatauri mazino anobaya ... nyore nemamwe makwinya mashoma. Pasina kukanganwa kuti rhythm yehupenyu yatakanga tajaira inopindurwa! Muchidimbu, hapana chinombove chakakwana!
“Mukaha unokosha uyu pakati pevana vangu vaviri waishuviwa chaizvo uye wakarongwa nevaviri vedu. Ndakava nemimba yekutanga yakaoma zvishoma pakupedzisira, nekusununguka. Asi pandakambosimbiswa nezvehutano hwemwana wangu, ndaingova nechido chimwe chete: kumushandisa zvakanyanya mumakore ekutanga. Zvandaita. Ndine wandinoshanda naye ane vana vepedyo, uye kutaura chokwadi, handina kumuitira shanje. Pashure pamakore mapfumbamwe, sezvandakanga ndava kuda kusvitsa makore 35, ndakafunga kuti nguva yakanga yasvika yokuwedzera mhuri uye kuita kuti rongedzero yangu yekudzivirira pamuviri ibviswe. Nhumbu yechipiri iyi yakafamba zvakanaka chose, asi kumagumo, ndakaiswa pasi pekutariswa kuti mwana wangu aikura zvakanaka here. Ndakavhiyiwa sekutanga, nekuti muromo wechibereko hauna kuvhurika. Nhasi zvinhu zvese zviri kufamba zvakanaka nemwana wangu. Ini handina stress yakanyanya pane yekutanga. Kune mukuru wangu, ndaitya nyore nyore kana chimwe chinhu "chakashata". Ikoko, ndinoramba ndiri zen. Kukura kukuru, pasina mubvunzo! Uye ipapo, mwanasikana wangu mukuru anofara kukwanisa kubata hanzvadzi yake duku. Ndine chokwadi, zvisinei nekusiyana kwezera, kuti vachave nenguva dzakanaka dzekubatana mumakore mashoma anotevera. ”
DELPHINE, amai vaOcéane, vane makore 12, uye Léa, ane mwedzi mitatu.
Zvinoenderana nenhamba dzichangoburwa kubva kuINSEE muFrance, avhareji yepakati pakati pe1 uye 2 mwana ane makore 3,9 nemakore 4,3 ari pakati pemwana wechipiri nechitatu.