Kuzvida ndiko manyuko ezvakanaka uye ruremekedzo. Kana manzwiro aya asina kukwana, hukama hunova hwehutongi kana hunovakwa maererano ne "mutambudzi-mutambudzi" rudzi. Kana ini ndisingazvidi ini, saka handizokwanisi kuda mumwe, nokuti ndichaedza chinhu chimwe chete - kudiwa pachangu.
Ndinofanira kukumbira "zvekuzadza" kana kurega manzwiro emumwe munhu nekuti ini handisati ndakwana nazvo. Chero zvazvingava, zvichava zvakaoma kwandiri kupa chimwe chinhu: pasina kuzvida ini, ndinofunga kuti handigoni kupa chero chinhu chinokosha uye chinonakidza kune mumwe.
Uyo asingadi pachake, anotanga ashandisa, uye ozoparadza kuvimba kwemumwe wake. "Mupi werudo" anonyara, anotanga kusava nechokwadi uye pakupedzisira anoneta nekuratidza manzwiro ake. Basa harigoneki: haugone kupa mumwe zvaanogona kuzvipa iye ega - kuzvida.
Uyo asingazvidi anowanzobvunza asingazivi mirangariro yomumwe: “Nei achida chinhu chisina maturo seni? Saka akatoipa kupfuura ini!» Kushaikwa kwekuzvida kunogonawo kutora chimiro chekuzvipira kunenge kwemunhu, kupengeswa nerudo. Asi kupengereka kwakadaro kunovharidzira kuda kusingagutsikane kwokudiwa.
Saka, mumwe mukadzi akandiudza kutambura kwaakaita… nekutaura kwemurume wake kwerudo nguva dzose! Paive nekushungurudzwa kwepfungwa kwakavanzwa mavari kwakabvisa zvese zvingave zvakanaka muhukama hwavo. Pashure pokunge aparadzana nomurume wake, akarasikirwa nemakirogiramu makumi maviri, ayo akanga awana kare, asingazivi achiedza kuzvidzivirira kubva pakureurura kwake kunotyisa.
Ndakakodzera kuremekedzwa, saka ndakakodzera kudiwa
Rudo rwemumwe harumbofi rwakagadzirisa kusada kwedu pachedu. Sokunge pasi pechifukidziro cherudo rweumwe munhu unogona kuvanza kutya kwako uye kunetseka! Kana munhu asingazvidi, anoshuva rudo rwakakwana, rusina magumo uye anoda kuti mumwe wake amuratidze nehumwe humbowo hwemanzwiro ake.
Mumwe murume akandiudza nezvemusikana wake, uyo akamutambudza chaizvoizvo nemirangariro, achiedza ukama hwacho nokuda kwesimba. Mukadzi uyu aiita seaimubvunza nguva dzese kuti, "Ucharamba uchindida here kunyangwe ndikakubata zvakaipa kana usingavimbe neni?" Rudo rusingasanganisiri chimiro chechiremera haruumbi munhu uye harugutsi zvaanoda.
Ini pachangu ndaiva mwana wandaida, pfuma yaamai vangu. Asi akavaka hukama neni kuburikidza nemirairo, nhema uye kutyisidzira izvo zvaisanditendera kudzidza kuvimba, mutsa uye kuzvida. Pasinei nokunamatwa kwaamai vangu, ndakanga ndisingazvidi. Pazera remakore mapfumbamwe ndakarwara uye ndaifanira kurapwa muchipatara. Ikoko ndakasangana nemukoti uyo (kokutanga muupenyu hwangu!) akandipa manzwiro anoshamisa: Ini ndinokosha - sezvandiri. Ndakakodzera kuremekedzwa, zvinoreva kuti ndakakodzera kudiwa.
Panguva yekurapa, haisi rudo rwemurapi runobatsira kuchinja maonero ako, asi hutano hwehukama hwaanopa. Ukama hwakavakirwa pakufarira uye kukwanisa kuteerera.
Ndicho chikonzero nei ndisinganeti kudzokorora: chipo chakanakisisa chatinogona kupa mwana hachisi kunyanya kumuda asi kumudzidzisa kuzvida.