Mukati
Nguva dziri kuchinja, maitiro kune vamwe uye isu pachedu ari kuchinja. Asi iyi stereotype pamusoro pepabonde neimwe nzira inorarama. Zvinorambwa nenyanzvi dzedu - nyanzvi dzezvepabonde Alain Eril naMireille Bonyerbal.
Zvagara zvakadzika midzi munzanga kuti varume vanowanzonzwa kuda bonde, kuva nevadiwa vakawanda uye havasarudze muhukama. Zvisinei, varume pachavo vari kuwedzera kutaura kuti vanoona kushayikwa kwekubatana kwemanzwiro nemumwe wavo uye kunzwirana tsitsi muhukama. Ndeipi yemafungiro aya iri pedyo nechokwadi?
“Vakadzi vanonyanya kuda kuita zvepabonde sezvavanoyaruka”
Alain Eriel, psychoanalyst, sexologist
Kubva pakuona kwe physiology, kubuda kwezuva nezuva kunodiwa kuti murume aite zvakanaka ma testicles uye prostate. Vamwe varwere vanorayirwa neurologist kuita bonhora kamwe chete pazuva. Inenge inzira yekurapa! Muvakadzi, maitiro anokonzera chido anonyanya kuenderana nezvinhu zvakadai semamiriro ekunze, mamiriro, mafungiro ake.
Chido chemukadzi chinotariswa zvishoma nechimiro uye zvakanyanya nechikonzero. Zvido zvake zvepabonde chikamu chekukura kwake; mupfungwa iyi, mukadzi anonyanya kurongwa maererano nenheyo ye "kuva". Murume, kune rumwe rutivi, anonyanya kutarisana nemakwikwi, kukwikwidzana, chido che "kuva" chinokunda maari.
"Kumurume, bonde inzira yekuti "Ndinokuda"
Mireille Bonierbal, chiremba wepfungwa, nyanzvi yezvepabonde
Mashoko aya ndeechokwadi, asi zvakawanda pano zvinoenderana nezera. Kusvika makore makumi matatu nemashanu, varume vari pasi pesimba rehomoni dzepabonde dzinovakurira. Vanoita sevavhimi. Zvadaro chiyero che testosterone chinoderera.
Vakadzi vaduku havanyanyi kuzviisa pasi pezvinorayirwa nebiological; nekutanga kwekukura, apo zvirambidzo zvemukati uye taboos zvinopera, ivo vanonyanya kuda kuita zvepabonde.
Kunyange zvakadaro, kana mukadzi akawana rudo rwake, saka panguva ipi zvayo yehupenyu hwake zviri nyore kuti aite pasina zvepabonde pane murume. Kune murume anogara achinyima nemashoko, bonde rinova nzira yekuti "Ndinokuda."