Pamwe wakasangana navo panhandare yekutamba kana pasocial network. Vana vavo vanogara vakazvibata, vanodzidza Chirungu kubva pazera remakore matatu uye vanobatsira pamba. Ivo "vanaamai vakanaka" ivo pachavo vanoziva zvese nezvekurera vana, vanokwanisa kushanda, kuchengeta mhuri dzavo uye kuenda kuyoga. Zvingaita sekuti vakakodzera kuyemurwa. Asi pachinzvimbo, vanotsamwisa «zvakajairika» vakadzi. Nezve nei, anopokana munyori Marie Bolda-Von.
Paunotarisa kuburikidza nemasocial network uye anopenya emagazini, unowana fungidziro yekuti kuve amai vakajairwa muzana ramakore rechiXNUMX hazvichakwane. Kubva kumativi ese isu tinorwiswa nevakadzi vepamusoro vanoziva, vanogona uye vanoita zvese.
Havasi ivo chete varipo, ivo vanotaurawo zvakadzama nezvekusakwana kwavo. Nenguva dzechinomwe mangwanani vanoisa mufananidzo wekudya kwemangwanani kwakakodzera ivo nevana vavo pa Instagram (sangano rinotyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia), nenguva dzepfumbamwe vanotaura pa Twitter kuti kirabhu yevana yakavhurwa pedyo nemakirasi maererano nemaitiro e fashionable psychologist mudzidzisi.
Tevere - mufananidzo wekudya kwemasikati kwakanaka uye kwakaringana. Zvadaro mushumo kubva kuchikoro chebhora, dance academy, kana zvidzidzo zveChirungu zvepakutanga.
"Vanaamai vakanaka" vanoita kuti tinzwe tiine mhosva matiri nekuda kwekuvapo kwedu kwepakati uye nehusimbe hwedu.
Kana iwe ukasangana na "amai vakanaka" muhupenyu chaihwo (panhandare yekutamba, mukiriniki kana muchitoro), achafara kugovera zvakavanzika zvakasimbiswa zvekurera vana, taura kuti mwana wake ave akarara zvakanaka kubva pakuzvarwa, achidya zvikuru uye haambofi. kuita misikanzwa.
“Nemhaka yokuti ndakaita zvose sezvakarayirwa mumabhuku.” Uye pakupedzisira, zvichakushamisa iwe kuti hausati wasarudza chikoro, yunivhesiti, makosi ekutasva uye murairidzi wefenzi kumwana wako. “Sei? Iwe hausi kuzoendesa mwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako kumadziro? Zviri fashoni. Uye zvakare, inovandudza kurongeka uye ese ari maviri hemispheres ehuropi! Wakambofunga nezve gymnastics? Unoitei? Hazvina hutano. Vese nyanzvi vanonyora nezvazvo!”
Ino ndiyo nguva yokuti amaiwo zvavo vataure mukuzvidzivirira kwavo kuti "amai vakanaka" vanofanira kunge vakanganwa nezvake, kugumisa basa ravo, havadi kuwana mari, uye saka vanogona kupedza maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva. kuvana. Asi kwete! Nehurombo kwatiri, ava "amai veshanduro 24" vane diki PR agency, chitoro chepamhepo chezvigadzirwa zvevegan, kana rimwe bhizinesi refashoni.
Pamusoro pezvo, anogara achitaridzika zvakanaka ("kunyangwe anga asati agara mu salon kwemakore zana"), abs yake ndeye shanje ye kunyangwe mudzidzisi wake wekusimba, uye anokwana nyore mujean yaaipfeka kusekondari (" hapana nguva yekuenda kuchitoro, ndaifanira kuvatora kubva kune mezzanine»).
Neiko, panzvimbo pokuyemura, vachitishatirisa? Chekutanga, nekuti "vanaamai vakanaka" vanoita kuti tinzwe tiine mhosva matiri nekuda kwe "hupenyu husina tarenda." Panzvimbo pekudya kwechiedza asi vhitamini-hupfumi hwemhuri yose, nezuro wakabika pasta. Takaodha pizza nezuro.
Panzvimbo yeyoga, takaenda kune imwe cafe neshamwari uye takadya makeke matatu ikoko. Dzimwe nguva iwe hauna simba mangwanani, kwete kungoita maitiro, asi kungogeza bvudzi rako. Nokuti mwana haana kurara usiku hwose. Hauna kumbozvinetsa nekuverenga bhuku rinokuudza kuti ungaita sei mwana akakwana. Kana kuverenga, asi, sezviri pachena, kusanzwisisa kana kuita chimwe chinhu chakaipa.
Uye zvino unotanga kutambudzwa nemhosva nokuda kweusimbe uye kusakwanisa. Uye, sezvazviri, iwe unotsamwira munhu akazvikonzera izvi. Tose tinoda kuva vanaamai vakanakisisa vevana vedu, uye zvinotirwadza kuti hatigoni kuzviita.
Zano rangu: zorora uye tenda kuti ndiwe amai vakakwana kumwana wako. Haazokushanduri kune mumwe. Anokuda pasina bvudzi, makeup uye mamwe mapaundi. Uye anokutendai (kunyangwe iye asati aziva nezvazvo) kuti hauzomumanikidza kumukwevera kufenzi uye nekutanga zvidzidzo zveChirungu. Pane kudaro, achafara kuchera mubhokisi rejecha.
Mukuwedzera, zvichida, munyaya idzi dzose pamusoro pehupenyu hwakanaka uye hwakarurama hwe "amai vakanaka" unonzwa uchinyepa. Uye ichi ndicho chikonzero chechipiri nei vachitsamwisa.
Zvese zvakaringana. Madzimai makuru aya ane vabatsiri, kunyangwe vasingazvishambadzire. Uye kwete mazuva ose akafanana nengano.
Mangwanani, zvakare zvakaoma kuti vazvibvise pamubhedha, dzimwe nguva vanobika porridge yemangwanani (asi vobva vatora mifananidzo yakanaka kwazvo nemichero - haugone kutaura kubva pamufananidzo), uye mwedzi unotevera. vanoronga kutanga kutamba nhabvu nekutamba (nekuti inodhura uye vanodzidzisa zvakadaro).
Maitiro e "amai vakakwana" akaonekwa achipindura pfungwa yechinyakare yehupenyu husina tariro hwemukadzi ane mwana.
Kungori kune vanozivana uye nevasingazive, zvinovafadza kuti vagadzire mufananidzo wakadzokororwa wehuamai vasina husiku hwekusarara uye madiapers anodonha.
Maitiro acho pachawo, anonzi "maideal mother", akaonekwa achipindura pfungwa yechinyakare yehupenyu husina tariro hwemukadzi ane mwana mudiki. “Vanaamai vakanaka” vakati: “Aiwa, hatina kudaro!” uye akakurudzira mufananidzo mutsva. Havagari mukati memadziro mana, asi vanotungamira hupenyu hunoshanda nemwana. Nekuda kweiyi nzira inoshamisa, vava nemukurumbira mumasocial network. Vakadzi vazhinji vaida kuburitsa zvakavanzika zvavo, kuti vafanane navo.
Asi pane imwe nguva kwaive nevakawanda "vanaamai vakanaka". Chokwadi pakati peshamwari dzako pane akati wandei aya. Zvichida havabudise mapikicha pa Instagram (sangano rakanyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia) kufadza zviuru zvevanyoreri, asi munguva dzemisangano isingawanzoiti vanokushamisa iwe nenyaya dzekuti vanorarama sei zvakanaka, pasina kunetsa zvachose. Havambobvumi kuti vakaneta, havana nguva yokuita chimwe chinhu, kana kuti havazivi. Mushure mezvose, nzira iyi haisi mumamiriro ezvinhu.
Uye zvakadaro, mukupindura maitiro aya, maitiro akasiyana zvachose achangobva kuonekwa - "normcore mothers". Aiwa, havanyunyuti pamusoro pezvinetso zvaamai. Vanotaura nezvake vachiseka uye vasinganakidzi. Vanoisa mufananidzo wemwana akatumwa chimbi-chimbi kuti ambofamba-famba akapfeka bhutsu dzakasiyana, kana kuti pie yeapuro yakatsva nekuti iye nemwanakomana wake vaitamba maIndia.
"Normkor-amai" havape mazano uye havadi kuva muenzaniso kune wese. Vanotaura nezvekuti kune nguva dzinonakidza uye dzakaoma sei mukurera vana. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuchengeta musoro wako pamapfudzi ako uye kubata zvinhu zvose nekuseka. Uye ndosaka tichivada zvakanyanya.