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“Ndinoda murume wangu kupfuura vana vangu”
Ayelet Waldman munyori uye amai vevana vana. Muna 2005, akapinda mukunyora kwebhuku Nekuti ndataura, umo vakadzi 33 vanotaura pamusoro pevana, murume kana mukadzi, varume, zera ravo, kutenda uye ivo vamene. Hezvino izvo zvaanotaura:
“Kana ndikafirwa nemwana ndinorwadziwa asi ndinoona mumwe pashure. Nekuti ndingadai ndichine murume wangu. Nekune rumwe rutivi, ini handikwanisi kuzvimiririra pachangu kuvapo mushure mekufa kwake. “
Chirevo chinonyadzisa
Ichi chiziviso chinokurumidza kumutsa fungu rekutsamwa pakati pavanamai, vasinganzwisisi kuti mukadzi angada sei murume wake “kupfuura” vana vake. Kutyisidzirwa, kutukwa, kufona kumasocial services… Ayelet Waldman anova chipfuro chekurwiswa nechisimba.
Anonyanya kufarirwa nevatambi veTV, Oprah Winfrey, anomukoka pachiratidziro chake kuti azvitsanangure. Asi gakava rinodzokera zvakare kukutongwa. Pakati pevamwe vaenzi, "vana chete ndivo vaive parutivi rwangu, vamwe makumi maviri vaida kundishungurudza," anodaro Ayelet Waldman.
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“Ndaigona kurarama ndisina murume wangu. »Rav511
“Mashoko emunyori uyu anondirovesa nehana. Hazvisi nyore kutsanangura… Ndinozviona zvakashata kutaura kuti pakupedzisira, aigona kurarama asina vana vake, asi kwete pasina murume wake. Ini pachangu (zvandava kuda kutaura zvimwe zvakaipawo!), Handaikwanisa kurarama pakufirwa nevana vangu, uye nepo ndichida murume wangu, ndaigona kupfuurira kurarama kunyange ndisina. Vana vangu "zvipo", murume wangu "sarudzo". Musiyano unogona kunge uripo. Asi chokwadi, kutaura kwerudzi urwu kunoita kuti ndisvetuke! ”
“Kana mwana azvarwa, ndiye anotanga. »Aenas
“Kwandiri kuda nekudzidzisa mwana wako kuda kumuona achienda rimwe zuva! Ndinofungawo kuti chido chemwana chinosanganisira udyire hukuru, asi, kana mwana angoberekwa, ndiye iye uye kwete zvishuwo zvenarcissistic zvevabereki zvinouya pakutanga.
Zvekuti ungakunda here kurasikirwa nemwana, kutenda kwangu, chero usingazvione, haugone kutaura zvakawanda… “
“Ndaisazokwanisa kurarama nekufa kwemumwe wevana vangu. »Neptunia
“Sei tichigara tichiti hatizviitire mwana? Kunyanya, kana iwe uchida mwana, hazvirevi kuti iwe pachako: "Pano, ini ndichapa hupenyu kumunhu muduku kuitira kuti abve andisiya uye aite ake", kwete. Tinoita mwana nokuti tinoda mwana, kumupuruzvira, kumuda, kumupa zvose zvaanoda, kumurera, kwete nokuti tinoda kuti ave. 'enda shure.
Zvakajairika kuti aite hupenyu hwake mushure, ndiko kuyerera kunonzwisisika kwezvinhu, asi handizvo zvatinozviita.
Kana ndirini, vana vangu vanouya pamberi pomumwe wangu, nekuti iye nyama yenyama yangu. Hongu, kana ndikarasikirwa neimwe yacho ndaizozvidemba, asi ndaisazokwanisa kutsungirira rufu rwemwana wangu. “
“Nemwana, takabatana nekusingaperi. ” kiti2012
“Vana vangu tangai! Varume, zvinoenda, zvinouya, kusanganisira kana iwe wafunga kuwira pamusoro pemweya mate, baba vevana vako uye rudo rwehupenyu hwako. Kune rumwe rutivi, takabatanidzwa nokusingagumi kuvana vedu. “
“Mwoyo waamai unogona kutsungirira chero chinhu uye kuregerera chero chinhu. ” vanmoro2
“Sekuda kwandinoita murume wangu, rudo rwandinarwo kumwanakomana wangu haruna kuverengeka. Naamai vangu, tinowanzoti: "Mwoyo waamai unogona kutsungirira chero chinhu uye kukanganwira chero chinhu". Rudo rwangu kumwanakomana wangu rwuri visceral. Zviri pachena kuti kune vamwe, rudo kuvana vavo ishoma pane kune wavakaroorana naye. Iniwo, ini handigone kuzvibata kana kuzvinzwisisa. Zvichida zvakaitika kare zvevakadzi ava zvinotsanangura manzwiro avanoita. Ndingawedzera kuti zvakaoma kuverenga Rudo ... "