Mukati
Nhasi, vanhu vakawanda vanotaura nezvebasa-upenyu dzikamo, asi zvinokosha chaizvoizvo here? Hongu, vamwe vanhu vanoenda zvavo kubasa kana kuti, zvakasiyana, vakabatikana chete nemhuri dzavo, asi kwakaipa here kudaro? Hezvino izvo Irina Pracheva, mudzidzisi uye munyori wepurogiramu yekushandura yevakadzi, anofunga nezvazvo.
1. Nzwisisa chikonzero chekusaenzana
Chero kusaenzana kune chikonzero, uye kuti ubvise, zvakakosha kutanga pane zvese kuti uzvizive. Kazhinji vanhu vanopinda mumusoro kubasa nekuda kwekushaikwa kwerudo, kunzwisisa uye ruremekedzo kumba, matambudziko nevadikani - ndiko kuti, vanoedza kutsiva izvo zvavasingagamuchiri mumhuri nekurasikirwa kwekubudirira kwehunyanzvi.
Mutengi wangu Elena, maneja wepamusoro akabudirira uye amai vevana vatatu, mangwanani ega ega haaendi chete, asi anobhururuka kuenda kubasa. Ikoko, vatariri vake vanomunamata uye mutungamiri anomukoshesa, maonero ake anoteererwa, uye inzwi rake rinowanzoita sarudzo. Ayambuka chikumbaridzo chehofisi, Elena anonzwa ane chivimbo, akakodzera, asingadzoreki. Anoshandisa nguva yakawanda kubasa, anomupa zvakanakisisa uye anokurumidza kukwira pamanera ebasa.
Uye murume wake Oleg akamumirira kumba. Iye haashande, anopedza yakawanda yenguva yake ari pakombuta uye anopomera vamwe mhosva yekutadza kwake. Pasinei nokuti iye pachake haana kuita chero chinhu, ane chokwadi chokuti imba inofanira kumuteerera. Oleg anogara achizvidza Elena, anowana zvikanganiso muchitarisiko chake uye maitiro. Pakave pasina rudo mumhuri kwenguva yakareba, Elena haarambane nemurume wake nekuda kwevana. Uye zvakare nekuti haana nguva yekufunga nezve zvaanoda chaizvo. Elena anongotiza kubva kumba, kwaasingafari zvikuru, kushanda, kwaanonzwa zvakanaka.
Magamba akatiza matambudziko emhuri achienda kuhofisi. Nekuda kwekusagutsikana muhukama paive nekukanganiswa
Mumwe mutengi wangu, Alexander, akavaka basa mukambani kusvika pazera remakore 35 uye panguva imwe cheteyo aiita mabhizimisi akati wandei, akapedza maawa 16-18 ari kubasa, uye kunyange kupera kwevhiki kwake akanga akabatikana nemisangano yebhizimisi. Pakupedzisira, awana zvose zvaaishuvira, Alexander akaziva kuti makore anopfuura 13 emuchato, iye nomudzimai wake vakanga vabva kune mumwe nomumwe uye vakanga vasina chokutaura, kunze kwevana. Mutengi wangu akamboramba achiti mukadzi wake asashande achengete vana asi akazozviona kuti zvakamubhowa. Akatanga kutiza kufinhwa uye nyaya dzemabasa epamba uye kupedza nguva yakawanda nevaaishanda navo.
Sezvineiwo, akaona kuti mukati maive musisina chinhu, zvinoreva kuti yaive nguva yekumira, kumbozorora pabasa rake. Achitarisa-tarisa, akaona kuti vazhinji vezera rake vakanga vapinda mudambudziko repakati, vachirambana nevakadzi vavo. Asi akanga asingadi kudzokorora chiitiko ichi, zvakakosha kuti adzorere ukama nemudzimai wake. Nechikumbiro ichi ndipo paakauya kwandiri kuti titaurirane.
Chinozivikanwa munyaya idzi ndechekuti vatambi vakatiza matambudziko emhuri vachienda kuhofisi. Nekuda kwekusagutsikana muhukama, paive nekurerekera kune basa uye bhizinesi.
2. Kuda kuchinja
Kuti ubvise "kukanganisa", iwe unofanirwa kuda nemoyo wose kuwana chiyero. Zvinonzwika sezvisina maturo, asi mukuita, ini ndinowanzosangana nenyaya yekuti vatengi vanogunun'una pamusoro pekushaikwa kwekuwirirana pakati pebasa nemhuri, asi kwete chete kusaedza kuiwana, asi, chaizvoizvo, havadi. Uye panguva imwe cheteyo, vanonzwa kuzvidemba nemhaka yokuti vanopa nguva shomanene kumhuri, kana kuti vanoshatirwa kuti havana zvimwe zvavanofarira kunze kwebasa. Asi kana munhu achida chaizvo kuchinja, zvimwe zvese inyaya yehunyanzvi.
Pakarepo Elena naAlexander vakaziva zvikonzero zvechokwadi zvekusaenzana, vakaziva kuti vaida kuwana kuwirirana, vakakwanisa kukurumidza kuvakazve hupenyu hwavo.
Mubhizimisi, zvose zvakanga zviri nyore kuna Maria: aiziva zvaaida, uye akaenda kwazviri, achivimba chete pachake
Mumwe mutengi, Maria, akauya kuzobvunzurudza nechikumbiro chinotevera: anoda kusava muridzi wekofi ine fashoni uye Instagram nyeredzi (sangano rinonyanyisa rakarambidzwa muRussia), anogara achigovana zvakavanzika zvekuvaka bhizinesi rakabudirira. vatori venhau, asiwo mukadzi anodiwa. Zvisinei, panguva yezvikamu, zvakazoitika kuti Maria anofarira kuva nyeredzi yenharaunda yebhizimisi yevakadzi, uye anotya kutanga kuvaka hukama hutsva (panguva iyoyo mutengi wangu akanga arambana, akarera vanakomana vaviri ari oga uye haana kuyeuka. kekupedzisira aive ari kufambidzana).
Nechemumoyo Maria aitya hukama, achirangarira kurwadziwa kwaakaitwa neaimbove murume wake. Kutya uye kutenda kunoganhurira zvakamutadzisa kufamba munzira iyoyo. Asi mune bhizinesi, zvese zvaive nyore kwaari: Maria aiziva zvaaida, uye akaenda kwazviri, achivimba chete. Chainyanya kukosha kwaiva kubvisa kutya uye dzidziso dzenhema pamusoro pevarume. Mushure mezvo ndipo paakamuka chido chekusangana nerudo.
3. Gadza chinangwa
Pakarepo Elena naAlexander pavakada kuwana mufaro wemhuri, vakazviisa chinangwa chekuwana kuwirirana pakati pemabasa avo uye hupenyu hwehupenyu. Kune vanhu vakabudirira, kuisa chinangwa chinhu chakajeka uye chinoshanda. Vese vaviri vaiziva kuti uko kutarisisa kwekutarisa kwavo kune simba, saka, kana zuva rega rega vakacherekedza kuwana chiyero, pakupedzisira ivo vanozozviwana.
Zvinotevera zvakandibatsira kuti ndirambe ndichifunga nezvechinangwa changu. "Kurota kwangu kunotyisa" kwaiva heroine yefirimu "Office Romance" Lyudmila Prokopievna, uye ndakaedza kuzvibvisa kubva pamufananidzo uyu zvakanyanya sezvinobvira. Ndagara ndichizvigadzirira chinangwa chekubudirira kwete mubasa rangu chete, asiwo mumhuri yangu, ndichiedza kuenzanisa uye kuwirirana. Ndakazvibvunza kuti: “Ndingaitei nhasi kuti ndisazova saLyudmila Prokopyevna?” - uye mubvunzo wakabatsira kuchengeta pfungwa dzangu pamusoro pehukadzi uye kunaka.
4. Ita chiono chakajeka
Kuti uise chinangwa chakanaka, unofanirwa kuumba chiono chakajeka chekuenzanisa pakati pebasa nemhuri. Zvakakodzera kuita izvi kwete chete, asi nevadikanwi: nenzira iyi iwe uchasvika pakuzivana zviri nani uye kunzwisisa izvo zvakakosha kumhuri yako. Iyi nzira inobatanidza, inopa pfungwa yenharaunda. Mune dzimwe mhuri, zvinotora mavhiki akati kuti kuumba chiono chehupenyu hwavo hwakanaka: nhengo dzese dzemhuri dzinosanganisirwa mukuita uye kunakidzwa nazvo.
Iwe haufanirwe kusvetuka danho iri, nekuti zvinogona kuitika kuti vana vako vane zvishuwo zvakasiyana zvachose uye pfungwa nezve kuwirirana. Kushanda pachiratidzo chehupenyu hwakanaka, somuenzaniso, Mikhail akaona kuti kuvapo kwake pamakwikwi kwakakosha zvikuru kumwanakomana wake. Mukomana wacho aida kuti baba vake vamutsigire, vamutsigire, uye vadade nezvaakaita. Asi haufanirwe kumuendesa kukudzidziswa mangwanani. Dai asina kukurukura izvi nemwanakomana wake, angadai akaedza kurongazve purogiramu yake kuti atore mukomana, asi angadai akaramba achipotsa makwikwi.
5. Shandisa SMART Method
Chinangwa chekutanga - kuwana kuenzanisa pakati pebasa nemhuri - inofanira kuiswa maererano ne SMART teknolojia. Tsamba yega yega muzita inovanza maitiro ekuita: S (Chaiyo) - kunyanya, M (Inoyerwa) - inoyerwa, A (Inogoneka) - inogoneka, R (Inoenderana) - yakakosha, T (Nguva Yakasungirirwa) - yakaganhurwa nenguva.
Chikanganiso chinowanzoitika ndechekuwedzeredza bhawa. Semuenzaniso, Vladimir ndiye maximalist uye anoshandiswa kuve wekutanga mune zvese. Achisarudza kuvandudza ukama hwake nomudzimai wake, akazviita nharidzano yake kudzokera kumba zuva nezuva naXNUMX:XNUMX manheru. Ichi chinangwa chakazove chisingasvikiki uye chisingaitiki: kwemakore akawanda akashanda kusvika gumi manheru, uye saka kuchinja kamwe kamwe purogiramu kwaireva kukanganisa bhizinesi. Takagadzirisa chinangwa chake: Vladimir akasarudza kuti kaviri pavhiki aiuya kumba nguva isati yakwana XNUMX manheru okurukura nomudzimai wake. Kune avo vakaroorana, uku kwaive kufambira mberi kukuru, uye vakakwanisa kuita pasina kuwedzera kunetseka uye migumisiro yakaipa yebasa.
Nekuisa chinangwa maererano ne SMART nzira, tinogona pakupedzisira kutora matanho uye zuva rega rega kutora matanho maduku pedyo nehupenyu hunoenderana uye hunofadza.