Zvamazvirokwazvo, vazhinji mundangariro vane chimiro chendangariro chekare chinokuvadza chisingabvumiri chizvarwa chiduku kugara murugare. Kusagadzikana kwevamwe vanhu kunowanzobatanidzwa nekuuya kwekuchembera. Isu tinobata nenyanzvi yepfungwa kuti nei zvakanyanya kuoma kugarisana nevanhu vakuru uye kana chikonzero chacho chiri zera chete.
Alexandra, mumwe mudzidzi wefilosofi ane makore 21, akashanyira ambuya vake muchirimo kuti ataure navo uye “kuvavaraidza nemajee nemajee mukurwisana kwavo nezvirwere zvavo nguva dzose.” Asi zvakazove zvisiri nyore ...
“Mbuya vangu vane hasha uye vane hunhu hupfupi. Sezvandinozvinzwisisa, akanga akafanana muhuduku hwake, tichifunga nezvenyaya dzababa vangu. Asi mumakore ake ari kuderera, anoratidzika kuva akashata chose chose! anodaro.
"Mbuya vanogona kuerekana vataura zvinorwadza, vanogona kugumbuka pasina chikonzero, vanogona kutanga kukakavadzana nasekuru saizvozvo, nekuti kwavari chatova chikamu chisingaparadzanisiki chehupenyu hwevanhu!" Sasha anoseka, kunyange zvazvo angave asina kunyanya kunakidzwa.
“Kupika nasekuru vake chatova chikamu chisingaparadzanisiki chehupenyu hwake hwemagariro evanhu”
Somuenzaniso, nhasi ambuya vangu, sezvavanotaura, vakasimuka netsoka isiri iyo, saka tiri pakati pehurukuro yedu vakandidimbura nemashoko okuti “Ndiri kukuudza chimwe chinhu, asi unondivhiringa!” ruboshwe. Ndakakwenya mapendekete angu, uye pashure pehafu yeawa kurwisana kwacho kwakakanganwika, sezvinowanzoitwa nokubonderana kwose kwakadaro.
Sasha anoona zvikonzero zviviri zvemaitiro aya. Chekutanga kuchembera kwomuviri: “Anogara aine chimwe chinhu chiri mumarwadzo. Ari kutambura, uye ichi chimiro chakashata chemuviri, sezviri pachena, chinokanganisa mamiriro epfungwa.
Chechipiri ndechekuziva kusava nesimba kwemunhu uye kushaya simba: "Uku kugumbuka uye kushatirwa pakukwegura, izvo zvinoita kuti atsamire pane vamwe."
Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Olga Krasnova, mumwe wevanyori vebhuku rinonzi Personality Psychology of the Elderly and Persons with Disabilities, anotsinhira pfungwa dzaSasha kuti: “Kune zvinhu zvakawanda zvemagariro evanhu uye somatic zvinopesvedzera zvatinoreva ne“unhu hwakaora” — kunyange II ndichifunga kuti vanhu vanoipa. nezera.
Zvemagariro zvinosanganisira, kunyanya, pamudyandigere, kana zvichisanganisira kurasikirwa nechinzvimbo, mihoro, uye kusatya. Somatic - kuchinja kwehutano. Munhu anowana zvirwere zvisingaperi nezera, anotora mishonga inokanganisa chiyeuchidzo uye mamwe mabasa ekuziva.
Zvakare, Chiremba wePsychology Marina Ermolaeva ane chokwadi chokuti hunhu hwevakwegura hahusi huchiderera uye, uyezve, mune dzimwe nguva hunogona kuvandudza. Uye kuzvisimudzira kunoita basa rekuita pano.
"Apo munhu anokura, ndiko kuti, kana azvikurira, anozvitsvaga, anoona zvakasiyana-siyana zvekuve, uye nzvimbo yake yekugara, nyika yake inowedzera. Hunhu hutsva hunowanikwa kwaari: chiitiko chekusangana nebasa rehunyanzvi, semuenzaniso, kana rudo rwechisikigo, kana manzwiro echitendero.
Zvinoitika kuti mukukwegura kune zvikonzero zvakawanda zvekufara kupfuura muhuduku. Kuwana ruzivo, iwe unofunga zvakare pfungwa yekuve wechokwadi. Naizvozvo, hazvishamisi kuti vazukuru vanofadza zvikuru kupfuura vana muhuduku hwavo.
Munhu ane makore makumi maviri ari pakati pekurega basa uye kupera kwakakwana
Asi kana zvinhu zvese zvakanaka kwazvo, nei chifananidzo chemurume akura ane gomba chichiripo? Nyanzvi yepfungwa inotsanangura kuti: “Unhu hunoumbwa munzanga. Munhu akura anotora zvinzvimbo zvakakosha munzanga kana achinge atora chikamu muhupenyu hwayo hunobudirira - nekuda kwebasa, kurera vana, uye kungoziva mararamiro ehupenyu.
Uye kana munhu aenda pamudyandigere, haana chero nzvimbo munzanga. Hunhu hwake hwakarasika, hupenyu hwake huri kupera, uye zvakadaro haadi izvi! Zvino chimbofungidzira kuti kune vanhu vanga vachiita mabasa akashata kweupenyu hwavo hwose uye vakashuva kusiya basa kubvira vachiri vadiki.
Saka vanhu ava voita sei? Munyika yemazuva ano, munhu ane nguva yemakore makumi maviri pakati pekurega uye kupera kwakakwana.
Zvechokwadi: munhu akwegura anogona sei, mushure mokunge arasikirwa nehukama hwavo hwemagariro evanhu uye nzvimbo yavo munyika, vanogona kurarama nekunzwa kwekusabatsira kwavo? Marina Ermolaeva anopa mhinduro chaiyo kumubvunzo uyu:
“Unofanira kutsvaga rudzi rwechiito chingazodiwa nemumwe munhu asiri iwe, asi fungazve nhandaro iyi sebasa. Heino muenzaniso kwauri padanho remazuva ese: basa nderekuti, semuenzaniso, kugara nevazukuru vako.
Chinhu chakaipisisa kana chiri chiitiko chekuzorora: "Ndinogona kuzviita, handikwanise (nekuda kweBP, majoini anorwadza) handizviite." Uye kushanda ndipo apo “Ndichigona— ndinozviita, handikwanisi— ndinozviita zvakadaro, nokuti hapana anozviita kunze kwangu! Ndichasiya vanhu vepedyo pasi!" Kushanda ndiyo nzira chete yekuti munhu avepo."
Tinofanira kugara tichikunda hunhu hwedu
Chimwe chinhu chinokosha chinokanganisa unhu, chokwadika, ukama hwemhuri. “Dambudziko rine vanhu vakuru rinowanzova pakuti havana kuvaka uye havasi kuvaka hukama nevana vavo.
Chinhu chinokosha munyaya iyi maitiro edu nevakasarudzwa vavo. Kana tikakwanisa kuda mweya wemwana wedu sezvatinomuda, tichava nevana vaviri. Kana isu tisingakwanise, hapazovi nemumwe. Uye vanhu vakasurukirwa havatombofari.”
"Kuzvivimba kwevanhu ndicho chinhu chikuru chehukuru hwake," anoyeuka mutsara waPushkin Ermolaev. Hunhu hwemunhu hunoenderana naye pazera ripi zvaro.
“Tinofanira kugara tichikunda hunhu hwedu: kuchengetedza chimiro chemuviri chakanaka uye kuchibata sebasa; gara uchikura, kunyangwe nekuda kweizvi iwe unofanirwa kukunda iwe pachako. Ipapo zvese zvichange zvakanaka, "nyanzvi ine chokwadi.