Kuseka chiratidzo chepasirese chinonzwisisika kune vanhu vemarudzi akasiyana, tsika nemagariro. Zvinochinja zvichienderana nekuti tiri kutaurirana nani parizvino. Nokudaro, tinogona kunge pasina mubvunzo, chete nekunzwika kwezwi, kuziva hukama pakati pevanhu vanoseka, kunyange kana tikavaona kwekutanga.
Zvinoitika kuti shamwari inozivikanwa kwete mumatambudziko chete, asiwo patinoseka naye. Uye vazhinji vedu tinogona kunyatsoziva kana vanhu vaviri vachizivana zvakanaka nekungoteerera vachiseka.
Kuona kana kuseka kwakasiyana pakati peshamwari nevasingazivi uye kuti misiyano iyi inonzwisiswa sei nevanhu vedzimwe nyika netsika, boka repasi rose renyanzvi dzepfungwa rakaita chidzidzo chikuru.1. Vadzidzi vakakokwa kuti vakurukure misoro yakasiyana-siyana, uye hurukuro dzavo dzose dzakarekodhwa. Vamwe vechidiki vaiva shamwari dzepamwoyo, vamwe vachionana kekutanga. Vatsvagiri vacho vakabva vacheka zvidimbu zvemarekodha apo vatauri vakaseka panguva imwe chete.
Neshamwari, tinoseka zvakajairika uye takasununguka, tisingadzore kana kudzvanyirira manzwi edu.
Zvimedu izvi zvakateererwa nevagari 966 vomunyika 24 dzakasiyana mumakondinendi mashanu. Vaifanira kuona kuti vanhu vaiseka ava vaizivana here uye kuti vaiwirirana zvakadii.
Pasinei nekusiyana kwetsika, paavhareji, vese vakapindura vakanyatsoona kana vanhu vanoseka vaizivana (61% yezviitiko). Panguva imwecheteyo, vasikana vechikadzi vaive nyore kuziva (vakafungidzirwa mu80% yezviitiko).
“Patinokurukura neshamwari, kuseka kwedu kunonzwika nenzira inokosha, - anodaro mumwe wevanyori vekudzidza, nyanzvi yepfungwa yepfungwa kubva kuYunivhesiti yeCalifornia (USA) Grek Brant (Greg Bryant). - Mumwe nomumwe "chuckle" anotora zvishoma, timbre uye inzwi rezwi rinosiyanawo kubva kune rinowanzoita - vanowedzera. Aya maficha ari pasirese - mushure mezvose, iko kurongeka kwekufungidzira munyika dzakasiyana hakuna kumbosiyana. Zvinoitika kuti neshamwari tinoseka zvakajairika uye neropa, tisingadzore kana kudzvanyirira inzwi redu.
Iko kugona kuona mamiriro ehukama ne cues sekuseka kwakashanduka pamusoro pekufamba kwedu. Iko kukwanisa, nezviratidzo zvisina kunanga, kukurumidza kuona hukama pakati pevanhu vatisingazivi hunogona kubatsira mumamiriro akasiyana-siyana evanhu.
1 G. Bryant nevamwe. "Kuona kubatanidzwa mukuseka munharaunda makumi maviri nemana", Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 24, vol. 2016, №113.