PSYchology

Scandal muchikoro chechi57, mwedzi mina gare gare mu "League of Schools" ... Sei izvi zvichiitika? Process Therapist Olga Prokhorova anotaura nezve nzira yekugadzira nzvimbo yakachengeteka muzvikoro zvakakosha apo vadzidzisi vanoshamwaridzana nevadzidzi.

CHIKORO CHECHIKORO CHIPINGERERA CHIKAMU CHEKUZIVO

Makore mazhinji apfuura, ini pachangu ndakadzidza kwegore pane chimwe chikoro chakakurumbira cheMoscow, "special" institution ine chirongwa chevana vepamusoro, tsika dzakapfuma uye chinamato chehama dzechikoro.

Handina kudzika midzi mairi, kunyange zvazvo vakawanda vaifara zvechokwadi ikoko. Zvimwe nemhaka yokuti ndakakurira mumhuri huru “yaiva nomutsa,” kwakanga kusiri kwomuzvarirwo kuti ndione chikoro somusha wechipiri. Izvi zvakandimanikidza kugovera zvinonaka uye hunhu hwehuwandu hukuru hwevanhu vaisagara vari pedyo neni. Uye hukama nevadzidzisi, umo kwaiedza kuswedera pedyo uye kushamwaridzana navo, kushamisika kwangu kwakashanduka kuva chokwadi chokuti vadzidzisi vangave vakaunza vadzidzi pedyo kana kure kure, vakarumbidzwa uye vakaderedzwa kazhinji kwete kubva pakudzidzisa, asi kubva. hukama hwemunhu.

Zvose zvaiita sezvisina kuchengeteka uye zvisina kururama kwandiri. Gare gare, ndakaona kuti zvingava nani kuti vana vangu vaende kuchikoro chenguva dzose, pasina "megalomania" yakadaro.

Zvisinei, mwanakomana wangu muduku akazova mwana ane makaro makuru uye chido chezivo, uye akapindawo chikoro chakakosha, chepamusoro - "Intellectual". Uye nerudo rwuri pachena rwevadzidzi vechikoro ichi kune avo mater mater, ndakaona mutsauko wakakura. Muchikoro ichi, kapoka kega kaive kakapopotera ruzivo. Haisi hukama hwemunhu nevadzidzi, kupenga uye zvishuwo zvinofadza vadzidzisi, asi rudo rusingaperi rwechidzidzo chavo, rukudzo rwesainzi uye mutoro wezviito zvavo.

Scandal mu "League of Schools": nei zvikoro zvedzidzo zvakavharwa zvine ngozi? Verenga vabereki

PANE TERRITORY

Ndakateerera hurukuro huru paYouTube nemutungamiriri weLigi yeZvikoro, Sergei Bebchuk. Ndakateerera ndikaona kuti kunyange hafu yegore rapfuura ndaigona kubvumirana noushamwari nezvinhu zvakawanda. Nechokwadi, semuenzaniso, kuti mudzidzisi anofanira kupihwa rusununguko rwekusarudza mabhuku, kuti haafanire kuve pasi pezvinodiwa zvedhipatimendi redhipatimendi - nezve, semuenzaniso, kukwirira kwechando kunofanira kunge kuri pedyo nechikoro. Chii chaunoda kuvimba nemutungamiriri uye mudzidzisi.

Kune rumwe rutivi, ndakakwevera kune chokwadi chokuti matauriro ake akaiswa zvakajeka: chinhu chikuru ndechekufarira kwomudzidzi kumudzidzisi. Uye chinonyanya kukosha, kutanga kune zvose, "kukunda" vana, uye zvino zvichave zvichibvira kuvafurira pakatarisana nemamiriro ezvinhu aya. Kubva pane izvi de kunowedzera kufarira munyaya yacho. Nokuti ipapo vana vachanyara kusadzidza zvidzidzo - shure kwezvose, mudzidzisi wavo anodiwa akaedza, akagadzirira makirasi.

Hungu, pwere dziri nyore kupesvedzera. Iyi, kubva pakuona kwesocial psychology, inharaunda inoshanduka nyore kuita mhomho - ine zvese zvinotevera zvivakwa. Kune rimwe divi, nhengo yega yega yeboka revechiri kuyaruka inobatikana zvakanyanya nekugona kwavo uye chishuwo chekuve akasiyana.

“Haufanire kuda vadzidzi. Enda kumba ude vana vako. Unofanira kuda zvaunoita »

Zvimwe mashoko angu achaita seasina kujairika kwauri, asi semaonero angu, mudzidzisi haasungirwe kuda vadzidzi vake. Remekedza hongu, rudo kwete. Mumwe mudzidzisi akanaka, purofesa weTula Olga Zaslavskaya anowanzo dzokorora mutsara unotevera pahurukuro dzevadzidzisi: "Haufaniri kuda vadzidzi. Enda kumba ude vana vako. Unofanira kuda basa rako.” Zvechokwadi, chirevo hachiregi kufarira, tsitsi uye kuremekedza vadzidzi. Asi apo chikoro chinotsiva mhuri, uye vadzidzisi vachinyepedzera kuva hama dzepedyo, pane ngozi yokuputsika kwemiganhu.

Izvi hazvifanirwe kutorwa sezvazviri - hongu, munhu wese anogona kunge aine zvaanoda. Asi kudada kunopisa, godo, kunyengedza, kuedza kukwezva kirasi yese uye mudzidzi mumwe nemumwe kunyanya - iyi ihunhu husina basa.

Apo chikoro chinoti imhuri, mupfungwa yakati, chinokwira mundima isiri iyo. Kune vana vakawanda, inonyatsova nzvimbo yemhuri. Mukati mesangano rakadaro zvakanaka, chero bedzi vanhu varipo vane tsika uye vasina kukanganisa. Asi kana mumwe munhu asina kuchena mupfungwa asvika ikoko, nzvimbo yakadaro inomupa mikana yakawanda ye "zombify" vana uye kuvashandisa.

Kana ini ndichinzwisisa nemazvo matauriro aBebchuk naIzyumov, muchikoro chavo dzidziso yese, iyo yese pedagogical system yakavakirwa pane inoshanda, invasive pesvedzero yehunhu hwemudzidzisi.

MHURI YEMHURI

Kana chikoro chiri mhuri, saka mitemo inoshanda ipapo yakafanana neyemhuri. Somuenzaniso, munyaya yokuita makunakuna mumhuri, mwana anotya kubvuma kuti mumwe wevabereki anozvibvumira kuva asingagamuchiriki.

Kumwana, kutaura chimwe chinhu pamusoro pababa kana amai hakusi kungounza nyadzi, asiwo kutengesa munhu ane chiremera kwaari. Chinhu chimwe chetecho chinoitika muchikoro, uko kunorimwa hukama hunokosha, hwakavharirwa kune dzimwe nyika. Naizvozvo, vazhinji vevakabatwa vakanyarara - havagone kupikisana ne "mubereki".

Asi chinhu chakaipisisa ndechokuti vana vanorwisana mukurwisana kuti vaonekwe nechiremera ichi. Bumbiro reLeague of Schools rinoti vadzidzisi vanogona kuve nevanofarira. Hongu, inotaura kuti idzi dzinodiwa dzinobvunzwa zvakanyanya, asi pfungwa yacho pachayo haigamuchirwi. Vana vanotanga kurwira kutariswa kwemudzidzisi, nekuti mwana wese anoda kunzwa achidiwa neavo vane chiremera kwaari.

Dambudziko nderekuti mitemo yechikoro yakadai ihurongwa hwakaputsika. Vanongoshanda chete kana uchivimba nehunhu hwemudzidzisi. Izvo zvakanyorwa mubumbiro remitemo yechikoro zvinoenderana nekusakanganisa kwehunhu hwemudzidzisi kusvika pamwero zvekuti tyisidziro. Uye ndiro dambudziko.

CHII CHINOtenderwa KUCHIKORO

Pane chiremera, panofanira kuva nemiganhu. Ini ndinoda izvo pachikoro icho mwanakomana wangu anodzidza, vana vanoenda nzendo nevadzidzisi vekirasi, vanogona kuenda kunonwa tii nemutungamiriri, vachipa mudzidzisi webiology todhi muhari panzvimbo yemaruva musi waGunyana XNUMX.

Ndinofunga nekutya kuti pamusoro, izvi zvinhu zvidiki kumba (zvikuru zvine chekuita nenyaya yekuti vana vanogara mukamuri yekurara yechikoro, kana kupedza nguva mumakirabhu kusvika manheru), chikoro chedu chinogona kukanganisa nzvimbo isina kuchengetedzeka. Asi ini ndinoona musiyano mukuru!

Mwoyo wangu unonyura pavanodaidzira kuti zvikoro zvese zvepamusoro zvivharwe. Zvakafanana nekubvisa hurongwa hwemhuri, nekuti makunakuna anoitika mairi.

Semuenzaniso, nzira iyo makamuri ekurara evakomana nevasikana akanyatsoparadzaniswa nepasi (pasina kodzero yekupinda mumwe nemumwe pasi), kuti mitemo inogadziriswa sei, inondifadza uye inondibvumira kuvimba zvizere nehutungamiri. Ndinoziva kuti kana pane kusava nechokwadi kupi nokupi ndichanyatsoteererwa nevakuru vechikoro uye hapana achazombondiudza kuti ndinofanira kuvimba nevadzidzisi zvizere uye pasina chikonzero. The Academic Council, iyo inosanganisira vese vabereki nevadzidzi, yakasindimara uye ine chiremera.

Zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti kana zvakajairika kuenda kumutungamiriri wetii, ipapo mamiriro ezvinhu umo vana vanopinda muhofisi, kuvhara musuo shure kwavo, uye kuvaisa pamabvi avo haisi yakajairika chero mamiriro ezvinhu. Dambudziko rose nderekutsvaga muganhu wepamutemo.

Nokudaro, kune kutsamwa kukuru uye kutsamwa: zvose zvakanakisisa zviri muzvikoro zvakadaro, ikozvino, mushure mekunyadzisa, mukuona kwevanhu kunosanganiswa nezvose zvinotyisa. Uye izvi zvinokanda mumvuri kune avo vasingakwire pasi pemipendero yevadzidzi, vanogona chaizvo kuva tsigiro yemwana panguva yakaoma, kune vane hanya uye vane pfungwa dzakachena.

KUDZIDZWA KWEMIGARA

Mwoyo wangu unonyura apo, mushure mezviitiko zvakadaro, vodaidzira kuti zvikoro zvese zvevakuru zvivharwe. Zvakafanana nekubvisa hurongwa hwemhuri, nekuti makunakuna anoitika mairi. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti vabereki vatange kunzwisisa zviri kuitika mumhuri.

Vakawanda zvikurusa vavasikana vakawana chimwe chinhu chakadaro havana kuroorwa, havagamuchiriki mumhuri yavo vamene. Havavimbi nevabereki vavo. Pamusoro pezvo, vanofunga seizvi: wakapinda muchikoro ichi zvakaoma, nekuda kwekutsvoda kamwe chete unoisa panjodzi kugara kwako munzvimbo ino ... Mwana ari parumananzombe: kana ukatanga kurwira kururamisira, pane njodzi kudzingwa uye kutongwa. Uyu mutoro usingatsungiririki kune wechidiki.

Asi zvakadaro, chinhu chikuru chinogona kuitwa kudzivirira mamiriro ezvinhu akadaro (uye anoitika mune chero, kunyange sekondari) kuremekedza miganhu yemuviri yemwana uye nekuyeuchidza asinganeti kuti hapana ane kodzero yekumubata kana asina. like it. Uye kana chiitiko chekunyara, kusava nechokwadi, kusemeswa kwezviito zvemudzidzisi, iwe unofanirwa kugovera izvi. Kuti aite izvi, wechiduku anofanira kuziva kuti vabereki vachakwanisa kuzvibata zvakadzikama uye zvine mwero, kuti vanovimba nemwanakomana kana mwanasikana wavo uye havazoshandisi kuvimbana kuti vanyengedze.

Zvakakosha kuti chiremera chemudzidzisi hachibvi pakuvimba neupofu, asi pamitemo yake yetsika.

Kuti uwane kuvimba uku, unofanirwa kuratidza mwana kuti acharamba achitsigirwa mumhuri. Mwana anowana maviri anogona kuenda kumba achinetseka zvikuru, achiziva kuti acharangwawo nokuda kwechiratidzo ichi. Kana kuti zvimwe, ndauya kumba, kuzosangana nekuita kwakadaro: “O, unofanira kunge wakatsamwa? Ngatifungei kuti mungabatsira sei kugadzirisa."

Ini ndinovimba chaizvo nekubatana kwakajairika kwevadzidzisi nevabereki. Pamusoro pekuvandudzwa kwemiganhu inonzwisisika, yakajeka uye yakarurama - pasina kuwandisa kwakadaro, apo chinhambwe pakati pemudzidzisi nemudzidzi chinoyerwa nemutongi, asi chisingatauriki chinokweverwa, pakutaura kwemitemo.

Zvakakosha kuti mudzidzi wose azive kwaanofanira kutendeukira mumazuva ekusava nechokwadi uye kufungisisa kunorwadza, kuitira kuti chiremera chemudzidzisi chirege kuvakirwa pakutenda kweupofu, asi pamitemo yake yetsika, kuremekedzana uye pamunhu mukuru, nzvimbo yehupenyu hwakachenjera. Mudzidzisi. Nokuti apo mudzidzisi anogutsa zvishuvo zvake uye zvido zvake pamutengo wevadzidzi vake, pasina kana kuputsa Mutemo weCriminal, izvi zvinotaura nezvehucheche hwake uye husina simba.

Vabereki vose vanofanira kuteerera:

1. Unhu hwomutungamiriri. Zvisarudzire wega kuti munhu uyu anodaira sei, zvakajeka sei zvaanotenda nenheyo kwauri, kuti anozviisa sei maererano nevadzidzi nevabereki.

2. Mamiriro ezvinhu ari muchikoro. Chikoro chinovimba zvakanyanya nemakwikwi pakati pevadzidzi here? Ane hanya nemunhu wese here? Kana vana vachikwikwidza kusingaperi uye chero munhu anogona kusiya chikoro nyore, izvi zvinenge zvakazara nekushushikana kukuru uye neuroses.

3. Matanho ekuona kuchengetedzwa kwemuganhu. Pane akajeka uye anonzwisisika kurudziro yevadzidzi, kune vepfungwa vasina kuisirwa simba rekutonga mukuwana nguva dzose.

4. Chido chemwana pachakezvidzidzo nesainzi. Kana zvaanofarira zvichikudziridzwa mumwe nemumwe, kana kusasiyana kwake kuchiremekedzwa uye kuti nyota yezivo inokurudzirwa here.

5. Intuition. Iwe unowana ino nzvimbo yakachengeteka, ine hushamwari, yakachena uye yakatendeseka. Kana pane chiri kukunetsa kuchikoro, teerera kunzwa kwako. Uye kana chimwe chinhu chiri kutsamwisa mwana wako - teerera zvakapetwa kaviri.

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