Mukati
Tose tinofanira kukurukura nevamwe panyaya dzebasa. Kuti uwane mhedzisiro yakanaka, zvakakosha kuti ugone kutaura nenzira kwayo ruzivo kune vashandi, kugadzira nemazvo zvikumbiro, zvishuwo uye makomendi. Hezvino zvekuita uye zvekusaita.
Zvichida iwe pachako wakatanga chikumbiro chako kana kuti basa kanopfuura kamwe nemashoko okuti “Ndinokuda,” kunyanya mukukurukurirana nevari pasi. Maiwe, iyi haisiriyo nzira yakanakisa yekugovera mabasa uye kazhinji kutaurirana nevaunoshanda navo. Uye ndosaka.
Izvi zvinobvisa mukana wemhinduro dzakakwana
Sekureva kwenyanzvi yezvepfungwa yesangano Laura Gallagher, pakutaura nemumwe waunoshanda naye kana ari pasi nemazwi okuti "Ndinokuda," hatisiyi nzvimbo yekukurukurirana munhaurirano. Asi, zvichida, interlocutor haibvumirani nekuraira kwako. Zvichida iye haana nguva, kana, pane kudaro, ane ruzivo rwakawanda uye anoziva nzira yekugadzirisa dambudziko racho zvakanyanya. Asi isu hatingopi munhu mukana wekutaura (kunyangwe isu tichiita izvi nekusaziva).
Panzvimbo yekuti "Ndinokuda," Gallagher anopa zano kutendeukira kune waanoshanda naye namashoko: "Ndinoda kuti uite ichi neicho. Unofungei?" kana kuti “Takasangana nedambudziko iri. Une zvimwe zvaungagona kuzvigadzirisa here?" Izvi zvinonyanya kukosha mumamiriro ezvinhu apo mhinduro kubva kumushandi inobata mugumisiro wose. Usamanikidzira chisarudzo chako kune anopindira, tanga kumurega ataure.
Hazvipi waunoshanda naye mukana wekunzwa akakosha.
“Basa raunopa mushandi rinotora nguva yake, zviwanikwa. Zvinowanzotapura kuti zuva rokushanda romunhu richafamba sei,” anotsanangura kudaro Loris Brown, nyanzvi yedzidzo yevakuru. "Asi kana vachipa mabasa kune vaunoshanda navo, vazhinji havawanzo funga zvavanokoshesa uye kuti basa idzva richakanganisa sei kuitwa kwezvimwe zvese.
Mukuwedzera, "Ndinokuda" nguva dzose pamusoro pedu uye zvatinokoshesa. Zvinonzwika zvisinganyare uye zvisina kunaka. Kuti vashandi vasangane nezvido zvenyu, zvakakosha kuvakurudzira uye kuvaratidza kuti kupedzwa kwebasa kuchakanganisa sei mhedzisiro yese. "
Mukuwedzera, vazhinji vedu tine chido chikuru chekukurukurirana uye kuonana nevanhu, uye vanhu vanowanzofarira kuita chimwe chinhu chichabatsira boka ravo rose rekushamwaridzana. “Ratidza kuti basa rako rinokosha nokuda kwezvakanaka zvavose, uye munhu wacho anozviita nokudisa,” inodaro nyanzvi yacho.
Muchiitiko chimwe nechimwe, zviise munzvimbo yerumwe rutivi - ungave nechishuvo chekubatsira here?
Kana vaunoshanda navo vakafuratira zvikumbiro zvako, funga nezvazvo: pamwe wakambotadza - semuenzaniso, wakashandisa nguva yavo zvisizvo kana kusashandisa mhedzisiro yebasa ravo zvachose.
Kuti udzivise izvi, edza kugara uchiratidza zvakajeka zvaunoda rubatsiro. Somuenzaniso: “Mangwana acho na9:00 mangwanani ndinenge ndiine mharidzo kuhofisi yemutengi. Ndichakutendai kana mukatumira report mangwana before 17:00 kuti ndimboiongorora ndiwedzere dhata remazuva ano kumharidzo. Unofungei, zvichashanda here?
Uye kana ukasarudza sarudzo dzekugadzira chikumbiro chako kana kuraira, mune yega yega zviise munzvimbo yerimwe divi - ungave nechishuwo chekubatsira?