Mukati
- 1. “Zorora. Dzikama"
- 2. "Iwe hausi murume, haunzwisise izvi"
- 3. "Unoida zvakanyanya kudaro?"
- 4. "Ndave kuenda"
- 5. “Lasagna yakanaka… Asi amai vangu vari kuita zviri nani… Vakumbirei mabikirwo.”
- 6. "Zvakanaka, ndinonzwisisa, ndichazviita, zvakakwana, usandiyeuchidza"
- 7. "Mudzimai wangu wekutanga akanga achipaka mukubwaira kweziso, uye aifarirawo kushamwaridzana ..."
- 8. “Zvinokunetsa kudaro here? handisi zvachose »
Takatonyora nezve 9 mitsara iyo varume havagone kumira. Uye kunyange kugamuchira chirevo kubva kune mumwe wevaverengi - nei zvese zviri pasi pekunakidzwa kwevarume chete? Takagadzirira mhinduro ine symmetrical - panguva ino nezvevakadzi.
Pane mitsara yakati wandei isina kwayakarerekera iyo vadyidzani vanoita zvakanyanya kushushikana. Izvo zvakasiyana kune varume nevakadzi. Mutsara wakaita sekuti “Ndinoda kuzviita pachangu” haufadzwi nevarume, nekuti unomutsa mubvunzo kugona kwavo nehurume yavo.
Uye nei vakadzi vasingafariri shoko rokuti "dzikama"? Nokuti inoramba kukosha kwezviitiko zvavo.
Ndeapi mamwe mazwi anogona kukanganisa kudada kwevakadzi uye kuisa hukama munjodzi?
1. “Zorora. Dzikama"
Iwe unoramba kukosha kwemanzwiro ake. Manzwiro ese akakosha, kunyangwe akachema pamusoro ... kunyangwe iye pachake asingazivi zvaari kuchema.
Unofunga kuti iye zvino, mukatikati memwoyo, akamirira kuti iwe uti, “Zvakanaka, kuseka kuchema pamusoro pezvisina maturo zvakadaro”? Kwete, akamirira iwe kuti umumbundire, umudane izwi rerudo uye umuunzire tii inodziya.
Kana kuti, sechisarudzo chokupedzisira, tevera zano romurapi wemhuri Marcia Berger: “Paanenge agumbuka, regai ataure ndokugutsurira neshiviriro.”
2. "Iwe hausi murume, haunzwisise izvi"
Gara kure nezvinowanzoitika pamusoro pekuti varume nevakadzi ndivanaani, anodaro Ryan Howes, chiremba wepfungwa muPasadena. Izvi zvinogadzira imwe nzvimbo yekuwedzera uye isina kufanira zvachose pakati pako.
Pamusoro pazvo, mashoko okuti “haunzwisise izvi” ane imwe pfungwa yokuchinja nhaurirano nenzira isiri madikanwa.
Pamusoro pazvo, chaunoda iye zvino kuratidza kusuwa uye kushatirwa - ndiko kuti, zvimwe chete izvo zvaaida nguva pfupi yapfuura (ona ndima 1)?
Wobva wandiudza kutsamwiswa kwawakaita nekurasikirwa nechikwata chako chaunofarira (kusimudzirwa kweiyi upstart, junk mota) ...
3. "Unoida zvakanyanya kudaro?"
Zvechokwadi, zvakakosha kudzokera kune chokwadi chemari. Asi akatoshandisa mari iyoyo, uye hauzive kuti inguvai, simba, kusava nechokwadi uye kunyatsoongorora zvakatora kuti uwane chinhu chimwe chete muguta guru.
Kana kuti pamwe kwaive kupenga kwaiita kuti anzwe kureruka…
Hongu, anochida. Zvakaitika ipapo. Iye pachake anonzwisisa kuti zvino hazvichadiwi.
Sekai pamwe chete pakutenga uku uye ... tora imwe nguva manheru kugara pasi uye kupenda pamwe chete mari yakarongwa yemwedzi uye yegore rinouya.
4. "Ndave kuenda"
Usataure izwi rekuti "kurambana" kana iwe usiri kuronga kurambana.
Wako iye zvino pamwe haadi kunzwa kurumbidzwa kubva kune mumwe munhu kubva kare.
Hongu anogona kutaura kakawanda kuti ari kuenda kwaamai vake uye kunyange kukurambai, asi izvi zvakasiyana zvachose. Aya ndiwo matauriro aanoita manzwiro ake, kuti akasuruvara uye akasurukirwa. Haazovarangarira mangwana.
Asi hapana anotarisira kunzwa mashoko anotyisa aya kubva kwauri.
5. “Lasagna yakanaka… Asi amai vangu vari kuita zviri nani… Vakumbirei mabikirwo.”
Dzimwe nguva chivimbo chedu mumano edu pachedu chinoedzwa. Kuenzanisa navamwene kunogona kumutsa ndangariro dzemamwe mafambiro akawanda asina unyanzvi.
Kazhinji, zviri nani kutaura muchidimbu, semurume: "Lasagna yakanaka."
6. "Zvakanaka, ndinonzwisisa, ndichazviita, zvakakwana, usandiyeuchidza"
Mumashoko aya, chidimbu chinoti “kuneta kwamakaita,” anodaro Marcia Berger. Izvo zvakanyanya kutadza kana iwe watoita seizvi uye ... hapana chawakaita. Uyu muenzaniso wemutsara usina mhosva uyo vakadzi vasingagoni kumira.
7. "Mudzimai wangu wekutanga akanga achipaka mukubwaira kweziso, uye aifarirawo kushamwaridzana ..."
Mudiwa wazvino angangove haadi kunzwa rumbidzo kubva kune mumwe munhu wekare. Zviri nani kusafananidza vakadzi zvachose, zvisinei kuti vane makore mangani, anopa zano Marcia Berger.
8. “Zvinokunetsa kudaro here? handisi zvachose »
Nemamwe manzwi unenge uchidhirowa hofori yepfungwa, munhu asingatyi madutu, woshaya kuti sei mukadzi wako asingade kukutevedzera.
Uye zvinotopfuura izvozvo, mashoko aya anoita seanomugumbura. Nechikonzero chimwe chete chatakatanga: kunetseka, kunetseka - iyi ndiyo nzira yake yekukuchengetai imi vaviri uye kazhinji kurarama. Muudze kuti unokoshesa zvakadini!