Musikana, uyo akavimbiswa navanachiremba pazera remakore gumi nematatu kuti haazove nevana, akakwanisa kuve mai vemapatya. Ichokwadi, ivo havana chibereko kwaari.
Kuenda kumwedzi - iri izwi rinobatanidzwa nezera rekuti "kumwe kunopfuura makumi mashanu". Iyo ovarian reserve yemazai inopera, basa rekubereka rinopera, uye nguva nyowani inotanga muhupenyu hwemukadzi. Kuna Amanda Hill, iyi nguva yakatanga aine makore gumi nerimwe chete.
Amanda nemurume wake Tom.
“Kutevera kwangu kwekutanga kwakatanga ndiine makore gumi. Uye pandakanga ndava nemakore 10, yakamira zvachose. Ndava nemakore gumi nematatu, ndakabatwa chirwere chekusakurira mazai nekukanganisa mazai uye ndakaudzwa kuti handife ndakava nevana, ”anodaro Amanda.
Zvinotaridza senge pazera regumi nematatu uye hapana chekufambisa pamusoro - ndiani pazera iro anofunga nezve vana? Asi kubva paudiki, Amanda akarota nezvemhuri hombe. Naizvozvo, ndakawira mukushushikana kwakakomba, kwandakatadza kubuda kwemamwe makore matatu.
“Mumakore apfuura, ndakatanga kuona kuti kubata nhumbu nenzira kwayo handiyo chete nzira yekuva amai. Ndine tariro, ”anoenderera mberi musikana.
Amanda akasarudza IVF. Murume wake akamutsigira zvizere mune izvi, aidawo kurera vana zvakafanana nemukadzi wake. Nezvikonzero zviri pachena, musikana uyu aive asina mazai ake, saka zvaive zvakakosha kuti vatsvage. Vakawana sarudzo yakakodzera kubva kubhuku revanopa vasingazivikanwe. Ndakawana musikana akareba nemeso akafanana neangu. "
Pakazara, Amanda nemurume wake vakapedza angangoita mamirioni 1,5 emabhuru paIVF - angangoita zviuru gumi nezvishanu zvepondo. Hormone Therapy, insemination insemination, kudyara - zvese zvakafamba mushe. Munguva yakafanira, vaviri ava vakave nemwanakomana. Mukomana wacho ainzi Orin.
“Ndaitya kuti ndaisazova nehukama naye. Mushure mezvose, majini isu tiri vatorwa kune mumwe nemumwe. Asi kusava nechokwadi kwese kwakanyangarika pandakaona maficha aTom, murume wangu kumeso kwaOrin, ”vanodaro amai vadiki. Sekureva kwake, akatofananidza mafoto aTom ehudiki naOrin uye akawana zvakawandisa zvakafanana. "Vakangofanana!" - musikana anonyemwerera.
Makore maviri mushure mekuzvarwa kwaOrina, Amanda akasarudza kutenderera kwechipiri kweIVF, kunyanya sezvo painge pachine mucheche wakasara kubva panguva yekupedzisira. "Ini ndaida kuti Orin ave nemunin'ina kana hanzvadzi saka aisanzwa kusurukirwa," anotsanangura kudaro. Uye zvakare zvese zvakaitwa: Munun'una waOrin, Tylen, akazvarwa.
“Zvinoshamisa, ivo mapatya, asi Tylen akapedza makore maviri ari mufiriji. Asi ikozvino tiri tese pamwe uye tinofara kwazvo, - akawedzera Amanda. “Orin mudiki kwazvo kuti azive kuti iye naTylen mapatya. Asi anongoda munin'ina wake. "