Mukati
Imwe stereotype yakajairika pamusoro pepabonde. Zvinorambwa nenyanzvi dzedu, nyanzvi dzezvepabonde Alain Eril naMireille Bonyerbal.
Alain Eril, psychoanalyst, sexologist:
Kubva pakuona kwe physiology, mukadzi anonyatsokwanisa kuona akawanda orgasms, nguva iyo isingapfuuri maminetsi matatu. Asi 3% chete yevakadzi vanowana "yakawanda orgasm" yakadaro, sezvo pfungwa yepfungwa pano inokunda physiology: vakadzi vakawanda vanosarudza kusashandisa iyi mano avo, vachitya vasingazvizivi.
Kana ari murume, apedza kubuda urume anofanira kupinda muchikamu chekupora, paanenge asingakwanise kunakidzwa, kunyangwe ari murudo zvekusvika pakupenga.
Vamwe varume vanoda chaizvo kuita kuti mukadzi awane akawanda orgasms kuti ave nechokwadi chehurume hwavo.
Pano, mubvunzo unonyanya kufadza unoratidzika kwandiri kuti murume anoshandisa sei nguva achimuparadzanisa kubva pachikamu chinotevera chekumuka. Angasvuta achimirira kuti zvisikwa zvifambe, kana kuti angaramba achishamwaridzana nomukadzi achiri kubatwa nehope. Muchiitiko chekupedzisira, chichave chichiwedzerwa nechishuwo chemudiwa, uye kune hukama mukati mevakaroorana izvi zvinobereka zvikuru.
Mireille Bonierbal, chiremba wepfungwa, nyanzvi yezvepabonde:
Izwi rekuti "zvisingagumi" rinondivhundutsa nekuti rinoisa imwe tsika. Kubva pakuona kwehupenyu, vakadzi vanokwanisa izvi, asi kune vamwe, imwe orgasm yakakwana. Nekudaro, vamwe varume, vakagadzika pane iyi pfungwa ye "infinity", zvechokwadi vanoda kumanikidza mukadzi kuti awane akawanda orgasms kuitira kuti vazvisimbise ivo pachavo hunhu hwechirume.
Vanobva vaenzanisa kubudirira kwavo nekwemumwe wavo. Kana zvikazoitika kuti vanoda nguva yakawanda yekupora (uye kune varume, chikamu chekupora chinogona kubva pamaminetsi mashanu kusvika husiku hwese), vanobva vafunga kuti chimwe chinhu chakashata navo voenda kuna chiremba. Zvichakadaro, zvepabonde muvanhu vakasiyana zvinosiyana zvakanyanya, asi zvichiramba zviri mukati mezvakajairwa.