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Takadzidza kubva kungano yaCharles Perrault yakakurumbira kuti "hazvina kunaka kusaenda kubhora kana uchikodzera." Muverengi wedu Tatyana ane chokwadi: Cinderella haasi iye waanoti ndiye, uye kubudirira kwake kunobva pane hunyanzvi hwekuita. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinotaura pamusoro peiyi maonero.
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Ndine mwanasikana muduku wandinoverengera, sevabereki vakawanda, ndisati ndarara. Iyo ngano ye "Cinderella" ndiyo yaanofarira. Iyo nyaya, hongu, inozivikanwa kwandiri kubva paudiki, asi makore mazhinji gare gare, ndichinyatsoverenga zvakadzama, ndakatanga kuenderana nayo nenzira yakasiyana zvachose.
Isu takajaira chokwadi chekuti heroine mushandi murombo, akasvibiswa mumadota, uye zvinangwa zvake zvakakwirira uye hazvifarire. Uye zvino kururamisira kunokunda: murandakadzi wezuro, uyo asina kuita chero nhamburiko yekudzivirira zvaanoda mumba memukadzi wekurera akaipa, pamhepo yewand yefayiri, anova mambokadzi uye anotamira kumuzinda.
Hazvishamisi kuti kune zvizvarwa zvakawanda zvevasikana (uye ini handisi mutsauko), Cinderella akava munhu wekurota. Iwe unogona kutsungirira kusagadzikana, uye Muchinda pachake achakuwana, kukuponesa uye kukupa hupenyu hwemashiripiti.
Muchokwadi, Cinderella akatamira kune chinangwa chake achifunga zvakanyanya.
Zvese zviito zvake ndezvekunyepedzera, uye, mumashoko emazuva ano, anogona kunzi akajairika pick-up muimbi. Pamwe haana kunyora hurongwa hwake hwechiito pabepa, uye hwakakura nekusaziva, asi mhedzisiro yacho haigone kunzi netsaona.
Iwe unogona kunge uchiitira godo kuvimba kwemusikana uyu - ari kuenda kubhora, kunyangwe asina kumbobvira avapo. Saka, anonyatsoziva kuti ane kodzero yokuzviita. Uyezve, iye nyore nyore, pasina kupokana kupi nokupi kwomukati, anonyepedzera kusava zvaari chaizvoizvo.
Muchinda anoona muenzi akaenzana naye pachimiro: ngoro yake yakapfava nedhaimondi, yakasungwa nemabhiza akaomeswa kwazvo, iye pachake ari mupfeko yeumbozha uye zvishongo zvinodhura. Uye chinhu chekutanga Cinderella anoita kukunda mwoyo wababa vake, Mambo. Akaona kora yake yabvaruka, akabva angowana shinda netsono kuti zvibatsire. Mambo anofara nekunetsekana kwechokwadi uku uye anosuma mutorwa kuna Muchinda.
Wese munhu akatenderedza anowira murudo naCinderella uye vachikwikwidzana vanokoka kutamba
Haana mwero, anotamba nemunhu wese, anokonzeresa kusawirirana pakati pevarume, achivamanikidza kukwikwidza. Kuve ega naChangamire, anomufuridzira kuti ndiye akanakisa. Anoteerera kwaari uye anogara achitenda kune zvese, achiramba achifara, akareruka uye asina hanya. Uye ndizvo chaizvo zvinoda varume.
Muchinda, jaya rakapambwa, zvisingatarisirwi anosangana nemusikana akaenzana naye pachinzvimbo, asi kwete eccentric uye capricious, sevamwe vapfumi vagari venhaka, asi ane zvinoshamisa zvinyoro, hunhu hwekunyunyuta. Pakupera kwenyaya, apo Cinderella akafumurwa uye zvikazoitika kuti iye munyengeri, rudo rweMuchinda runomubvumira kufuratira izvi.
Saka kubudirira kusina mubvunzo kweCinderella hakugoni kunzi netsaona. Uye haasiye muenzaniso wekutendeseka uye kusafarira.
Lev Khegay, Jungian muongorori:
Ngano yeCinderella yakasikwa munguva dzehumambo hwakaoma uye yakasimudzira kunaka kwemukadzi anozviisa pasi, akatsikirirwa uye anonyengedzwa, akarongerwa kubereka, kuchengetedza imba kana basa rakaderera.
Chipikirwa chomuchato noMuchinda Anofadza (setuso yenzvimbo yakadzvinyirirwa munzanga) yakafanana nechipikirwa chorudzidziso chenzvimbo muparadhiso nokuda kwavakanyadziswa zvikurusa navanodzvinyirirwa. Muzana remakore rechi21, mamiriro ezvinhu munyika dzakabudirira achinja zvikuru. Tiri kupupurira chizvarwa chekutanga apo vakadzi vane mwero wedzidzo yepamusoro uye dzimwe nguva vachiwana mihoro yakakwira kupfuura varume.
Tichifunga nezvemienzaniso yakawanda kubva kuhupenyu hwevakadzi vanobudirira mumagariro evanhu, pamwe chete nekutarisa kweHollywood movie mufananidzo we heroine akasimba, shanduro yeCinderella the manipulator haisisiri kutarisa zvinoshamisa. Kungotaura kunonzwisisika kunomuka kwokuti dai ainyatsoziva kubata-bata, aisazowira munzvimbo yemuranda akaderera, akaita basa rakashata zvikuru.
Kubva pane psychoanalytic maonero, ngano inotsanangura kushungurudzika kwekurasikirwa naamai uye kushungurudzwa naamai vake vekurera nehanzvadzi.
Kushungurudzika kwakanyanya kwekutanga kunogona kumanikidza Cinderella akadaro kuti abve munyika yekufungidzira. Uye ipapo rubatsiro rwefayi uye kukunda kweMuchinda Charming kunogona kutorwa sezvinhu zve delirium yake. Asi kana psyche ine zviwanikwa zvakakwana, saka munhu haazoputsi, asi, pane zvinopesana, achagamuchira simba rakasimba rekuvandudza.
Kune mienzaniso yakawanda yekubudirira kukuru kwevanhu avo vane hupenyu hwepakutanga hwakaoma uye hunoshamisa. Nyaya dzose dzinovaka, dzinosanganisira ngano, dzinotsanangura mamiriro ezvinhu ebudiriro, umo vasina simba vanova vakasimba, uye vasina ruzivo vanova vakachenjera.
The simpleton hero, ane rombo rakanaka, anofananidzira kuvimba muupenyu uye vanhu, kuvimbika kune zvaanoda. Uye, chokwadi, vimba ne intuition. Mupfungwa iyi, Cinderella zvakare anofananidzira icho chidiki-chakadzidzwa chinhu chepfungwa dzedu, uko kiyi yekuzadzikiswa kwezviroto zvako yakavanzwa.
Daria Petrovskaya, Gestalt therapist:
Nyaya yeCinderella haisati yadudzirwa. Imwe yekududzira ndeye "kushivirira uye basa rinokuya zvese." Pfungwa imwechete inoshanduka ikava ngano ye "musikana akanaka": kana iwe ukamirira kwenguva yakareba, tsungirira uye uzvibate zvakanaka, ipapo pachava nemubairo wakakodzera wakakodzera unofadza.
Mune iyi tarisiro yerufaro mumunhu weMuchinda (kunyange pasina chinozivikanwa pamusoro pake, kunze kwechimiro chake), pane chirevo chekudzivisa mutoro wezvipo zvemunhu kune ramangwana. Kurwisana kwemunyori wetsamba ndeyekuti akabata Cinderella muzviito zvinoshingaira. Uye akavashora: "Uku ndiko kunyengera."
Isu hatizive munyori wechokwadi wengano, hatizive zvaaida chaizvo kutidzidzisa, uye kana aive zvake. Zvakadaro, nhoroondo yakawana nzvimbo yayo mumoyo yedu, nekuti vazhinji vanovimba muchivande ichi chishamiso. Uye vanokanganwa kuti zvishamiso zvinogoneka kana ukaisa mari mazviri. Kuti uwane Muchinda, unofanirwa kuuya kubhora uye kumuziva. Kuda kwete iye chete, asiwo zvakamupoteredza. Ipapo chete ndipo pane mukana wekuti chishamiso chigone kuitika.
Iyo heroine yetsamba inoita seinoshora Cinderella: anonyengera uye haana kutendeseka, sezvo achinyepedzera kunge asiri iye.
Chokwadi ichi ichokwadi kubva muzvinyorwa zvengano. Asi chokwadi ndechekuti Cinderella akatora mukana.
Nekuda kwemadimikira adzo, ngano dzinoshanduka kuita ndima yefungidziro dzisingaperi kumuverengi. Ivo vakakurumbira nekuti munhu wese anowana chimwe chinhu chakasiyana mavari, zvichienderana neruzivo rwavo uye mamiriro ehupenyu.
Mashoko emunyori wetsamba ane chinangwa chakananga pakushora "kusavimbika" kwaCinderella. Uye haasi munhu anotya chaizvo, asi musikana anonzwisisa nzvimbo yake muupenyu uye asingabvumirani nazvo. Anoda zvakawanda uye anoisa simba mazviri.
Zvichienderana nemabasa edu emukati, tinosarudza nzira dzakasiyana dzekuodzwa mwoyo nengano. Uye iyi zvakare inoratidzira uye yakakosha maitiro.