Sei vanhu vakabudirira, vane njere vachierekana vaenda kumasvikiro nemasvikiro? Isu tinoita setiri kutsvaga mumwe munhu achaita sarudzo kwatiri, semuhuduku, apo vanhu vakuru vakasarudza zvese. Asi hatichisiri vana. Mufungo wacho unobva kupi wokuti zviri nani kupa mutoro nokuda kwoupenyu hwedu kuna avo “vanoziva zvose zviri nani kupfuura isu”?
Iye zvino Alexander ava nemakore makumi matanhatu. Pane imwe nguva, achiri mukomana, iye nehanzvadzi yake vakagara pafenzi ndokudya apuro rine muto. Anorangarira zuva iroro zvizere, kunyangwe zvavakanga vakapfeka vari vaviri. Murume mukuru akafamba nemugwagwa ndokudzokera kumba kwavo. Vabereki vaibata mufambi wacho noruremekedzo noruremekedzo.
Hurukuro yacho yaive pfupi. Murume wekare akati mukomana aizofamba nechikepe pagungwa (uye iyi yaiva musha weSiberia uri kure, izvo zvakakonzera kusava nechokwadi), kuti aizoroora nokukurumidza, uye kune heterodox, uye kuti aizoramba ari chirikadzi. Musikana akafanotaura ramangwana rakanaka: mhuri yakasimba, kubudirira uye vana vakawanda.
Mukomana akakura ndokuenda kunodzidza mune rimwe guta guru, uko unyanzvi hwake hwakanga huri "netsaona" hwakabatana negungwa. Akakurumidza kuroora, musikana kubva kusangano rakasiyana. Uye akafirwa. Akabva aroora zvakare. Uye akafirwa zvakare.
Hanzvadzi yakaenda nenzira yakasiyana zvachose: kuroorana kwenguva pfupi kwete rudo, kurambana, mwana mumwe, kusurukirwa kwehupenyu hwose.
chirwere chepfungwa
Kubva pauduku, tave takajaira kutenda muna Santa Claus, munyaya dzemashiripiti, muzvishamiso.
“Vana vanogamuchira pasina panikiro mashoko nemafungiro evabereki, vachigamuchira mirangariro yenyika yaavo vakavapoteredza,” anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yendangariro Anna Statsenko, “Mwana anokura. Akatarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana ehupenyu, iye, kubva paudiki hwake, anoda kuti mumwe munhu akwanise kusarudza: kuita sei, chii chaizvo chinoda kuitwa, kuti chichava chakachengeteka sei. Kana pasina munhu ari munharaunda ane maonero ayo chikamu chemwana chaizovimba zvachose, kutsvaga kunotanga.
Uye zvino avo vanogara uye zvinhu zvose vanoziva mberi, vachifanotaura nechivimbo nezveramangwana, vanouya muchiito. Vese avo vatinopa chimiro chemunhu akakosha uye ane chiremera.
“Vanoenda kwavari kuti vazvisunungure vamene pamutoro, dzvinyiriro pakutya kukanganisa,” anopfuurira kudaro nyanzvi yendangariro. -Kuti mumwe munhu asarudze uye akuudze kuti sei uye zvekuita kuti uderedze nhanho yekushushikana, kugamuchira kusimbiswa kwakanaka. Uye kune mukuru akakosha kusimbisa: "Usatya, zvese zvichanaka."
Kutsoropodza panguva ino kunoderedzwa. Mashoko anotorwa seasingakoshi. Uye pane mukana wekuti munhu angave "ane hutachiona hwepfungwa". Uyezve, kuunzwa kwechirongwa chemutorwa dzimwe nguva kunoitika zvisingaonekwe zvachose, padanho rekusaziva.
Isu tinotaurirana tichishandisa mazwi, rimwe nerimwe rine imwe encoding, yakajeka uye yakavanzika meseji, anodaro Anna Statsenko:
“Ruzivo runopinda padanho rekuziva uye nekusaziva. Kuziva kunogona kudzikisira ruzivo urwu, asi panguva imwecheteyo, kusaziva kunobvisa kubva murugwaro iyo fomati uye chidimbu chinogona kugamuchirwa kuburikidza neprism yeruzivo rwemunhu uye nhoroondo yemhuri nemhuri. Uye ipapo kutsvaga kwemaitiro ekushandisa ruzivo rwakagamuchirwa kunotanga. Pane ngozi huru yokuti mune ramangwana munhu achaita kwete kubva pakusununguka kwake, asi kubva pazvirambidzo zvinogamuchirwa kuburikidza neshoko.
Inokurumidza sei iyo meseji-hutachiona huchadzika midzi uye kuti iyo meseji-hutachiona huchadzika midzi zvachose zvinoenderana nekuti kune ivhu rakaorera mukusaziva kwedu kune ruzivo rwakadaro. Uye ipapo hutachiona huchabata kutya, kutya, zvisingakwanisi uye zvitendero, anodaro Anna Statsenko.
Hupenyu hwevanhu ava hungadai hwakafamba sei pasina kuganhurira fungidziro? Ndeipi nguva yatinosiya nzira yedu, sarudzo yedu yechokwadi, nekuda kwekufanotaura? Ndepapi paive kuvimba newe, yako yepamusoro "Ini" yakarasika?
Ngatiedzei kuzviongorora uye kugadzira mushonga mumatanho mashanu.
Mushonga wehutachiona
Step one: dzidza kuvimba nechinzvimbo kana uchifambidzana nemumwe munhu: Ndiri munhu mukuru uye Mumwe wacho mukuru. Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kuongorora chikamu chako chevakuru.
"Munhu mukuru ndewekuti munhu anoziva uye anoongorora zvine musoro njodzi dzechipi nechipi chezviito zvake, akagadzirira kutora mutoro wezviri kuitika muupenyu hwake," anotsanangura kudaro Anna Statsenko. - Panguva imwecheteyo, anoumba mazano akasiyana mune imwe mamiriro ezvinhu.
Mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, munhu anosarudza izvo zvisinganzwisisiki kwaari, kwaanoda kuvaka nhare yemhepo. Asi iye anocherekedza ikoku sokunge kuti ari kunze, achidzivisa chose chose kupinda muidzi nyengedzo kana kuti muzvirambidzo zvavabereki.
Kuongorora chikamu changu chevakuru kunoreva kuongorora kana ndichigona kuronga ndega, kutora mutoro wezviri kuitika kwandiri, kutarisana nekutya kwangu nemamwe manzwiro, ndizvibvumira kurarama nazvo.
Ndinogona here kutarisa mumwe, pasina overestimating kukosha kwayo, asi pasina devaluing, kubva pachinzvimbo I-mukuru uye Vamwe-Vakuru. Ndinogona here kusiyanisa fungidziro dzangu kubva pachokwadi?
Nhanho mbiri: dzidza kutsoropodza ruzivo rwakagamuchirwa kubva kunze. Yakakosha - uku hakusi kudzikisira, kwete kushoropodza, asi seimwe yefungidziro inotsanangura zviitiko.
Takagadzirira kugamuchira mashoko kubva kune vamwe, asi tinoatora seimwe yedzidziso, tichiaramba zvakadzikama kana akasamira pakuongororwa.
Danho rechitatu: kuona kana muchikumbiro changu kune Mumwe pane chishuwo chekusaziva chekuzvisunungura pamutoro. Kana hongu, zvino zvidzorere iwe kune chinzvimbo chevakuru.
Nhanho Yechina: ziva chinodiwa chandinogutsa nekutendeukira kune Mumwe. Mumiriri wandakasarudza anokwanisa here kugutsa zvinodiwa izvi?
Nhanho Yechishanu: dzidza kuziva nguva yekuiswa kwehutachiona. Padanho rekuchinja nyika. Semuenzaniso, iwe wakangoseka uye uzere nesimba, asi mushure mekutaura nemumwe waunoshanda naye, kushushikana, kusatenda mukati mako kwakazara. Chii chakaitika? Inzvimbo yangu here kana kuti yewandinoshanda naye yakatambidzwa kwandiri? Nei ndichichida? Paive nemitsara muhurukuro yainzwika seyakakosha here?
Kupfurikidza nokuramba tichikurukurirana norutivi rwedu rwavakuru, tinogona kudzivirira zvose zviri zviviri mwana womukati uye timene pauporofita hunozadzika uye dzimwe ngozi dzinobvira dzorudzi urwu.