Iva baba vepamba

1,5% vanababa vanogara pamba muFrance

Vanababa vanomwe pagumi vanotora avo Paternity leave muFrance. Ukuwo, vashoma ndivo vanosarudza kurega kushanda kwemazuva anopfuura 11 kuti vachengete vana vavo vhiki rose. Saka, 4% chete yevarume vanowedzera zororo ravo rekuzvarwa kuti vatore zororo redzidzo yevabereki. Uye maererano neINSEE, nhamba ye vana baba vekumba (inowanzonzi PAF) inowira ku1,5%! Uye zvakadaro, maererano neongororo yakaitwa naSarenza muna 2015 (1), 65% yevarume vangave vakagadzirira kuva varume kumba. Kuipa kwazvo ivo vashoma kwazvo kuti vashinga. Kunyanya kana iwe uchiziva kuti zvakaoma sei kuti vanaamai vawane chiyero chinogutsa chebasa-hupenyu, tichifunga nezvekushaikwa kwenzvimbo dzekireshi, kusada kwemakambani kuita kuti maawa avo awedzere kuchinjika kana kupa runhare. Chii chiri kutadzisa vana baba kuti vasarudze vana pahofisi? Kutya kusabudirira. Zvinoenderana neongororo yakaitwa naSarenza, makumi mana muzana avo vanotya kufinhwa kumba kana kuti havanzwe vasingakwanisi kuita basa ...

Nzira chaiyo yekuwana zvakanyanya kubva kuvana vako 

Nharo yekuti vana baba vekumba vanokurumidza kudzingwa. Rieg ane makore makumi matatu nemanomwe. Akasiya basa rake kuti atarisire chikamu chezana chemwana wake wechipiri kwegore, uye haana kupedza mwedzi gumi nemiviri achingoshanyarika, kure nazvo… Akaseka: “Ndakanyatsonzwisisa hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwemudzimai wangu. ! »Uye zadzisa« Inguva yakasarudzika uye yakasimba, unofanirwa kuirarama zvizere. Ndisati ndambopedza nguva shoma nemwanasikana wangu aiva negore rimwe chete, uye pashure pemazuva mashomanana ndiri pamba, takakwanisa kuumbazve ukama chaihwo. Asi sarudzo yekugara kumba kwababa dzimwe nguva inopindura a zveupfumi pfungwa. Urovha kana kuti muhoro wakaderera zvikuru kupfuura waamai zvingaparira varoorani kuzvironga vamene neiyi nzira uye mukuita ikoku vachengetedze mari yokutarisira mwana norutivi rwemitero. Muchiitiko ichi, chenjerera kuora mwoyo, nokuti kutarisira hupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwevana kunoda simba rakawanda uye kushivirira maawa makumi maviri nemana pazuva. Uye mabreak uye RTT haapo! 

Mazano ekuva baba vanofara vanogara-pamba

Benjamin Buhot, aka Till the Cat, ane mukurumbira PAF blogger pawebhu, anosimbirira pakuda kwekuve baba vepamba nesarudzo kwete nekumanikidzwa. Zvikasadaro, vanababa vanogona kushaya rruzivo rwemagariro mumaziso eavo vakavapoteredza. Kunyanya kana vachiri kuona mari sechiratidzo chebudiriro… Zvinogona kukanganisa kusawirirana kwevaviri. Amai vanotsvaga basa ravo nekukurumidza uye vachivimba newavakaroora padzidzo yevana uye manejimendi emba, vanofanirwa kubvuma kugovera mabasa ayo achiri kunzi "echikadzi". Muchidimbu, zvinotora zvakawanda kuvhura pfungwa uye kuvimbana. Rimwe dambudziko rokudzivisa: kusurukirwa. Vanababa vasingagari pamba, zvikurukuru kana vaiva nebasa umo kuonana navanhu kwakanga kuri kwenguva dzose zvikuru, vaifarira kupinda musonganiro dzavabereki namamwe mapoka avabereki kuti vakurukure mibvunzo yavo ndokuchengeta batano nenyika yakavapoteredza. Vamwe vanababa vanoita sarudzo yepakati uye vanononoka muhupenyu hwavo hwehunyanzvi kuti vachengete vana vavo, asiwo kutevera zvimwe zvinangwa zvemunhu: kugadzira bhizinesi, kudzidziswazve, kugadzira chirongwa… Muchiitiko ichi, basa rekugara-pamba-. baba vari shanduko uye kwete sarudzo yeupenyu kwemakore anotevera. Kuti vafungisise sevakaroorana? 

Kuti zvimwe…

– Paternity leave in practice 

- Bhuku raDamien Lorton: "Baba ndiamai sevamwe"

 

(1) Chidzidzo "Ko maprofessionals ane jenda here maererano nevarume?", Yakaitwa naSarenza vachibatsirana naHarris Interactive pachiitiko cheZuva reMadzimai, pakati pevarume mazana mashanu vane makore gumi nemasere zvichikwira.

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